but I did meet her years ago.   It was a good experience and I would recommend.  however it took me many tries before I was successful (so many that i probably wouldn't put up with it these days).   Back then she was easy enough to get ahold of and we'd set up a date, but then she'd cancel the day of, time after time ... always with a different excuse.   After finally meeting her I concluded that she was just nervous about meeting new people because it was only after I had met a friend of hers who would personally vouch for me did she actually go through with the meeting.   Someone else posted that they had had a similar experience iirc.

She's still on P411, with her last login on 5/31, but her twitter mentions Ireland so maybe she's overseas?

What is her Twitter handle? Thanks

Thanks my friend.  Apparently things have not changed a lot since you saw her.  I got a lot of messages saying she makes an appointment and repeatedly cancels. Not sure it is about meeting new people since she seems to have been at this for nearly 10-15 years.  Anyway, on to the next.