With all the provider cancellation policies...50% if within 2 days, etc., it really pisses me off when a provider cancels with no recourse.  Today I traveled to Boston thinking I was meeting with a traveling provider (who according to her multiple ads was supposed to be offering her services even the day before).  We had made the date several weeks ago and I told her I am traveling a ways to get to Boston.  Last night I reached out to her to confirm and again this morning when I got up.  No response.  Started driving to Boston and 52 mins before our appointment  she sent an email saying she cancelled her Boston trip.  Wtf, if I cancelled on my client short notice I’d loose my work.  It’s a two way street.  Only reason I even reached out the day before is this happened 6 months ago as well.  I’m sure she didn’t get the bookings she had hoped for, but Have some courtesy I am the client.  When you cancel your plane tickets, cancel your appointments.

To some providers, it is a one way street. Many guys have had similar experiences with other ladies. Don’t forget them. Next time they visit, when the phone doesn’t ring, that will be you.

She didn’t require a deposit but then I have only been asked for a deposit once in five years and that is meeting with as pricey of providers as there are.  I don’t think her requiring a deposit is indicative of her level of decency. In fact it would be 100% worse because I am sure she’d be telling me she’d credit our next visit or something like that and I’d be more pissed. Rather than just wasting half a day of my life, I’d be trying to get my money back.  I am sure she took the time to cancel her hotel and air fare 24-hours before.  Looking at her website, I see that the 3 days she was supposed to be in Boston got added to her NYC days...

Unless this is meant to be a pointless rant, you probably should identify the lady. It is your only real recourse and warns others who might consider booking on a future trip.

I've experienced this before and it's never pleasant.   I would say that I've have more problems with last minute cancellations in other parts of the country than I have in the northeast but regardless, it's one of the reasons that I'm reluctant to do deposits or book with people with onerous cancellation policies.   If you feel strongly about it then the person should be identified and you should pass the next time she comes to town.

Absolutely agree.  As a stand alone post it is only a cry for sympathy and not useful to others.

As a friend of mine used to say  "If you are looking for sympathy, it is between Shit and Syphilis in the dictionary."

Any professional companion would have confirmed her appointment the day prior. I always do. Once I receive an email confirmation from the gentleman, I will send location info with my instructions, location and reminder of donation.  

Now, before I say continue, I am not one for drama on the board. NEVER have I been, but in IMO, this was the OP's fault. If he sent a confirmation email the day prior and the morning of why would you even start heading to Boston??

Things happen. Believe or not, I received some unfortunate news regarding my best friend yesterday. Fortunately, I had no appointments set, because had I , believe me I would have been a no show and I would not have been able to confirm my appointments for the following day.  I was truly upset and tears all day. This was situation. We don't know what her reasons are for not contacting him, but both the OP and girl are equally responsible for this one.  

Let them hash it out, because from the sounds of his post I'm sure it's more to this story.

I'm truly sorry this happened to you, but where the heck were you heading to?  

Why would you travel to an appointment you booked "several weeks ago" send a confirmation email to the provider the day before and the morning of  to get no response. Did you give her a deposit?  

If this happened 6 months ago I feel you should have waited to hear back from the provider. No need in letting the community know who she is if you did not give her a deposit.  

Contact her and let HER know how disappointed you are, not the board. Now that this has been done to you twice, next time make sure the provider you choose confirms the day prior and request once she hears from you to let you know what the location is.

He's just upset and has every right to be, but he should have NEVER gone without getting confirmation from her. Even if she tried to say he NCNS he would of had proof of the emails he sent her. That was not the case.  

Two confirmation emails to her with no response is grounds for you not to show up.

If I cancel for any reason; I offer extra time upon my return.  
I do understand that paying Boston hotel rates are not conducive to wishing in one hand and shitting in the other. But, it takes little effort to be courteous regardless.