Hi Ladies and fellow Hobbyists,

It was recently brought to my attention that some scum bag from Jersey is 'stealing' my profile name and using it for references.  Then the guy likes to 'no show' and blow off appointments.  From what I understand he also likes to do 'transfers' instead of paying by cash or credit card.  That, in itself, sounds like a scam.

Two local women have been very helpful with this situation and have restored my faith in the goodness of people.  I won't mention you by name but thank you very much.

It is very frustrating to be a victim of a form of 'identity theft' albeit an online identity.  I have worked hard to have a good reputation, stayed out of the nastiness and general BS that can go on in these forums and genuinely treat any provider with respect.  The fact that some ass nugget can't survive out there on his own reputation is infuriating.

So, here's some of what he will do: He'll call to set an appointment and give my handle (I tried making a minor change but it didn't help).  Then when you ask for references he will point out how many reviews "he" has written and try to get you to not take references.  If that doesn't work he will sometimes list a couple of the more recent ladies from my reviews.  If you contact them and ask about "JoeyHasFun/Joey4Fun" from TER you will get glowing reviews...but they are for ME  not HIM!!!

I know of two providers with whom he tried to set up overnight visits.  Please note I NEVER DO OVERNIGHTS!!!!

So, ladies, if I reach out to you and you ask for references I'll give you them.  In fact, I can give you a whole page of them.  If you are unsure simply PM me here on TER.  As far as I can tell the guy hasn't hacked my account so any correspondence from this handle will be the REAL JOEYHASFUN.

Also, I WILL NOT ask to do a transfer, strictly a cash transaction with this guy.  If I can't make an appointment I'll ALWAYS call and/or email as soon as possible and that is a rarity anyway.

Thanks for you time..

I assume the ladies are smart enough to confirm your handle by exchanging PM's  If not that is their own fault.

Someone can be sneaky by using a similar name:
joeyhasfun
joey4fun
joey4_fun
joey_4_fun
joey.has.fun
and possibly fool a girl that thinks she has confirmed your handle.

If this is being done, TER will have a record.  In fact if PM's have been sent it means TER will be able to trace the individual's e-mail and possibly IP number as it must be a VIP account.

If I were you I would ask TER to look further into this fraud using TER.

I will do the same thing. I give my TER handle in an email and also send a PM from with-in TER telling her I just sent an email and my address so the lady knows I am who I am claiming to be

share with her your Linked in and gave deposit  
 
As well as send her your work site
 and drop her empty email to her NOT escorting email from your work/org.com.net e-mail.

May be just call her from the phone listed as your work p\hone on your site  

I prefer SUCH type of screening way better then 100 reviews and white lists here  

I think you do know the reason and yourself  

But again .. I am just saw   one two three for two three hours ..

Who is agree with me  that screening THAT way is safer .. that if he has send his donations from confirmed credit card he is not a serial killer?
or  Who  does know - if LE bale send deposits up to 1000 ??Just wonder ..
May be I just do not know and nothing would help to play safe

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I've seen this happen to two of my wonderful gentlemen so far, and that's just what I know of If that dude wasn't also an asshat who continually cancelled, you might never have even noticed. This is why, when responding to references, I generally check with the man in question to make sure that he's at least inquired with the lady inquiring of me... and would prefer it if men dropped a line or two to my inbox to let me know that the request is coming so I have no doubts that I'm doing the right thing.  

Still, you'd be surprised at the amount of men who freak out when I try to check them out, thinking that a board membership or a third party platform somehow makes them inscrutable in this incredible age of opensource identities.

At least you, sir, now know at least part of what we're up against here... I still cruise the blackhat forums from time to time, and you'd be surprised how often this lifestyle (and this site in particular) is the topic of discussion. As a matter of fact, that's how I first got here

~Mme X~

Yes...had this guy NOT been cancelling and acting like an ass I'd have never known.  A couple of the providers who let me know about this are 'seasoned veterans' who admitted that they simply 'got taken' and didn't do their due diligence.  

I never use a provider as a reference if she hasn't already told me it was OK and I ALWAYS reach out to them to let them know somebody will be contacting them in reference.  It's common courtesy

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Hi, Damien. I see you.

You hit the nail on the head though. I got lax and didn't do the research I should have. Really can't blame anybody but myself.

I was recently a victim. It's my fault, I was very new to this business, was going on no sleep and wasn't my sharpest, and despite an already uneasy feeling I had in my gut, I was also guilt tripped into it, for my good friend/driver was very financially desperate.

The entire car ride there he filled my head with things I'd never even heard before like 'God, you're beautiful. You should stay the entire weekend and I'll pay you $8,000.' 'Can I take you shopping tomorrow?' 'My mom would love you. I need a girl like you in my life, all I do is work.' Promising me future things. We stopped and got a sandwhich and he ordered a, I shit you not, 'Fat Bitch' which was the most grotesque looking sandwhich, why put fries in a hero?? Anyway, we arrived at his *ahem, quite bland + shitty* apartment, I began to recoil in discomfort because now my fears were confirmed that it was a trap. When we went upstairs, he initiated sexual contact immediately and I inquired about payment, which he went forward with on his computer. My driver told me to watch him send it but he wouldn't let me see the screen, because 'too much personal information'. He told me he sent $9,500 to my driver's account. On the phone, he lit up so much about that. I had been texting him that I had bad vibes about the situation but he told me I should just go through with it because it was a lot of money and promised me if it didn't go through he'll 'take care of him' get what he promised one way or another. Trusting his promise, my dumb ass went through with it and had the most traumatic experience of my life. He had paid for UNPROTECTED which I sooo wasn't cool with. I reassured myself it'll all be okay soon one way or another. He hurt me by 'swording' me too deeply and I politely complained to which he replied 'you just need a real man in your life' meaning I have to learn how to just take his size, which also really was hella fucking uncool. He finished on my body, and then proceeded to ask me the most scarring thing one has ever have until this, he asked if I could pop his 'back pimples' just typing this and reawakening the memory is making me shudder. He knew I was going on no sleep, and woke me up multiple times throughout the night to have sex with him. I declined him every time as I was exhausted and found it rather rude, my sleep is more valuable than any amount of money. He also cuddle raped me, I kept cringing away from him and he literally laid his head on me and he didn't even seem to do it out of loneliness, but just to bother me. Finally at 5 in the morning he got ready for work, and on his way back to the city dropped me off. I was able to get a gps snapshot of where I was, and two semi blurry pictures of him.
I've been cooking up my revenge. Maybe you could be of help? Let me know. If not, feel free to use my story to help others.
A few days after, we called him and he pretended to have changed his number, though it was the same voice, a very particularly distinct voice as well.  

I've learned a great deal from this lesson, rest assured, nothing of this sort has ever happened since. It just sucks I had to learn in the most horrid night of my life.  

Tonight he contacted my friend offering the same thing.

The bastad Is still at it. I'm in Philly on tour and got a phone call from this scammer to do an overnight Outcall to NJ... something just didn't feel right when he wouldn't PM me from 'his' joeyhasfun handle. Claimed he couldn't access the internet from his hobby phone and he didn't want his ex wife finding out about TER on his smartphone. Right, and he also claimed that since he had over a hundred reviews that I could check any of the girls as a reference. Thank God the first thing I did was Google the handle and thank God the first thing that popped up was this thread. Just a quick thank you to you, the real joeyhasfun, for posting this. Your reputation is still intact and I really appreciate that you saved me from a night of trouble and pain. Kisses!

For his most recent offenses, check the provider-only safety resources.