This morning after the gym I was running errands in my neighborhood. I came home to see an email from some guy I've never met... "Was that you in X outfit outside X location?! I wanted to say hi but I didn't want to scare you!"

Okay, I'm trying not to be too harsh. It would be a WAY different situation if this was someone I've met before. It's easy to see if no one is around, I'd likely give a head nod and smile discreetly. If it was obvious that all was safe maybe a hello and short conversation.  

There are a few points here, since I did formerly show my face. Even while I showed my full face I did not receive an email like this. That being said, I'm sure a few people in both my day job and local circle of friends know I am involved in sex work. They value their own discretion, since they were the ones browsing, as well as mine, since I would have told them if I wanted them to know. Boston is already a very small city to begin with, I see people I know every day (as myself and as Candice). My gym? Tons of clients go there and I'm sure people who have browsed my site. Even someone in my office building has met me as Candice. Everyone has common sense, a moment of knowing eye contact is standard, ESPECIALLY during the day. Maybe at night a wink is acceptable in passing, but maybe not, since most of the time we are all out with coworkers. As providers we know who's single and who's not, so of course for some gentleman it's totally cool to have a casual conversation on the street.

Pulling up my site in a public place seconds after seeing me... No. Contacting me intrusively without having ever met me... No. Everyone is entitled to privacy, discretion and comfort in their own neighborhood.

I had to get this off my chest. I sincerely hope this man finds something to do with his day that's more valuable than trolling women on the street and online.

This isn't the one city that's on the small size. I've seen other ladies before in public and not in a million years would I even consider approaching her or even sending an email stating I've seen her in public.  

Sorry that this occurred. Hopefully your post will help others who don't know better not to repeat this action.

seen a provider in public. I'd probably faint if I saw one at this point. Not that I'm looking, but where do y'all hang out? Lol

and it occurred while I was with another provider walking along a beach many miles from home.

 
To add to the overall unbelievable circumstances, the provider I was with had introduced me to the other provider during a series of 3 way sessions we had had, and was pissed off at the other provider for seeing me behind her back.

 
Talk about awkward.

I exclusively hang out in alleyways and dark restaurants.

I was on my way to the 4th floor to see Jade, and Darlene gets into the elevator with me.  She was going to her room on the 6th or 7th.  Gave her a kiss on the way up.  Anyone who used RSG 10 years ago will know what hotel I am talking about.

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I have never had a chance encounter in public but I know discretion is a must.  Maybe eye contact and a smile if the circumstances were right.  But I know I need to respect the boundaries

About 10 years ago I was at a mall chain restaurant and my server smiled at me quite intensely to the level that my wife noticed and asked me if I knew her.  After a few minutes I remembered  I had seen her a few times, she was from "maximumpleasurs" group (Sothern NH.).    She did not make any more uneasiness for me.  So I usually pay the bill with plastic, I had a second thought and paid with cash. Talk about what do you do.

+1

They peaked in 2005.  Skylar, Summer, Laura, Lexi, Heather, Jenna, Mary Beth, Sydney Shane.

Sydney was a dud for me.  

Mary Beth was my favorite and I repeated often.  Took her out OTC, she liked Denny's.  That's where the group had meetings.   Even took her to the MSPCA because she wanted a rabbit.

I never met Jenna, but heard she was always eating BK when guys walked in...or she asked them to bring her BK food.  She must have bloated off into the sunset.

And your expecting us to believe you didn't  
go up to Dar's room after .... hahahahaha

END OF MESSAGE

Was that you who threw the empty condom wrappers in my cardboard box? Is that what you do in YOUR home? Please, pick up after yourself and have a little respect for other people's property.    
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(My buddy down the alley said that someone took a leak on his box. I hope that wasn't you!)

My rule of thumb on the subject is that if you don't know the girl well enough to know her "REAL" name, say nothing.

and even then, you need to let circumstances dictate whether or not to say anything, especially if she is with someone that you do not know.  

My circumstances are a lot different from the average john as I have a lot of "hooker buddies" and we sometimes run into each other due to common friends, interests and hangouts.

One time I ran into a provider I knew in a completely different country. I was in Panama walking through a casino when some girl grabbed me from behind, covered my eyes and said "guess who?" Well considering the last time I had seen her was months earlier in Costa Rica, I didn't nave a clue, but it was a pleasant surprise, and naturally we spent the night together that night. lol

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Of course this was a few years ago before the place turned into a shit hole.

I do not recommend the place at all today. For the best talent Trumps is now the place to go. Lots of hot Venezuelans and Colombianas.

I ran into providers in public on two different occasions. We recognized each other but didn't acknowledge each other. The thing is, people have outside lives and they want to keep them separate....which is probably the best thing for everyone.

I won't say it in the room 😉