Looks to me like Amber just shut down the business in the last 2 hours. Check out bodyoasis.com and you'll see that everything has folded into bluepleasures. Sad. There seems to be a little bitterness in her message re "other boards". I don't thing the info on the boards at blue pleasures is very valuable at all. They've got a long way to go. Hope Amber did the right thing for herself.

Isn't BLUE also the favorite color of LE?

I use Netscape and the site won't allow me access. I never could understand the mentality of a business that doesn't allow all people to access.

Oh well, there's another good idea gone to waste.

Yes B-O is now bluepleasures. I had a look around on the new site and it's most of the B-O girls plus a few indies. You have a 30 day 'free' trial and then I guess you have to pay a membership fee to view and contact the girls.

It's just another way to ripoff us guys. We pay enough, and we shouldn't have to pay to email for services.

There are plenty of great indies and services around this area. I won't be paying just to be able to email a provider for a visit.

What a shame. Amber ran a great service.

With sexual things, the only 'blue' I can think of is 'blue balls'.  So, how is that a pleasure?  Is that a BDSM referral site? (kidding Amber).

-Shy_N_Jewish

That's what I thought. I also became very suspicious when I got an email from Amber asking me if I wanted to put my girls up on her new site. It is no secret that Amber and I are not exactly best friends, so why would I want to put my girls on a site that a client needs to pay for when they can check out our site for free? Something just did not sound Kosher to me. I am not saying that the new site is not legit, What I am saying just be cautious.

Jill

Some people just won't learn that greed is always a downfall in the end. When they're making money they always want more. It's a basic human instict but in this case it will be the down fall of Amber's business. I for one will not pay to view a site or make an appointment. There are plenty of others out there.
 Jill, I have always enjoyed RS. You should capitalize on this as now you are the only great priced service. I'm sure you will attract alot of new clients. Good Luck.

I haven't heard from you lately tried to email but it bounced back to me and was not delivered. Let me know how you're doing and I'll fill you in on BO.

Tia

I don't know where to even start.  i don't want anyone to think that I am sticking up for Amber just because I like her or have anything to gain by doing so.  Because i don't have anything to gain and Amber and I parted on not the best terms due to her.  Nothing really bad but that is another story I won't even get into today.  I am standing infront of the "Firing Line , YOU". Because I know not everyone is going to agree with me.  Because I don't think it is right when some one "Gangs up on someone else" at a weak moment.  Maybe the word gang up seems to harsh to some but i've been reading all the boards and that is how it is comming off to me.  Correct me if I am wrong and i will apologize to everyone.

Everyone acts like Blue Pleaseures just came out of the blue.  Pardon the pun.  But she has had a banner advertising it's arrival for months.  Yes, she probably should have warned us all ahead of time that it was comming so soon.  That way some of you wouldn't have gone to call her and got messages saying her #'s were disconnected.  If she is giving VIP's or Regulars her numbers now why didn't she give them to the regulars before she overhauled the BO site?  I only fault her for not letting anyone know that she was going to do this ahead of time and that she left us all asking "What the hell is going on".  It would have been great if she responded to alot more messages to answer more of our questions.

All the hobbiest that know Amber know that she is pretty honest and I don't know why everyone is now waiting util know to air her laundry or find something to poke at.  Check the boards/ reviews.  So many of you have used her agency before and had a nice time. Plaes understand that this hobby is becoming more dangerous not because of all hobbiest but because of a few "Knuckel-heads " that ruin it for everyone. Everyone seems to forget the recent run- in that Jasmin from Bo had with a bad client...or the run in that Ashley-SexualVixen ran into recently...or even my personal friend ran into a creep.  I've run into some creeps myself and I know that us providers need to be sooo careful.  At who's cost?  All you fabulous guys expenses.  Why? Because girls are screaning so much more than before.  Which makes it harder to get a same day appointment or an appoitment at all. I know I'm going on and on but Blue Pleasures makes it easier for us gals to screen potential clients and weed out the "Loonies".  I know, I know that it makes it harder for you guys, and I don't want to sound selfish.  But us girls have so much more at stake.  This hobby is around so we can all enjoy it so lets just waite and see what Amber has to say before we say anymore.

If you check the other boards Amber has responded and answered many of the questions we are asking on this one.

