I never really consciously thought about this before until I read the post but I definitely have some items that need to be checked off before I consider seeing a girl and I also have some others that are not 'required' as much as 'preferred':
Requirements:
* BBBJ. A cover doesn't cut it for me.
* DFK: I think that DFK and LFK are sort of misused so I guess I need a woman that is into sensual kissing at the least.
* CIM: Not because I get off on a girl letting me do this as much as for the fact that there may be some preliminary discharge that I can't control due to a medical condition. If she is going to freak out about it then that will ruin the mood.
* "Looks": This one differs from day-to-day for me. Some days I'm looking for a hot busty milf, other days a thin, sexy co-ed. Some days I really want to see a hot and sexy BBW and sometimes I'm even looking for a 'butter-face'! But in any case, when I'm looking for a provider I tend to have a 'look' in mind.
* A certain level of inhibition. Yes, it is nice to see that trips to Greece are available because that suggests that the girl might get a little wild. I also look to see if the girl shows some signs of submissiveness or even just a raunchy, no-holds barred attitude.
* Financial compatibility: I have a budget. I know how much I can spend on 'play time'. I also have an idea of what I expect based on a woman's price point. So, I won't pay over my own budget (which could change day-to-day or more likely week-to-week) and I won't pay more for an appointment if I don't think that the fee matches the service level.
Desired but not required:
* Greek
* FIV: I really love to finger bang a beautiful woman. In fact, I really have to want to see a particular woman based on other factors if FIV is not allowed.
* Submissive: I'm not into any 'master/slave' sort of thing but I sometimes prefer a girl who likes to be tossed around a bit.
Good thread, got me thinking!
