girl from the time they walk in the door? I don't understand the comments on the review boards/in the reviews of men bitterly complaining that the women don't look like their photos or the place was not nice or they were just not comfy etc., but that they stayed for the appointment anyway...I don't get it...Why go through with the ordeal if you aren't happy? I tell everyone if you aren't happy when you meet me please by all means back out! And, of course, I reserve the same right and have exercised many times over my "career"...Do other girls tie you to the chair and make you stay, LOL... Hmmm maybe I should start doing that...might be fun...Soexplanations please..

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I haven't hesitated to decline the session if something appears to be not what I was led to believe. I've had appointments with ladies who might be less than desireble to the average TER poster and had a great time. I've also met with model material SP's who seemed to think being in close proximity was a GFE date. There's your YMMV hypothesis my dear Ms. K.

I'd have to agree. The trip out to Boston to see a girl is enough to not want to turn back empty handed. Call it an adventurous spirit but just cause one plans to climb mountains doesn't mean he goes home if he comes across some hills instead. The terrain is different, the climate cold (bitchy), but hell there's nothin' like exploring new caves to an intrepid explorer.
With enough research (i.e. read enough reviews), this can, for the most part, be avoided.

A while back I posted a message elsewhere about reading a message board regarding Boston and there was a thread started by a local provider concerning bad client lists.

The thread was extremely lenghty and when you read it there were posts from other local ladies that actually identified hobbyists by name and address for things like cancelling an appointment.

It seemed to be the opinion of some of these ladies that a guy cancelling an appointment belonged on a "bad client" list.

To answer your question, in this age of electronic information exchange and data accumulation, a guy might end up thinking to himself "if I don't do this appointment, she will probably post my name to a bad client list and I'll have problems getting appointments with other ladies"

I remain appalled that these ladies had the audacity to post client names on a local public message board for all to see. These same ladies also fault hobbyists for seeing traveling ladies and not employing the services of local escorts. Geez, I wonder why????

It also could just be a case of a hobbyist getting there and not having another opportunity to play for a while and choosing to follow thru on the appointment.

The truth of the matter is that if a hobbyist does his homework, the likelihood of this happening is very unlikely. That is why it is so important that when contributing reviews to any message board that care be taken to accurately report the pertinent information about the session.

Just my $0.02

Huboo

Before the "critter" comes through the door, the "little head" has staged a coup and taken complete control of his thoughts and actions. By the time the "critter" writes his review, the "big head" has restored order in his world.

Few gents can turn around and walk out when the "little head" is controling his legs/wheels.

Just my opinion...

thirsty

I'd have to agree with Thirsty.  The hobbyist has already resigned himself to paying for some temporary friendship, which in itself is a sacrifice of ego.  By the time the hobbyist reaches the door he figures that since he's already come this far...  Then there are the people who would rather not "hurt your feeling," by telling you, that you are not what they expected.  So they go through the motions, not really into it.  Then when they get home, they write a poor review; which causes fewer people to call and puts you in the poor house, but at least they didn't hurt your feelings.

I thing there are a lot of reasons for this reaction. You cant help wondering if it will come back to haunt you. Your dependent of the good will of the SP to not blacklist you for what other SPs would see as an expected part of the business. We are all human, and its a lot harder to reject someone in person than to write an inpersonal bad review, especially if you think youve been decieved.

Well, as someone who has done this, let me take a crack at it 'so to speak'. I had read about this lady a couple of times, she is local, no more that 15 minutes from my house so I thought, why not go see her. Someone close, if it's fun it can be a regular thing. The ad I saw did NOT lie, but did not tell the whole truth either. The whole time we went through setting up the appointment, and talking on the phone she was really very, very pleasant and nice to talk too. I heard a great sense of humor over the phone and while she didn't appear to be my type, I thought we connected mentally and it wouldn't be a problem.

I got to the location, and we just didn't click at all. No makeup, cut off jeans, sweatshirt, slippers... didn't look like she put much of an effort into the session. But, everyone has a bad day and she was a nice enough so I stayed, gave it a whirl and it turned into an hour of fun conversation and that was about all lol

Would I see her again for a session? no, but I'd go out drinking with her for the laughs. Could I have left? Sure, but it wasn't her fault that we didn't click. So, I spent an hour having a great conversation. I've spent more money in dance clubs having great conversation with ladies, to me it was no different and there is always something you can take away from any encounter. If nothing else, you have met another person you might otherwise never had talked to or shared an experience with.

I totally agree with what miss Kimberly says,I have had clients complain to me in the past of going to see a provider and she wasn't what the person who answered the phone said she looked like.I always tell my clients as we reserve the right to ask someone to leave they have the same.They don't have to be cruel as I have told them they could say something like ,if the girl was a brunette gee there must be some kind of misunderstanding as I only see blondes!etc.Just my 2 cents!  Love,Nicole