Hello, My girlfriend and I are feeling adventerous and would like to try a swingers club. I have been tasked with finding one, any help would be greatly appreciated.

Saturday nights they have Club Sinz at Wicked.
It is located upstairs over the strip club Tens.
http://www.clubsinz.com/home.html

They have also opened another club called Sinnz in Ogunquit ME
Friday nights

PM me for more details.

What i cant figure out is why are men always excluded from these places.Its for couples and single females.Why not single males.

If single men were allowed, there would be a 100-1 ratio of men to woman.  

Then there will be no woman because all the couples and single woman will stop going.  

I'm sorry to say, as a man, that single men have a real hard time behaving themselves in these situations.  Their mere presence creates tensions for many couples and single woman feel like they are in a meat market with a dozen single guys hanging around trying to pick up anything with vagina.

Hey, just bring a provider with you.  I am sure there are many many providers that would love to attend a swing party if they don't already with their SO

Clubs that allow a small number of pre screened mature men who can act accordingly in these situations.

My wife and I have been to many parties and clubs where even just a few single guys change the entire atmosphere.  

Now some couples bring a third person along, often a man, but the couple usually vouch for the guy.

There aren't that many single woman who attend these clubs, at least in New England. I can't speak for Florida or elsewhere.

Single woman in the swinging scene are known as Unicorns because they are so rare and largely a myth or fantasy that couples have.

Thanks for your response and it makes scense.