I think I can speak for most of us gals Thank you for looking out for all of us. And I pray that the provider will get well soon.
Chloe Ward
He beat the Christ out of a well known provider. Knocked out teeth, and gave her 7 stitches. PM me, for his name/handle. Ladies only. I will NOT reveal the provider's name.
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THAT SUCKS !
I hope she'll be ok. That's god-aweful!
This is why we are so tough, and get tougher, on screening. So, when being asked for your info, please remember that we are always in an unknown and possibly unsafe situation.
Send my regards,
AngieRenee
Hi there,
This situation is awful and my heart goes out to the provider in question.
May I ask why this perpetrator's handle is not made public? Certainly he does not deserve to be protected.
Thanks
-NK
I think we all, providers and hobbyists both, should be made aware of who this is.
If made public, at least some ladies that are on vacation or that are visiting Boston will be made aware of this.
Also, it wouldn't hurt to have the great guys out here know who this is in case someone knows who he is.
Please be sure to let this lady know that we are thinking of her and we are behind her!
-- Modified on 9/4/2008 1:25:21 PM
-- Modified on 9/4/2008 7:54:57 PM
I seriously doubt it. I would think that the men on TER would never do something like this.
Remember there are many times more "hobbyists" than members of TER.
His info is posted on a public site-- Dangerzone411, and other DNS lists/boards. He is still threatening the provider. Men have no need to know who he is. BTW, the battered provider is NOT an RSG girl.
-- Modified on 9/4/2008 1:56:43 PM
I cant help thinking that for all the drawbacks to doing so, this lady or someone who knows this guy should call the cops. Or am I totally naive in thinking that LE would come to the aid of any of us. My guess is that most cops would regard a serious beating as a lot more serious than any thing we do. I dont think that my faith in LE runs very high, but I think there are some limits to what they'll tolerate even when the victim is part of an unpopular group.
If he continues to harass her after she has filed charges and the prosecutor takes the case to court, he will face federal charges for intimidating/tampering with a witness.
She needs to make his life hell and then sue him in civil court for damages.
We should all NEVER fear telling.
There was a recent situation south of Boston (Brockton, maybe?) where some guy was beating up streetwalkers, until finally one of them went to LE. Turns out LE was a lot more interested in getting the guy than in the ladies, and they eventually got him. I don't know what the ladies had to go through but I didn't see their names in the paper. I think (and I hope) LE would take violent crime a lot more seriously than escorts who are keeping a low profile and not hurting anyone, but I understand the provider's reluctance to expose herself to unwanted attention.
Fuzzy,
Clear your head a bit! When Bob Davis was finally caught back in the 90's (he wasthe Mod of TBD - screen name "BD13") it was GUY that recognized him from a hotel video the police were having the media broadcast. He was well known by many, mnay of the ladies but none of them spoke up or dropped a dime. I can understand their desire to remain in the background but........ this asshole isn't going to get prosecuted with everyone hiding behind the hotel door!
Wow. Whoever this person is, he is a scumbag by anybody's definition.
But as mentioned, it is not up to us to dispense whatever justice we seem to feel fits. It is not our place.
What an asshole!!!!! Big tough guy!
OK, so how can I contact Jill, and who is this guy??
Is he by any chance "Vansi Dun"? I met him a while a ago, he is a very dangerous guy. Thank God he didn't beat me up but I posted a complaint about him and heard many awful things he's done. He is Asian, he is muscular (he's a body builder), he's kind of tall, tanned skin...
Does this fit that creep's description?
Ladies,
You all know how to get in touch with me if you would like the info, and guys, please I am not going to give you the info so please stop asking!
BTW he is more of a lurker than a poster.
Jill
Im in Chicago thank god! What an imbecil that guy is, I hope she can press charges!
xoxo
AA
-- Modified on 9/4/2008 3:50:32 PM
And let me be behind the door to "provide" for him..........
his name will be OUT...it may in fact be the gals wish to keep some of the info hushed for the time being...we must respect her and her wishes...this is a terrible time and I cannot say anything that hasn't already been said...wellllll I can say this THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE BIGGER AND BADDER IN THIS WORLD AND IF HE IS NOT PROSECUTED HE WILL PAY FOR HIS ACTIONS it is all just a matter of time and a friend recently said these words to me "revenge is a dish that is best served up cold" AMEN and if anyone close to this woman is taking a collection for her please let me know privately ty
boards like ours can mitigate that is through warnings like this. These warnings will incite anger and frustration at the asshole and sympathy, empathy, and protective feelings toward the lady. These feelings automatically translate into a desire for more information regarding both people involved so that we can channel our emotions.
However, the ONLY person whose wishes should be respected regarding the information is the provider's. If she doesn't want her or his information publicly outed, then her desire should be adhered to. It doesn't matter what her reasons are.
She obviously got the information to the two people on this board that will respect her wishes over everything else, and I applaud her and them. Fuzzy will control the information on the board and Jill will ensure that the ladies get the info they need to be safe while also being the tough enough "bitch" (her words) needed to protect the information the provider wants protected. The rest of us can continue to offer whatever support we can to the lady and whatever vitriol we have to the asshole, but we really don't need to know who either of them are.
If I could, I'd be the first in line to hunt the guy down and fuck him up, but I also know that it's beyond impractical to fulfill that particular desire. This, quite understandable, need for more information is in danger of chaff obscuring the real purpose of the warning, which is to let providers know who to contact for the screening information that they need to stay safe.
Thank you Fuzzy and Jill for the service you are providing to us and, more importantly, to her. Please pass along my best wishes to the provider.
Good luck
First,let me say that my heart goes out to the gal who was beaten.
The lady was not just slapped around
This was a brutal, violent, and vicious beating.
I assume she went to an ER or some medical facility and will be receiving ongoing treatment.
The doctors at any medical facility can recognize a beating from an accident. Now I do not know the laws there but they may be obligated to report this to the police. It is my understanding that, if the lady requests, the doctors and police will be discrete. As much as we bash LE (me being a basher) they are often very good and compassionate in a case like this. They most likely will not care about her occupation but will seek to get this guy off the street.
Yes I too would like to be one of the macho guys who beat this guy within an inch of his life and leave him in the gutter, but I know that is not going to happen.
However I must ask is this the first time he has done this? Possibly not, but just the first time it is reported in this way. Maybe he has done this to gals who are not known to the TER family and do not know any of his information and could not repot specific info to LE.
I will respect the wishes of the victim, that we on the board do not know the details, but I do hope that this guy ends up behind bars.
Again my thoughts and prayers are with the gal and wish her a speedy recovery.
Thank You
2008=27
-- Modified on 9/5/2008 7:15:44 AM
My heart and prayers goes out the the provider who was hurt.
And for the sick bastard that did this, I hope karma comes back ten fold on him immediately.
I had planned to visit next week and from now on will now be screening heavier than I usually do .
XO Ellyse
Of course it's easy for me to speak since I'm not the provider and the one who's privacy or life maybe revealed. But the problem is that this guy is going to victimize over and over while everyone is hoping he makes a mistake or someone else turns him in. He may or may not make a mistake, but in the mean time there will be more victims.