I am a noob with escorts, actually was my very first time with one. I saw the add here on TER, she looks really good and she has very good reviews so I give it a try. She came and we spent a pleasant time , overall it was good. The next day I decided to became a VIP member on TER, don't ask my why. And I looked at her juicy detail stories. After seeing what others said about the time spent with her I realize that mine was just average or even below. (I should have done it earlier, now I know)
She did not do to me what she did with others like: bbbj or cim. Now I don't understand why? Did I do something wrong, do you have to ask for it or how does it works? From what the review say she just did it for others without any special request. I tried to be gentle and soft with her, I am usually not pushy, anything wrong with that?
Being the first time I was stressed but not that much, I am clean and not that old(I think), i am in my early 40es so I don't know what to say.
I like her and so at first, before becoming a VIP member, I thought about seeing her again but now I don't know if I should see her and ask for more, or just look in some other place.
Any advice?Did anybody had a similar situation?
Any reason for not getting the whole menu?
How is the right way to behave with them to get all she offers?


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You said you had a good time until you read the other reviews...don't let what other people experienced with the same provider change your view of your time with her.  I'm still fairly new myself, but I quickly learned the acronym YMMV, Your Mileage May Vary...many factors go into deciding the outcome of a meeting: your experience, her experiences, how she feels on that day or at that time, the chemistry between the two of you, etc.  Maybe that provider only offers certain services to repeat callers, maybe she was having an "off day", maybe she just wasn't comfortable with you...only she knows for sure.

I'm sure that many of us have had experiences that were below expectations set by the reviews, and also experiences that failed to live up to expectations.  My advice to you is to research here before you hobby, and if you find that the experience did not live up to your expectations, either find another provider or try again and see if the "menu" changes upon repeat business if you really did enjoy your experience but it just fell slightly short.

Always treat the ladies kindly and with respect, and my experience is that they will treat you the same...and if not, there are plenty of other options around

link to your review?

You should  ask the girl in question anonymously (not on this board).  You can call her and say that you were a bit shy, since it was your first time.  Would she like to see you again?  If you are concerned about the bbbj and cim, try to be direct, as you have seen her before, would this be ok?

Age shouldn't be a problem, sometimes with very young providers, but a true professional, should not discriminate with age.  Cleanliness is huge, but if you are clean, as you lead me to believe, that shouldn't be a problem.   Also, don't always believe, everything you read, some reviews are embellished.  Although maybe she was in a non-oral mood.  Best bet, ask her, not the greek chorus.

Be forthright, honest, dramafree and kind to your providers, and in MOST cases you will reap what you sow.

Happy hobbying.  Kisses to Aquaman and  hi to Chelsea, you both give great advice and rock!!!!

Kathi

and I'm still smiling over our meeting last week.  YOU rock

I didn't want to be dramatic, it just doesn't feel good to see others getting a nice desert for the same price. It just makes me feel stupid.

I also taught that the reviews may not be accurate, but from10 reviews, 9 said they had bbj, or cim or both.So i don't think that all of them are inaccurate. She doesn't answer the phone she just answer emails

I think I'll fallow you advise and give it another chance and ask her if she feel OK with what I want.