I love near misses.

And I have had a few!

I saw a lady that I'd been with a few times, while I was having dinner with my son, daughter-in-law, and two grandsons. She walked by our table, and just smiled and nodded. I saw her again the following month.

And then encourage her to embrace her bisexual side that you know she has deep down inside. Then say "Look, honey, I always knew that you were bisexual, but were a little scared about it, so I tell you what, I will stand beside you as you ask that girl who is so obviously checking you out, up to our room, and I will even stay in the room, while you lick each other's pussies, and I can hold your hand in support and yes, as your dear husband, I will not be jealous and will let you have your way with that poor girl over there."

I bet ye, if you said it like that, you wouldve had a 3-some at foxwoods!

By the way, I was there a few days ago. Its like a floating city from a fairytale. Yikes! And I was told they pump oxygen into the air so you will stay awake and keep on gambling. Interesting place indeed.

I coached one of my daughter's youth soccer teams in my town and a MILF provider I'd seen a few times over the years used to drop off and pick up her daughter who was on the team. I think we both did a double take the first time, but after that we treated it as business as usual with the usual hello/thanks/goodbye greetings shared with all the parents.

Years ago when I was still picking up streetwalkers I saw one of my regs standing in front of a nightclub in Boston as I was walking in with my ex for a company holiday party.  She saw me but fortunately saw that I was also not alone.  She didn't say a word and neither did I.  The next time we met we had a good laugh about it but both agreed the best way to handle something like this is to just not say anything.  It may sound rude but you never know if that person is out alone or with a real life acquaintance.

Since I don't show my face i doubt they are aware who I am. Have seen many in hotel lobbies elevators and parking lots, I just walk past. Was in line behind a very well known local gal here in Boston  at a Duncan Donuts just q few days ago. she looked stunning in jeans and a sweater.
Again just went about my business. Not showing my face lends more privacy to me and I prefer it that way.
I have run into clients in the mall just walk past and smile.

I was out on a real date, and there was a big crowd seated at a very near table, obviously family.  Of course, I glanced over, and when I did, one of my clients turned blood red.  What is funny is that I only saw him once, and probably wouldn't have recognized him had he not so visibly colored.

I traded seats with my date so my back was to him, however my client made is way past our table and gently touched my shoulder on his way past by.

My date and I died laughing.  The unexpected things that happen in this business.

And it was in my hotel room no less.

What a mess that was.  The provider ran out in tears.  My wife made me quit hobbying for a while until I snuck back in.  We're divorced now which is no big surprise.

On a similar vein, I ran into a provider I knew while I was with another provider.  The two providers knew each other.  The provider I was with was introduced to me by the one we ran into as a doubles partner, and I started seeing her independently.  The First one was not down with that.

It was a bit awkward, to be sure.

Vice versa....

I've unintentionally bumped into quite a few Hobby friends here and there
@ the grocery stores... hotel lobby's -presumably hobbying ...
I've been in my car, in a parking lot...
I look up & over...
there's a past gentleman I've seen...
etc etc..........etc

These various occurrences have transpired while I've been alone...or with family...or with my husband that was not an open minded man
(he's my now EX)...

Of course these hobbying gentlemen varied in personality..job/lifestyless...and marriage status'
All situations were uniquely handled in their own individualized way

For me..
 The 1st dynamic & MOST IMPORTANT indicator was we LOOKED QUICKLY & MOSTLY with peripheral vision
"Who was with us at the time"....
"Where we were at ,at that time"...
"How long we've known each other"..
"What our history was"

Those types of factors had a huge impact on whether or not I'd even proceed to this next step..--->
NOW this is ONLY if the gentleman was alone..

We exchanged QUICK glances...
(if he was with someone else I would have only looked at him with peripheral vision... I NEVER EVER want to create problems for anyone)

That glance would speak louder than any introductory words
*~a 1/2 second glance at facial expression was an indicator on whether or not it was ok to smile...wave....say hi...or share a hug hello..or even whethere or not we seized the spontaneity of the moment and get together for some play/adult fun...or for a coffee...dinner..a talk
A few times I had seen a friend that I hadn;t seen in a long time because I had retired..and we  were actually overjoyed to see one another again...so he & I wanted to say hi...and a have a small chit chat..

To be able to read a 1st glance correctly is crucial!

FACT: Everyone/situation is different...

I've been pretty good at reading the situation/gentleman in those kind of occurences
Being a Provider that meets new friends I have to possess some kind of ability to appropriately read what the gentleman/(or ladies) personality is, at 1st glance/eye contact
(does he enjoy a welcoming DFK?.or not..etc..)  

I have been lucky read "the hint" accurately...
I've never misread how the other would prefer me to act/react if we bumped into one another unexpectedly..YET (don't plan to either)

On the flip side....

MOST of the time, my gentlemen friends didn't misread that 1st glance/facial expression
Whether or not or "IF" they should even make eye contact...smile...how to appropriately say hi

**I did have a few hobby friends that were completely clueless and put me in a BAD predicament!

No acknowledgment at all of my being with someone else...
Didn't read any of my SUBTLE signals & approached me anyway
That created a few nightmares!
I have been approached by a VERY FEW gentlemen while with my son...it's happened while I was my parents...
This EVEN happened when I was with my past jealous husband who is the high testosterone type... built quite solidly (He is now my EX husband of 2 yrs)
I had retired during the time of my marriage..
-I told my EX the truth about my being a retired Boston area Provider from the beginning of our dating
So any guy that said hi to me was looked at with the worst attitude from jump by him..
(That's another discussion thread in itself though)
I've been approached while checking into a hotel While I was @ the check-in desk..

I always try to keep a LOW profile
I do my best to blend in as much as possible with the business traveling customers that use those hotels..
Just being a woman... alone checking into a hotel is an indicator for some of those hotels to profile me as a Provider..
Then having a gentleman that's alone and POSSIBLY has been seen by hotel staff before...approach me..even with the best intentions...
He could have created a big problem for me (and possibly him) and could have ruined that hotel for me in ever using that hotel again
I have to say...that happening wasn't the best of moments, I've experienced in my lifetime!
Then again..."IF" & WHEN we BOTH were in the perfect situation for both us to have the opportunity to say hi...especialy after not seeing one another for a long time..
That was an INCREDIBLY WONDERFUL happening for me...and apparently for him too!
(I know U know who U R SEXY!)
oxoxoxox
Stacy