That I have to try to practice a little restraint..

I gotta cut down... I saw about 23 women in 2015.. too many.. lots and lots of great ones.. a year to remember.. but at some point, I have to try and say to myself.. No... you can survive if you don't see ..whoever happens to catch my eye on a particular day.. But it's SO hard.. but SO much fun..

I initially sought out this hobby simply for excitement and fun. I now find myself enjoying making connections just as much as the sex. Of course, an alluring figure, pretty face, and smooth skin will always turn me on, but a genuine laugh/smile, good conversation, and a friendly attitude will keep me coming back for more.

My initial thoughts about this hobby, before discovering TER, was a combination of misinformation and ignorance. I used to envision an encounter with a provider as a simple phone call followed by a quickie rendezvous in a car or bathroom stall. I expected that half of the encounters would either be LE, bait and switch, or outright theft. As a newbie that did not want to have a horrendous first experience so I utilized my resources on TER and I learned to stick to verified and reputable providers that screen because they will provide much more than just a mind-blowing FS.

My TWO biggest lessons for 2015 are...
1) There is always more to learn about yourself, those around you, and the universe we all occupy.
2) Don't be afraid to take risks, but there is a difference between a dumb risk and a well-informed risk

When confronted with a new term, especially in the area of new politically correct terminology, don't assume that it must mean this or that and act on your assumptions. Look it up!  

Politically correct terminology is a whole new language meant, among other things, to smoother the edges off your great missions and keep you as docile as possible.  

Even if you think of yourself as a hyper educated type don't assume that you can guess the meaning of new words, especially in the PC lingo (and I don't mean "personal computers" - that's actually easy). Just google it or find yourself taking a wrong turn.

There are so many new experiences I thought weren't out there.
Cent`anni ....the woman are divine. Thank you all, especially my newest friends

This is much better

I had been Hobbying for almost three years and then I discovered TER last spring.  It's helped me a lot.
Anyways, I think what I learned is once I  need to back away (stop serving a provider) I need to fo it.  Last summer I allowed a regular to get waaay to dependent on me....for a LOT of things...and also too attached.  By end of summer I had to put my foot down and sever all ties.  She was just too emotionally draining.  The dates were very good/great but emotionally...not so.

I need to step away from the BP girls in 2016.  Believe it or not there are some wonderful providers there.  However...the misses amongst all the hits just isn't worth it anymore.  

Time to move on to the real world.  Here I come 2016!

 
D.