I posted a while back that I had forgotten my watch at a providers home, also her incall location, and wanted advice on what I should do. Let me first thank those who've given me some great advice and especially a certain someone who did more than I could have imagined.
Unfortunately, all the great advice was not enough to retreive my watch and I have lost hope, but I wanted everyone to know the situation and to think twice before seeing this provider.
After several conversations with the provider, she found the watch and would gladly give it back to me as soon as she had some time to do so. After realizing the watch was important to me, she decided that instead of giving it to me she'd hold it hostage for $400 dollars. After several back and forth conversations, she stopped taking my phone calls. I asked for some help from a friend, also a provider. After several discussions with her, she stopped talking her phone calls also. Now, I would have gladly paid her demands, this watch was priceless to me as it is the only thing I have to remind me of my father. Alas, I can only hope it makes someone else as happy as it had made me.
would decide to toss her rep in the potty over a watch of all things.
Is there any more to this? Did you have a tiff or something?
We had an awesome time together, there was no fight nor anything else for that matter.
When I meet up with a provider in an incall location, I leave the watch, phone, wallet in the car. I will even change into a pair a shorts (weather permitting) and a polo shirt, shoes without socks, and usually no underwear. The only things in my pocket are my donation, a condom and my car keys. If I have to leave in a hurry I can and I offer no unwarranted temptations.
I, for one, would not consider seeing her.
I suspect this will cost her much more in lost business than she will be able to hawk the watch for.
I'm someone that enjoys privacy and never seeks out to post information about anyone. My experience was not a positive one and feel others should be aware before walking through the door.
The best way to make others aware of this problem is to post a review, because this thread will be long forgotten the next time someone loses his watch. I see that you've posted other reviews, and have been whitelisted, so your rep should be able to stand up to hers.
As a matter of fact you can tell that she had no reviews between 2008 and 2010 when she reapeared and is using that person's TER ID
hello
yes i am the same tiffany.
i have no reviews during that time because i was not that active and asked the few that i did keep at the time to not review.
thank you
i also had a number change so that my be the confussion
None of my business, but,
She has a watch of yours that has great sentimental value, correct?
You have her contact info, pictures, and you know where she lives?
I see another option:
Call her up, tell her to meet you at a dunkin donuts or some other public place where she can return the watch to you for a finders fee of $50. Let her know that if she does not show up, your next stop will be either to the local police with all relevant info on her ( and the fact she is providing out of her residence) or to an attorney or small claims court (assuming you can figure out her real identity through some sleuthing of her real address). Or, you could ask her if her landlord knows about her home based business. He might be interested in knowing about it.
Of course, if she has your real name and you have a SO, you might think twice about this whole thing.
It is the fear of this happening to me either due to theft or due to my stupidity that I never bring anything to an event other than the dead president's and my car keys.
If the valuables are locked in my car I can't forget them with ms. anonymous.
Sorry this happened to you.
maybe i have been lucky the agency's that i have used have all seemed very reputable and the girls have been great as well. i cant in a million years imagine holly from after dark stealing my watch. bombay is lucky he was not wearing nice shoes or that might to have tried to steal them as well.
Yeah, the potential embarrassment is probably not worth the effort. Also, he needs to be able to prove it's his watch. Unless he has photos of him wearing it or a receipt he's likely out of luck. It's a cliche but possession is 9/10 of the law.
Unfortunately, all the great advice was not enough to retreive my watch and I have lost hope, but I wanted everyone to know the situation and to think twice before seeing this provider.
After several conversations with the provider, she found the watch and would gladly give it back to me as soon as she had some time to do so. After realizing the watch was important to me, she decided that instead of giving it to me she'd hold it hostage for $400 dollars. After several back and forth conversations, she stopped taking my phone calls. I asked for some help from a friend, also a provider. After several discussions with her, she stopped talking her phone calls also. Now, I would have gladly paid her demands, this watch was priceless to me as it is the only thing I have to remind me of my father. Alas, I can only hope it makes someone else as happy as it had made me.
hello royal touch.
yes if you google my number it will see an agency called soul seductions escorts (that is because i did have my own agency as you can see it was advertised on USG discussion board. and the Jasmine Star would be one of the girls i had at the time.
hope that helps on the clarification
That is unbelievable! To hold a sentimental watch for a $400 ransom is just plain mean... and then with you being ready to comply to her crazy demands... and she still refuses to give it to you... that is just so awful : (
Her greed and lack of compassion are disturbing and disgusting to me. I believe in karma, and I have a strong hunch that she has a LOT of bad karma coming in her direction!
If she has even the slightest bit of a conscience, she will do the right thing, and return the watch to you...
~Grace : )
Unfortunately, all the great advice was not enough to retreive my watch and I have lost hope, but I wanted everyone to know the situation and to think twice before seeing this provider.
