Hi everyone,
I’m hoping someone here can point me in the right direction. I recently found out that I was blacklisted, and I’m honestly confused because I didn’t do anything wrong. The only thing that happened was that I had to cancel an appointment, and I’m pretty sure that’s the reason I was added to the list.
I’ve been a respectful client for over 20 years. I’ve never crossed any boundaries, never disrespected anyone, and I always try to be a reliable gentleman. It feels unfair to be banned over a simple cancellation, especially when I’ve always tried to do things the right way.
If anyone has advice on how to get this resolved or who I can contact to clear my name, I’d really appreciate the help.
Thanks in advance

I do not participate in any blacklist.

I don't do references for this same reason.  

Providers are people & not all have their shot together.  

Many are jaded from this industry. Maybe she had a bad day? Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ idgaf.  I look at your history here on TER. As a vet myself twenty years does not happen over night. Your whitelist is very impressive to me.

Canceling an appointment means you owe me for m time booked it’s on my website that’s my personal policy.  

If she has a cancellation policy you need respectfully pay her cancellation fee.  

How do you know you’ve been blacklisted? If she told you that it’s against their policy. She should tell you what third party website. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

I see people who are on the blacklist & whitelisted because I’m not racist. 😂  

Smile for me! I made a joke. 😆  

Some/many providers are 🦇 💩 crazy. No blacklist participation for me & no reference from people you don’t know personally. Why would I trust anything from anyone I do not know? 💭

Thanks for the advice.  I even pay the cancellation fee because I want to keep a good raport with the provider.
I recently tried setting up a date with someone and she informed me that i was blacklisted. Now i can’t make any future appointments with VIPs.
I appreciate your input and I hope to make an appointment for next week.

I  never participated in black lists or reviews references etc  
People are people and it’s a shame no one communicates anymore. I’m sorry this happened to you.
I would have sent an email and talked about whatever would have bothered me .
People now just want to click on something rapidly without understanding. We all are human