Hello friends,

I am still relatively new to hobbying and would appreciate your input on a question. Please go easy on me if my assumptions are way off base as I am still admittedly inexperienced and am humbly requesting an education from the veterans

I have been operating under the assumption that trying to schedule appointments as early as possible on a provider's schedule is ideal. What I mean is, if a provider is visiting Boston and available on April 1st, 2nd and 3rd, the best time would be April 1st as early as they are available.

The idea being that, if the provider has seen multiple clients before you on that day or even the previous day, she may have less energy/desire for you.

Is there any truth to this or am I being silly? Do providers find they can get burnt out after a day or two of availability? Do late appointments sometimes get tiresome after a full day of seeing clients?

And do hobbyists find providers to be in a better mood at particular times of the day or particular days of their tour/available dates?

There is no universal answer to your question, or a universal method to navigate the situation you've described. It's just a matter of personal taste, on both ends... and, if I'm reading you correctly, I think that's the most important thing to remember when approaching a lady.  

Some of us ladies, for whatever reason, may see more men than others, but we're not conveyor belts I'm sure if you ask any girl here, she's not going to be scheduling herself back-to-back appointments all day every day to the point of utter exhaustion, so the "how many men were before me" mindset is just not a flattering one for either you or her. When you're with her, you're the only one with her, and she should know her libido well enough to know how many men she can see and still deliver a breathtaking personal encounter. Personally, I enjoy an orgy as much as the next girl, but it's an exceptionally rare day when I see more than one gentleman.

Also, the definition of "available" may vary between women as well. Available doesn't have to mean dolled up and dressed to the 9's, candles lit and soft music playing, lying in wait for any interested man to ring her phone. Available may mean that they're in town and checking in on civie friends or running some necessary but loosely scheduled errands, and they see that they could easily make time for something sensual if the opportunity arose. It's not like we just flip the "open" sign on our doors and watch men line up, lol.  

For me, my schedule says that I'm available all weekend. I am, but that's the state I use to describe sitting naked at my house, doing domestic stuff and periodically petting my dog. When I'm visiting an area, I'm generally hanging out with friends or enjoying the local scene when I'm not in the company of a gentleman.  

Long story short? I think you're overthinking

Definately over thinking this...

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and I've never noticed that this makes a bit of difference in how they interact with me.

I would not give it any thought.

