Squirting is achieved through good communication with the male partner about what is desired, where to do it and by a man who is patient enough to keep doing it until it happens. Sometimes it takes allot of licking and fingering. Sometimes it happens quickly. I would say it depends on the skill of the man and how willing he is to really put forth energy and effort. It does not really matter about looks to me; however, some girls need that aesthetic component.

I squirted for the first time when I was 16. That is very young. Some women NEVER experience orgasm. In fact most women never do. You have to let yourself go. Yes. It does feel like peeing but it is not. There is a doc on this board that actually tested my squirt to make sure it was ejaculate because he was so impressed by that ability. Apparently it is very rare.

You just have to search for someone who will give herself completely to you and not make you stop because it tickles or because she has those awkward feelings. If you have nay hang ups or are prudish a female will never truly ejaculate.

Most females should try to get themselves off and do it alone to get comfortable and see what makes them shoot. The rarest part about female ejaculation is that some females that can only just gush. True squirts are a very rare find. I am 28 and knowing that I have been able to squirt and cum all this time and really fully enjoy my sex partner is just incredible. I can't imagine ever missing out.