I'm not a newbie to seeing a provider, but it's been quite a long time, and I'm the kind of guy who'd rather gel with someone while chatting over coffee and a stroll before diving in sts. Basically, I'm not dating anyone, so it would be fun to have more of a date type of experience with someone fun and hot. I'm willing to get a hotel room if incall is unavailable.  

What's a good way to identify providers who would be open to that (and meeting during the day)? Seems to me that agencies are out. I notice providers who do dinner and meet in the evening, but I'm toast in the evening. I guess it's just a matter of asking. Any recommendations?  If it's useful, I'm 45, in shape, and I'd say a pretty cool and good looking dude.

I love a good afternoon date followed by some playtime and I will be visiting in Boston this weekend!

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