Lots of posts about inflated donations, I agree 200%, hobby is becoming unaffordable. Upon the 100th coax from an old wingman buddy, I finally went to Jaco, Costa Rica for a week. Best decision of my life.  
Changes in latitude, changes in attitude. This whole town is set up for guys, crawling with great hot girls, they are a dime a dozen here.  Well, a benjy, for one. Amazing, great, and the best thing is that its all right out in the open here. No wonder its a bachelor party destination, there were two sets of em on the plane from Miami.
We're already planning a return trip. Check out Jaco,  highly recommended!!