I requested PM replies only, because I know this may be a "sensitive" topic, and I don't want to put anyone out there.
I just find these activities very sensual, erotic, etc.  I love to give and receive.   Obviously, both parties must be impecibly fresh and clean.  I pride myself on this, and if I ask to take a shower at your incall, it's usually in the hopes that the provider will join, but I am always freshly showered before the session.  I also realize this may not be on the menu for a first time visitor.
Just looking for PMs from either providers who enjoy, or hobbiests who may recommend.
Thank you.