Tia
-my 2 cents-

Just one of the many reasons I have chosen to move on to this end of the spectrum.
I have worked with a collaboration to create a new advertising/message board/hosting /production company at the site listed www.bluepleasures.com.
Internet explorer doesnt accept all code and since the issue arose has since been redeveloped .
Body Oasis is gone , but clearly not forgotten .
I have made this decision personally and decided to move on .
Anyone that tells you its because of any reason other than my personal choice is a blatant liar.
I know that many agencies across the US will be advertising with us and using our message boards and our instant messaging system where your private messages are safe.
Have you read hotmails new policies?
If you are under the assumption your mail is private you may want to go and take a look.
I have taken every idea that has ever been mentioned to me and combined it with outstanding technology to provide hobbyists and ladies alike with a platform that suits their needs completely.
Jill I expect nothing less from you , the offer for advertising still stands take it dont take it what ever you decide is fine by me .I have no axe to grind clearly you do my suggestion is move on. Find something better to devote your energy to than me , I am not your competition and I thought that by extending my hand you would understand that .Clearly I gave you the wrong impression.
I combined a great group of ladies whom I love and respect and wish the best wherever they end up.
I have given recomendations to some and others I have helped along the way on how to start out on their own.
They are still great girls wherever they go .
I hope that they will all advertise with me as well as use our boards and all of the other services we will provide for advertisers .
If you decide to join the site its free painless and takes less than one minute for admirers if you decide not to thats your choice as well.Its also free for any and all ladies agency /indy whatever .
There is certainly a great platform here for you .
This is America you can make your own decisions.
I have made mine and wish everyone out here in ter land the best.
I have made some wonderful friends out here and hope that you all find happiness in whatever you do.
Im hoping to retire my screen name now .
Yours Amber

I'm sorry if this means that I will no longer have the opportunity to correspond and interact with you in the course of doing business.  It was always a pleasure, since you are a thoughtful and considerate person.  I hope that Blue Pleasures works out well for you!

Have fun, MG

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lol, it's never ending. Like the battle for truth, justice and the American way.

Congratulations to you, I know you've worked very hard to pull this off. I'll miss BodyOasis but I look forward to using the Bluepleasures site to find my next ATF(S) lol.  

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Amber, I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavor.  I will always think highly of you for giving me the opportunity to spend a memorable moment in time with Bianca.

I'll take the wait and see approach to the new site.  I had been a client of BO on more than a couple of occasions but never received a pw to the "member's area".  I'll stick with TER and depend on multi-reviewed providers who will continue to advertise in our forum.

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Amber, we have spoken on several occaissions and you have always been a woman with integrity that has my utmost respect.  You are more than a class act, you are intelligent, enterprising, have had the most lovely women of all the agencies and you have always treated everyone fairly.

I will support you in anyway that I can, and I look forward to advertising on your site.

Grow up guys.

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Rerama Drama Drama

The entrepreneur in me says I wish you well.  It is always exciting to start a new venture and to devote your energies to something that could take you far beyond your dreams

However, the client in me detests the concept of your new venture.  While I personally wish you weIl, I can certainly say I would never pay for a service such as Blue Pleasures.  It seems to me that you've simply taken the same concept as other sites but instead of having providers foot the advertising bill, you've passed it on to the client.  Well, shame on you; the advertising costs belong with the one seeking to reap their rewards.  Trying to squeeze another penny from the client is a poor move.

Good luck.

Tia, I disagree with your statement that you girls have so much more at stake. I think that both provider and hobbyist alike are at risk in this venture. Yes, providers are at risk from the idiots that ruin things for everyone else. The way I feel about it though is that a man with a family, job, mortgage etc... being asked to provide personal information about himself is a person with alot at stake. We all know that when LE raids a business they confiscate records both written and on computer hard drives. Evidence can't be found if evidence isn't there. Some providers claim that they don't keep records. I don't beieve it for one minute. If they didn't, then how would they be able to protect themselves as they say they want to? Both sides have legitmate reasons for wanting things a certain way. I for one wouldn't give my personal information to anyone. Not in this day and age. That's flat out asking for trouble. Immagine getting a knock at your door from LE wanting to ask questions? How would you explain that one to your family? Scary, huh?

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Amber, I think you are a great women and you have been nothing but sweet and helpful to me. I wish you all the best on the new site! ~Warm Hug's~ Crissy

I do agree with you.  Lets say I check my emails at various computers.  Most are in public areas.  Why?  Let the LE check the hard drive on all the public computers.  Frankly, they would't have enough time running from this computer at this place to that computer at that place and so on.  Nor do I think they would make so much of an effort unless there was a dumb provider that was completely careless and the LE had so much evidence that the best lawyers could't get her out of trouble.  I do see that hobbiest do have many thing at stake.  I should have clarified my point more before.  

What I meant is that providers have more at stake at the immediate time of an appointment.  I know there area some tough chickies out there but if a guy is really crazy a provider is  really no challenge to him.  That is what I meant.  What about the stalking issue or if a provider is followed home.  I personally know of an agency owner that had an pissed of provider and her obsessed regular follow her home to her house and try to attack her.  The f*cked up part is that this provider made a killing working for this agency.  Even worse is that the owner had her family at home(small children).  Now that is f*cked up in my opinion.  I know of messed up things that have happened in the biz that you may not be aware of as well as you may know things I don't know too.  What I know about the biz is why I made the point I made before. That's all.

Tia
XOXOXO

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I must have missed something here. Aren't TER and TBD also pay sites? That charge agencies and independents for advertising? And charge hobbiests for memberships? C'mon, be fair here.

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