why would you not identify yourself as charlie101 from TER when you reviewed me already?? UGH!!!
ugh! i haven't received an email/phone call/text etc... saying anything to the effect of 'hi, this is charlie101 from TER blah blah blah'. i highly doubt i just left you hanging. i ALWAYS ask for a confirmation call over the phone a few hours ahead of the scheduled time. nothing i can say here is going to make you less pissed, but when i don't even know that a repeat customer has scheduled an appointment with me, one of my first reviews even, how am i supposed to treat you like anything other than a first timer with me. i have a 60% no show rate with guys that are booking with me the first time. i am not exaggerating. i'm a little conservative on that number actually. i had someone fall to the wayside this week because of the lack of confirmation same day. the appointment is 250 or less and my room is 500. IT IS IMPORTANT for that reason alone as an independent girl.
i JUST addressed this recently for people from TER. Just as you're complaining about a lack of dependable girls out there, there are fewer and fewer guys who come through as well. you guys have anonymity to hide behind until the last minute when things don't go perfectly well and then you speak up.
i used to use this site to find my most reliable customers and my favorite boys. as you can see, until recently, i have NEVER had a problem. this is easily two sided and i take blame for what i need to, but you should as well.
some TER fellas have no problem telling me they're from TER when asking for discounts (which i give to ANYONE who repeats with me because like any good girl, i love my regulars).
so, bottom line is i guess i'll be doing away with my easy two call system and have you guys jump through hoops by requesting all your possible contact info, INSISTING on referrals (which sucks because i see guys with no referrals who are awesome and i allow them to use me as a reference all the time for the girls who are hard to get in with due to screening), requiring all the other crap i hear complaints about all the time and quite frankly, it won't decrease the amount of people i'm seeing because, like i said, i'm averaging 2 no shows per hotel night.
i appreciate my boys and they each know that usually. what i wish i could see now are the numerous guys who have had great experiences with me being more than punctual, taking them early when they show up 20 minutes early, the majority of my fellas who run 30-60 minutes OVER their time without me ever even hinting at a dime more, knocking up to $100 off the rate for whatever reason things are going great at work that month.... ya know what? that's all. i'm frustrated beyond measure. you're out an hour of time and left with a hard on. i'm left holding the bill for a really nice hotel room i come out of pocket for and scrambling at the last minute to try to pay for overhead hoping and praying that somehow i can fill in time slots from other 'less reputable' sites.
i tried to remedy this by asking on the board and on EVERY single ad i post, that you tell me you're TER. guess that didn't work.
i've been asked time after time how i've managed to NOT become jaded in this business after almost three years. it's hard. very hard caring about things like this without saying anything or having anyone speak up. most of my boys want privacy and don't post or review girls. it's fine.
best wishes and i feel your frustration JUST AS MUCH. i'm over it.
whit
Do I hold the record for being stood up by a provider? Ad Whitney Wilcoxxx to my list. It was an incall too. She never called me, never text me. Even long after our scheduled appointment she didn't bother. The standards in this industry are sinking fast. Reliable solid providers need to join the cause. It hurts you as well. Hobbyists get gun shy. "Is this lady going to be any different" questions. It hurts us all.
She is normally a ATF for me. I hope this will not be a pattern with her. I know it stinks but I guess it happens from time to time. I was bull last time someone did this to me but I have to say they provided me a make up date and she double our time. That was very sweet hope you get the same or something similar. Good luck and thanks for the FYI.
I guess it boils down to how hobbyists book. I prefer agencies due to the convenience. I have yet to be stood up. I do encounter an occasional problem with communication management at appointment time from the agency's side, but never have I been stood up.
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Don't doubt you at all. Just surprising, she was a complete class act when I saw her and not to rub it in but one of the most incredibly hot times I have had with anyone.
Sorry, to hear it happened hope you touch base with her and consider trying to re-schedule it... the experience is well worth it.
thank you =) i really appreciate you replying positively to this thread...
whit
Whitney's NC/NS behavior has been previously noted.
The only problem here is that you happen to choose providers who are notorious for being unreliable from time to time.
Why the surprise at the treatment you get?
http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=154902&boardID=9&page=
Great advice. I am arrowing my field of providers to see. Only way to go. The industry is becoming very unreliable for my liking. Need to go with the sure things. Even if it means waiting.
