I'll be visiting Boston soon and these type of posts help with my research.

But, seriously, five times is four times too many to let any provider stand you up.  Just move on...

stamina you should change your name to ultimatepatience.

This far, far worse than none.

So far I've experienced a NCNS pulled by the only provider that is extremely well know and documented. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and followed advice from other providers that if you really want to see her you'll work with her to schedule something. I've tried now 5 times and each time she's pulled a NCNS! I've even paid for a hotel room on her specific request. Each time when the hour came, she conveniently became MIA.
I can see folks saying she will always have a valid excuse.... Personal issues, broken phone 2x, but when the provider thinks it will take her 20mins to get from Cape Cod to Danvers, she's clearly (well you fill in the blank here...).

For those of you that haven't already figured out who this provider is.... Raynah.

5 times, that's 100% your fault. At lest try using the baseball rule of 3 strikes your out.

I don't care how bad I want to see the women, if I get a NCNS, odds are I would never rebook with the lady again.

Time is money for both sides Provider and hobbiest.  No one likes theirs wasted.




(This is not a knock on the provider in question, just a general statement about NCNS)




.

That's nothing new if U did  a search about her on TER you'd seen that she's KNOWN for that and then coming up with  the LAMEST excuses

... though in those cases, I would prefer honesty from the provider rather than her wasting my time.  

(Five times?  What's that saying about the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly, and expecting different results?)

That's me. No sane person would put up with a 5x NCNS.
Meanwhile she strung me along with promises to meet and encouragement.
I'd that wasn't bad enough I kept booking for a 3hr session.

"Drive to Braintree, then call me."
Sure, I get there thru Boston rush hour traffic and she doesn't answer her phone or respond by text.... Her so called preferred method of communication!

What's that saying, bad publicity is better than none?

That's me. No sane person would put up with a 5x NCNS.
Meanwhile she strung me along with promises to meet and encouragement.
If that wasn't bad enough I kept booking for a 3hr session.

"Drive to Braintree, then call me."
Sure, I get there thru Boston rush hour traffic and she doesn't answer her phone or respond by text.... Her so called preferred method of communication!

(edited by mod)

-- Modified on 8/5/2011 5:19:55 PM

I might be using that photo in the near future lol.

My experience with Raynah has been very good overall...  With certain unique considerations that are definitely not possible for everyone... But this seems to be the situation.... My highlights...

First several time I tried to set up an appointment I couldn't get a confirmation the day before or the morning of...  So I didn't have a NCNS at that time...  But I believe there was one occasion that I did get in contact on the day and then didn't hear from her later. But...

Finally got an appointment set up for a same day meeting, when I got her at a time when she answered the phone...  She came by my place in Boston....  And this is what I have noticed... I read the posts on the discussion board so I was prepared for some challenges...

She stated she would come by around 8pm...  I am single and have complete control of my evening time, so I set aside an evening just incase things ran late...  8 came and went but I waited a bit before I tried to call...  VM came on and I left a really nice message, "Hope you are ok" - kind...   She called a hour later and said she was still coming and was running late. I said  no worries that I was just relaxing...

Ok, so she called again to refine the directions to my place and eventually made it around 11pm...  She apologized a bunch, seemed to have a little buzz, but was really sweet and looked good...  I was hopeful about the time ahead and I wasn't disappointed... I think me being extra understanding added to her efforts. So the session was a 9-10 level...  The wait was annoying but I had planned on it so.... And she showed up and was very skilled.

Next appt...   I think cuz we actually got along well...  She called the morning of and said she had to reschedule...  So seemed keen on not leaving me hanging... We did reschedule for the following week....

Again planned to meet in the city at 8 or 9 pm...  She got to me a little after 11pm...  And the 2nd sessions was better than first...

So all that to say... My take is... She doesn't do this as her main gig/ goal... Many girls don't I know but... I think she is conflicted sometimes about how often she works... But there is no evidence of conflict during the session... Again she is top notch there...  And I get the sense her home life is busy and at times complex..  I don't offer this as an excuse for not being more accurate with appointment times or  not letting folks know she can't or won't make it...

Just want to paint the picture I have seen...  Sweet, Sexy, Great Eyes, Bright, Fun, Talented Physically...  Who is not really punctual for whatever reason and possibly has a complicated/ stressful schedule of her own.

So if you have the capability and patience...  Set up stuff on an evening where you can just hangout and chill...  Once you meet her and if you two click...  Things won't flow perfectly schedule wise but the communication will improve and my successful appointments have been impressive...  But some of that is chemistry dependent I'm sure. So... I am keeping her...  I like her so just being extra flexible.

Now I won't schedule a time with a lady if there is even a sniff of NCNS in her past. I just don't have the time or patience for that kind of thing.

I too let a provider cancel on me twice. a massage provider named krysten estelle she was on eros called her as she only does out calls gave her my address and a few hours later i get a call that says she ate too much salt and it made her feel poorly and would need to reschedule. two days later i called to book again she said she would call her driver and get back to me in 15 min. three hours later i called her and she said her driver never called her back so in her mind that meant she did not need to call me back.

okay tried to set something up for the next day. everything was a go. except now no call no show. i called her and texted her when she was 30 min late asking if she was still coming. at the hour mark i texted her not to come by as i was stepping out. lastly i texted her to ask what happened. never heard a word back.

i am going to stick with reputable services from now on

enough with the Shakespearean Sonnets already.  You guys creep me out, I guess, I will start NCNS'ing it will up my cache as a sexy, desirable provider.   Just saying.  GAG and then gag again.

FILE UNDER:  MEN WHO ENCOURAGE BAD BEHAVIOR and then do the unmanly thing and whine about it

You should just ask civvies out, go to Daisy Buchanan's for last call and be done with ye!

It happened to me three times, twice in two nights with the same provider.  Be general and careful with your comments.  We are always in the wrong in these particular provider's eyes.  They will mud sling your name to take the attention off their misdeeds.  I have insulated myself from any slander or defamation from these providers with my 25 TER whitelist referrals and 57 Date Check references.  You don't get 25 whitelist referrals and 57 Date Check references if you are a "problem" hobbyist.

Lol...  Who has time for all that... I hardly write anything on her. Just felt bad for her.
You spend to much time on here I guess if ya know the boards that well. Go home to your wife or gf. Lol

Why did you pay for a hotel room, when she already NCNS you and has the reputation? Did you acknowledge that you were getting the room before she NCNS again, sticking you with the room fee?

Shame on both of you!

-- Modified on 8/7/2011 12:21:46 PM

Yes, I'm the 2 nights in a row...I'm not pleased about it, it happened.  Mud sling, who am I going to say anthing to?

If you wanted to find out where I was, just look in the bar.  Not anything proud of, but it happens and I'm not going to pretend.

Not to be mean, I think you've been stood up more than twice.  Not to self, don't take it persoanlly.  My experience is you were not a problem hobbyist.  That's is my opinion, I can't speak for anyone else.

Again, from my experience and only mine, I do apologize.

Ok, guys let's be adults about this. You wanted to see her, she is a flake and did not show up a few times but you were hot so see her. The hunt is part of the excitement some times. Let's not slam the hobbiest. Without us the ladies would not make a dime. We should all be thankful that he called her on this to provide warning to us all in advance. If the lady does not want to be professional and honor appointments with clients whose time is valuable then we should all be aware of her work ethic.

Fin

And you feel "lucky"?