I am just asking because lately this board has been heavily littered with more pissing, moaning, gossiping, and bullshit than mature adults should have time or sense to be participating in. It has brought a negative tone and definitive cattiness to the board between both the providers and clients. I've seen attacks between ladies, men, ladies and men.  It's ugly and unnecessary.  

I'd advise stepping away from your laptop, handheld, phone, whatever and interacting with real live people face to face away from this arena. Either there are some folks lacking interpersonal social skills, or desperately in need of fresh air and a reality check.

Creating an upbeat sex positive place with like minded people doesn't work when everyone is bickering and cutting one another down.  

Grace