BTW She still hasn't responded to me. I would feel awful if something really did happen to her.
Thank you
ugh! i haven't received an email/phone call/text etc... saying anything to the effect of 'hi, this is charlie101 from TER blah blah blah'
She's not sure which excuse to give you.
whit
best wishes and i feel your frustration JUST AS MUCH. i'm over it.
whit
with you. Period.
why would you not identify yourself as charlie101 from TER when you reviewed me already?? UGH!!!
ugh! i haven't received an email/phone call/text etc... saying anything to the effect of 'hi, this is charlie101 from TER blah blah blah'. i highly doubt i just left you hanging. i ALWAYS ask for a confirmation call over the phone a few hours ahead of the scheduled time. nothing i can say here is going to make you less pissed, but when i don't even know that a repeat customer has scheduled an appointment with me, one of my first reviews even, how am i supposed to treat you like anything other than a first timer with me. i have a 60% no show rate with guys that are booking with me the first time. i am not exaggerating. i'm a little conservative on that number actually. i had someone fall to the wayside this week because of the lack of confirmation same day. the appointment is 250 or less and my room is 500. IT IS IMPORTANT for that reason alone as an independent girl.
i JUST addressed this recently for people from TER. Just as you're complaining about a lack of dependable girls out there, there are fewer and fewer guys who come through as well. you guys have anonymity to hide behind until the last minute when things don't go perfectly well and then you speak up.
i used to use this site to find my most reliable customers and my favorite boys. as you can see, until recently, i have NEVER had a problem. this is easily two sided and i take blame for what i need to, but you should as well.
some TER fellas have no problem telling me they're from TER when asking for discounts (which i give to ANYONE who repeats with me because like any good girl, i love my regulars).
so, bottom line is i guess i'll be doing away with my easy two call system and have you guys jump through hoops by requesting all your possible contact info, INSISTING on referrals (which sucks because i see guys with no referrals who are awesome and i allow them to use me as a reference all the time for the girls who are hard to get in with due to screening), requiring all the other crap i hear complaints about all the time and quite frankly, it won't decrease the amount of people i'm seeing because, like i said, i'm averaging 2 no shows per hotel night.
i appreciate my boys and they each know that usually. what i wish i could see now are the numerous guys who have had great experiences with me being more than punctual, taking them early when they show up 20 minutes early, the majority of my fellas who run 30-60 minutes OVER their time without me ever even hinting at a dime more, knocking up to $100 off the rate for whatever reason things are going great at work that month.... ya know what? that's all. i'm frustrated beyond measure. you're out an hour of time and left with a hard on. i'm left holding the bill for a really nice hotel room i come out of pocket for and scrambling at the last minute to try to pay for overhead hoping and praying that somehow i can fill in time slots from other 'less reputable' sites.
i tried to remedy this by asking on the board and on EVERY single ad i post, that you tell me you're TER. guess that didn't work.
i've been asked time after time how i've managed to NOT become jaded in this business after almost three years. it's hard. very hard caring about things like this without saying anything or having anyone speak up. most of my boys want privacy and don't post or review girls. it's fine.
best wishes and i feel your frustration JUST AS MUCH. i'm over it.
whit
since i don't know your date/time of appointment because i haven't had an appointment request from anyone with the TER handle charlie101, i have no idea if it was on a day that something came up. hm. sucks. i could have contacted you through TER had i known.
whit
i have to say whitney has been nothing but great with me - seen her several times and is the best that i have met - there aren't many like her that i have found around here. sounds like a simple miscommunication. she's great and shouldn't be missed!
I don’t have anything to say about this specific incident and don’t have anything good or bad to say about Whitney. Just some rules I follow based on my own experience/observations.
When you post anything critical about any frequently reviewed provider, she is going to reply to your post sooner or later.
If you accuse anyone of anything, they will most likely respond by posting something nasty about you. If you falsely accuse someone, your mistake will be exposed online for all to see…and the person you ticked-off will be eager to remind everyone…for God-only-knows how long.
I would never post a complaint about a provider without hearing her explanation. If I get a bogus answer, then its time to post the complete story, including her account. Don’t post until you are sure what you say is true. You can only edit or delete a TER post for 4 hours.
I have been lucky in terms of NCNS, but have also done more than my share of homework before booking. I may say “easy two call system” in my reviews, but have made plenty of extra confirmation calls before driving into downtown appointments.