After several conversations with the provider, she found the watch and would gladly give it back to me as soon as she had some time to do so. After realizing the watch was important to me, she decided that instead of giving it to me she'd hold it hostage for $400 dollars. After several back and forth conversations, she stopped taking my phone calls. I asked for some help from a friend, also a provider. After several discussions with her, she stopped talking her phone calls also. Now, I would have gladly paid her demands, this watch was priceless to me as it is the only thing I have to remind me of my father. Alas, I can only hope it makes someone else as happy as it had made me.
And what goes around comes around.....I understand your pain, and surely hope you have other things to replace your fathers spirit in your heart!! Her time will come......
Much love to you sweetness!!
XOXOXO,
Foxxxie
had zero sentimental value...fact of the matter is that it doesn't belong to her...spend that $400 on one of those badass private security dudes and get your watch back...ya know the kind of guys that fear nothing and do these things for shits and giggles ;o)
i am with the Irish lady on this one.
HELLO
IT HAS COME TO MY ATTENTION THAT I HAVE BEEN TALKED ABOUT.
sO JUST TO CLEAR THINGS UP.
YES I SAW THAT CLIENT. AND NO I DO NOT HAVE THE MANS WATCH. AFTER OUR LITTLE MEET AND GREET HE CALLED UP AND EXPLAINED HOW HE THINKS HE FORGOT HIS WATCH IN THE ROOM.
i TOLD HIM I DID NOT SEE THE WATCH BUT WOULD GLADLY CHECK THE ROOM AGAIN.
LATER ON THAT DAY HE CALLED AGAIN ASKING IF I HAVE FOUND THE WATCH AND WAS TELLING ME HOW IT WAS SENTIMENTAL AND THAT HIS FATHER GAVE IT TO HIM BEFORE HE HAD PASSED ON. (why would you bring something that sentimental to a providers house that you have never seen) ANYWAYS FOR ALMOST 2 WEEKS HE WOULD CALL NUMEROUS TIMES ASKING ABOUT THIS WATCH. CALLING FORM 8AM - MIDNIGHT. IN FACT HE EVEN HAD A PROVIDER CALL ME. EACH TIME I HAVE TOLD HIM I DO NOT HAVE HIS WATCH NOR HAVE I SEEN IT.
ANYBODY THAT KNOWS ME KNOWS THAT I AM NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON. NUMEROUS PEOPLE HAVE LEFT THERE PERSONAL BELONGINGS BEHIND AND I STILL HAD IT THE NEXT TIME I SAW THEM ( WHETHER IT BE 1 WEEK LATER OR A MONTH LATER ETC) I STILL HAD IT FOR THEM. ONE THING I AM NOT IS A THIEF..
I DO NOT HAVE THIS MANS WATCH.... I HAVE TORN MY ROOM UPSIDE DOWN LOOKING FOR IT. I HAVE GONE OUT MY WAY FOR THIS MAN AND YET HE INSISTS THAT IT IS IN MY HOME.
YES I DO FEEL BAD FOR THAT HE HAS LOST HIS WATCH...
Let's clear some things up:
I saw you on a Thursday afternoon and didn't realize my watch was missing until Saturday, which I called you and, with my sincere apologies, I asked if you wouldn't mind taking a look around your home for it. You said you would look and to touch base with you on Sunday. I called you again on Sunday and you said you didn't have it. I tore up and down my house, my office, my car and retraced my steps because I was wearing my watch on Thursday, as a coworker made a comment on the watch.
I called you back on Monday/Tuesday and you stated to me that you had the watch and would give it back to me. After that conversation, you sent me a txt saying you wanted money for it and let's talk later. At that point you kept telling me we'll talk later and we'll talk later.
Was I persistent with calling you, yes I was because I wanted to discuss terms and just get my watch back. I recall one particular evening I called you non stop, to which you responded you were with family and would call me later when you freed up. As the hour progressed, I got anxious and kept calling. Finally a gentlemen picked up and we spoke about the watch and mentioned paying to get it back and you'd call me when you could.
After a couple days of nothing, I asked a friend who's also a provider to call you on my behalf, to discuss the watch. You told her flat out you had it and had ever intention of giving it back but you were handling some family business and would get back to me. I also went out of town and had my friend call you again. You blew her off and here is where we stand.
I'll ask my friend, who's on the boards and well known, to add to this thread.
as i stated i do not have your watch. i apologize that i do not ..... yes you did call persistantly and it is understandable. yes i did put one of my male friends on the phone because i was having family matters which i had stated to you and you was still persistant with the calls.
i am sorry i do not have your watch i looked through my room thoroughly and came up with nothing besides a moodring and bracelett and other misc items from other "friends"
it would be greatly appreciated if you could please end this discussion.
I AM TRUELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
I saw you on a Thursday afternoon and didn't realize my watch was missing until Saturday, which I called you and, with my sincere apologies, I asked if you wouldn't mind taking a look around your home for it. You said you would look and to touch base with you on Sunday. I called you again on Sunday and you said you didn't have it. I tore up and down my house, my office, my car and retraced my steps because I was wearing my watch on Thursday, as a coworker made a comment on the watch.
