yep I am going to beat a dead horse and I am not going to be nearly as kind as the fair julia was NCNS NO EMAIL NO TEXT  with so many ways to make contact with me there is no freakin' excuse for this BULLSHIT after approx a years worth of back and forth emails and a cancellation already  to just not show up and not make contact is WRONG we make appts and tell others that we are not available when they request time...quite often the people we tell no are dependable regulars...and to the man that did it I am most definitely going to spread the word that your a  real piece of shit...to confirm less than 12 hours prior to you appt and then just shrug me off WOW  no I won't put your name out here...but with so few pro's in this area...your hobby career is all washed up...I have always been very nice to everyone and this just makes me MAD!

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As was noted in the other thread, there is no excuse for NCNS.  It just makes no sense from either side to NCNS, unless you are purposely trying to get even for some past slight, real or imagined.

Erin,

Grab a cup of coffee,

take a sip,

a deep breathe,

and now scream.  


The guy should not have done it

I have my coffee and I am calm now lol

Uh oh someone is in big trouble

its comforting to know it is not just me but girlfriend.......mad isnt even a strong enough emotion! Enjoy this NEW day.its beautiful out...and we think of all the gents that have shown up, it makes it seem not so bad (I guess LOL)

We used to have a 20% no show rate, and about 80% of them usually called with an explanation but still the other 20% just never called to explain or apologize.

Since January however the rate has dropped to only about 2 or 3 NCNS a week since I explain to all new clients that if you do a NCNS you will go on the do not book list and I do share that info with other services and Indy's.

This past week and a half it has once again become a problem. I don't know if it is other services having people call, or what but it is not fair to the ladies to have this happen. It seems that they are only doing it to the popular girls so it makes me think that this is being done on purpose. last week Gemma had 4 NSNC in one day! Erica had 2 and this week Payton and Melanie each had 3.

This is unacceptable and will no longer be tolerated. If you can't make your appointment I need a phone call. Calling me the next day or exactly at the appointment time is also no longer acceptable. (If you get stuck at work or in a meeting, it takes 2 mins to excuse yourself to go to the rest room and give me a call to cancel. Do not make an appointment unless you are positive you can make it. The ladies time is just as valuable as yours.

Sorry to rant but this kind of behavior needs to be stopped.

Jill

The only thing that would keep me from calling would be if I dropped fucking Dead driving to your place.

As Carlin says, you get a Two Minute Warning...

Use it to make the call.

Of course if you died, then who cares about your reputation.  I seriously doubt you will care if no one else will see you!

As a business owner, I can certainly empathize with how badly this impacts you ladies. Because I understand this is business I have been great about keeping appointments etc, as I know how it impacts my own business.

That being said, it is only fair to prsent the opposite point to yours.  Providers are equally guilty of this.  I can't tell you how many times a provider has gathered all my personal information, verified me, asked me to confirm certain dates, times, etc., only to subsequently suddenly not respond, forget about the appointment, or meet with one of the regulars. To my knowledge, I have no negative press and good references.

Only point is, it happens on both sides of the hobby! Everyone needs to be repectful of everyone.  This includes the well known lovely ladies that post here!

Just my two cents.

something so simple as a phone call or an email if they don't have the nerve to call...at least then they can make up for it in the future rather than getting black listed...everyone has an emergency now and again...that's life...I have kids and family and hell life happens whether we want it to or not...gd snow days, broken bones lol whatever the case...hell once I accidentally stood up a guy but I made contact and offered a big discount for my bad secretarial skills...this boils down to common courtesy...nothing more, nothing less

that Mushroom Cloud over Worcester. I don't see how anyone who saw that picture in your earlier post below could not show up.  The boy missed one incredible experience.



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Dixi that mushroom cloud is what happens with the Cancellation when it is a NSNC it becomes Cataclysmic !!!

... has been suggested before (no, I am not a conspiracy theory wacko) but as I wondered in my other post, how do these bastards get past the screening?   Do they all use the same provder ref?  It would seem that some form of pattern is overlooked somewhere here.   I am no PI so I can only imagine how changing handles etc. can make a trail go cold.

It would also be of interest to see if any of the above mentioned needle-pricks are DateCheck listed, P411, Whitelisted, etc. (doubtful)

I can't believe the disrespect guys have for providers.  There is no excuse for not contacting if you intend on not showing after booking an appointment.  Come on guys!!!!!  Listen I'm talking about mature low volume quality providers that don't double book and expect the courtesy of a call if you are not able to show.  That's the least you can do.  A lot of times substantial expense has been laid out for hotel rooms and travel and time and to leave one hanging is just plain piss poor attitude.  No questions things happen and plans change but for god sake e mail or call so the lady's can try to reschedule their time.  I would never think of leaving a lady hanging and neither should any of you.

BG