I called you back on Monday/Tuesday and you stated to me that you had the watch and would give it back to me. After that conversation, you sent me a txt saying you wanted money for it and let's talk later. At that point you kept telling me we'll talk later and we'll talk later.
Was I persistent with calling you, yes I was because I wanted to discuss terms and just get my watch back. I recall one particular evening I called you non stop, to which you responded you were with family and would call me later when you freed up. As the hour progressed, I got anxious and kept calling. Finally a gentlemen picked up and we spoke about the watch and mentioned paying to get it back and you'd call me when you could.
After a couple days of nothing, I asked a friend who's also a provider to call you on my behalf, to discuss the watch. You told her flat out you had it and had ever intention of giving it back but you were handling some family business and would get back to me. I also went out of town and had my friend call you again. You blew her off and here is where we stand.
I'll ask my friend, who's on the boards and well known, to add to this thread.
This isn't going to help your business in the least.
I don't know you but I know ashley very well and knows she hates drama and is honest so if she says you told her you have the watch and then you come here and say you dont your not only a thief your a liar as well. That is just great for your business.
To me, the more credible person in this situation, is the one who isn't typing in all caps. Something about lacking netiquette in a business that relies on the internet that raises red flags for me.
I am the provider Bombay mentioned who called her for him.
When I called her she told me, and I quote "I told him I would give him back the watch, I even had my boyfriend/husband talk to him and tell him that. I told him I have a family issue I must deal with and I will contact him when I am back. I asked you are out of town? she said yes and so I asked how long she thought it would be until she returned, her response was a couple of days...since it was Monday I asked if he would here from her by Friday, she said "absolutely" So I thanked her and apologized for bothering her.
More than a week went by when I spoke to Bombay and he said she still had not returned his watch...so I called her again, she stated again "I am going to give it back to him but I have been very busy, I will call you back in a little while" I told her this was going to become ugly since she was playing games I told her "he will pay you the money he just wants his watch" she said "I will call you back" and hung up on me.
That is how we got to this point.
Bombay stated to me that he had a great time with her and could not believe this was happening, I told him after all that has happened that he should post this thread.
Ashley
IT HAS COME TO MY ATTENTION THAT I HAVE BEEN TALKED ABOUT.
sO JUST TO CLEAR THINGS UP.
YES I SAW THAT CLIENT. AND NO I DO NOT HAVE THE MANS WATCH. AFTER OUR LITTLE MEET AND GREET HE CALLED UP AND EXPLAINED HOW HE THINKS HE FORGOT HIS WATCH IN THE ROOM.
i TOLD HIM I DID NOT SEE THE WATCH BUT WOULD GLADLY CHECK THE ROOM AGAIN.
LATER ON THAT DAY HE CALLED AGAIN ASKING IF I HAVE FOUND THE WATCH AND WAS TELLING ME HOW IT WAS SENTIMENTAL AND THAT HIS FATHER GAVE IT TO HIM BEFORE HE HAD PASSED ON. (why would you bring something that sentimental to a providers house that you have never seen) ANYWAYS FOR ALMOST 2 WEEKS HE WOULD CALL NUMEROUS TIMES ASKING ABOUT THIS WATCH. CALLING FORM 8AM - MIDNIGHT. IN FACT HE EVEN HAD A PROVIDER CALL ME. EACH TIME I HAVE TOLD HIM I DO NOT HAVE HIS WATCH NOR HAVE I SEEN IT.
ANYBODY THAT KNOWS ME KNOWS THAT I AM NOT THAT KIND OF PERSON. NUMEROUS PEOPLE HAVE LEFT THERE PERSONAL BELONGINGS BEHIND AND I STILL HAD IT THE NEXT TIME I SAW THEM ( WHETHER IT BE 1 WEEK LATER OR A MONTH LATER ETC) I STILL HAD IT FOR THEM. ONE THING I AM NOT IS A THIEF..
I DO NOT HAVE THIS MANS WATCH.... I HAVE TORN MY ROOM UPSIDE DOWN LOOKING FOR IT. I HAVE GONE OUT MY WAY FOR THIS MAN AND YET HE INSISTS THAT IT IS IN MY HOME.
YES I DO FEEL BAD FOR THAT HE HAS LOST HIS WATCH...
PM I can get the watch back
There are not many people who would handle a situation like this with the restraint that you have.
I, most certainly, would not.
It is, and I think most would agree, a very regrettable situation. One that never should have gone this far. It is unfortunate just how callous and shallow some people can be...and sometimes we see a new level of low set...when we think we have seen everything.
While it's obviously no consolation....your Father's spirit and memory resides in you...and not an item.
How you have handled this is living testament to him, what he taught you, and what he means to you.
For this, you should forever be proud.
I'll keep my comments, and thoughts, about the other party to myself....as it's not appropriate in my position as mod.
All the best to you.
DD