that wont see you at 4 pm since your schedule is 9-5pm. i say i am available from 9-5pm but like last week in conn, i took three appts!
just because they SAY hi I am touring be there april1-3rd.
 dont assume that means they are on thier back for 72 hours!
 alot the ladies that charge alot actually are just in town to see a sugar daddy that pays for everything, and if they land one or 2 gfe they do it, just cuz they are stating the window of oppurtunity doesnt mean they are literaly sitting in a room with red lipstick on starin at the inbox.  
 I know for me i SAY 9-5. I took one 250 dollar bbj hour sensual massage combo date yesaterday,
day before did just ONE bbj hour for 250. Was I actually sitting down or home rest the day between 9-5 both days ! no!
 i went to walgreens, did a tan and a spray tan up the street went to dunkn donuts, went to the good quality fresh fish market for a lb of haddock.  
ran a mile. i definetly like all other ladies whom say for exampl hi boys april1-3 i will be in town, I know i was in hartfor for a week last week and only did three appt.
 dont think thety are only doing this as income, and most have a rich bf paying for everything anyway or they have a real job too and if some one DOES book between the hours they mention then they move thier other lives activities around, I know for me like i am checkn email now, but now i have to go out and do real life things real life girls do, and boys,
 i wont be back on internet til maybe before bed.
 its funny cuz guys will start a dialogue the n say hello? where did you go? like i sit behind the pc 24 /7!  or keep a cell phone attached to my face while i am out enjoying life and doing errands, i am old fashioned i actually enjoy meaningless conversation about the weather with people when out of my house, as opposed to staring into a phone feeling like i must answer every email text or call that rolls in frantically, in less then 5 min,
 i know my last trip i went to ny, this was last year, i had one appt only there with the guy that drove me there, he left me with a paid for fancy room, and alot of money after the over night, i had planned on touring and doin appt, but with a huge stack a money and feelin tired after our sleepover and all the things we went out in did in the city too,  
i didnt even take any call for my three days , i went and got a 2 hour massage, mani pedi brazilian waxing, took a yoga class, shopped.  
then in jersey i took only one date, yes my schedule and other girls schedules may say they are willing to do an appt april 1-3 whiole in boston, and when they say booked, that for me doesnt mean 9-5 i have an appt, after i take 2 gfe maybe 3 per week, after that i am booked ! i am only doing 3 max gfe per week now and 90 percent i am doing body rubs.  
so like today a guy wanted a gfe , he has to wait til next mon or after, i already have one regular coming possibly fri, then i have a bf i fuck every night, i dont need to have sex 80 times a day or week nor want too.
 so chances are they are not on thier backs for 3 days, and think, on low end scale she is charging 500 for an escort hour, ... think the hotel and food will be covered barely by the 1st appt,  
and most guys book multiple hours and the entire session is not is never fucking the entire time!
 they may book 2-3 hours and i hour he may even be giving you a massage, or one hour maybe eating lunch,  
 they may not even take a second appt if all thier needs are met and they have extra money and decide to go shopping that day, they are just letting you knpow they CAN and MAY see you those days, during those hours, it doesnt mean they actually are getting poked prodded rubbed licked for the entiretly of those days,
and keep in mind if your not happy with the service to speak up instead of being a little bitch and turnin around and whinin like a woman iN A REVIEW!
  as for me i have bigger balls than half the dorks on here, sooooo.
 If i pay for something, a coffee a meal. if i dont like it youl fuckn know!
 i would never smile at the baristas face and then go home and bash thier business on yelp.
for me i give the person a chance to CORRECT themselves and make it right,
 i had a coffee that was rank a week ago at a hotel coffee shop. i said no cant drink this this is exactly how i like it made, then i said jokingly how i am a coffee snob and then gave her 5 dollar tip, as well as went upstairs to sing the coffee shops girls praises to the management, i was like they make the best machiatos there!
 Thats the way most normal people do business.  
 apparemtly some will go endure a bad experience, never make a peep. then be a two faced pussy and go write a pessimistic whiny baby waaaah, review.
 i know for me because i realize some guys are bigger cowards than i d ever thought exists.
 now i check in 10 times i aask if they want any thing done differently be sure to speak up,  cuz you are the customer!
 jjust dont be a little bitch and whine after when the ladies dont look like thier glamour shots, or they look older, or they just suck,  
be one the guys that walks in knowing what he wAnts and can direct traffic if need be, ,,,,
and dam if your not happy with the way they look, leave. last thing we need here is another guy to go on g.d. and whine he gave a 400 lb 60 year old with a beard his 600 and klet her get him off, then whine after.
on g.d. board!
 try and remeber you can walk out if not happy when you arrive, remeber technically this is not even legal so they aint gonna call the godam cops on your ass!  
 ok, so in answer, book it when works for you, dont assume we are these gross pigs that lay on back entire shift, she CAN make herself avl to you those hours, if she has all good reviews, Chances are she isnt burnin candle at both ends ,,,,,
i know for me i definetly cant handle excess of escort hour appts, so i do mainly massages and have rich boyfriends in real life any ways, and i inherited money from 2 family members, dont assume,  they are havn too many dippin in the well. i have one bf i can make my rent in full and then some off, every month, and he only fucks for 15 min, he wants to come every sat, and stuff.
 then for me i also work at a busy bar on newbury every thur fri sat,
 if i do three appt a week thats just butter.  
 xoxoxoxo we are not filthy cum dumpster sluts that lay around suckin fat prick all day mr. ok? just get it straight. we actually put clothes on and go do things . xoxoxo  
 and you cant hear my tone in this post but know that I am laughing the entire time, which means you can laugh too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and beware speak n spell patrol. you will meet them son.

Well, I don't think a provider can get burned out if she has a steady inflow of repeats/regulars and hobbyists who are TER whitelisted and or on date-check, etc...

For example, I have a 3 hour date set up today at 5:45 in Center City. We will meet at a restaurant (he already requested) and then head back to my room. At a requested $800 donation I will not see anybody this afternoon, instead, I will prepare for my evening rendezvous by shopping for a new outfit or accessories or working setting up the next day.  

True, your assumptions are right on the money if the provider does not have a sleep, eat, work schedule and steady flow of clients pre-booking who are client verifiable and trustworthy then there is a possibility that the sooner the better.

Without trustworthy clients and regulars it would be hard to take a chance that a client may cancel. During my experiences, usually, when a hobbyist books in advance and reach out the way they do when looking for a date they do not want to be dicked around, so to speak.
~M

I have seen providers who are great the first day and who are terrible the first day and vise versa. if she is a professional then you will get good service when ever you book.

Showering after work (at work) prepares me for a weekday 430 pm appointment in Burlington or 4pm in Tewksbury.  I don't like going into downtown Boston, but if I must, will do that on a weekend early afternoon.  Have had good luck avoiding bad traffic.

I advise the girl not to eat before seeing me, and have had good luck overall with escorts being at their best.

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Wow! This is a bad-ass post! Thank you for taking the time, I'll definitely take your advice to heart. Is it true you're leaving to Jersey for good!? That would be too bad!

Thank you for the thoughtful response!

"the "how many men were before me" mindset is just not a flattering one for either you or her"  Im with you on this one... My conscience was nagging at me about the way I was approaching setting up appointments, which is why I thought I would bring the question to you guys.

I get the point from everyone that has posted and I appreciate the input. I think its safe to say a good provider will manage her time/schedule wisely and this isn't something I should concern myself with.  

That said, one of the main reasons this issue arose was an experience I had early on setting up an appointment through an agency. The girl was on tour, in town for 2 days. Trying to arrange a time that worked for me through the agency gave me the distinct impression that this girl was booked up pretty heavily.

Maybe someone with experience working with agencies could shed light on this? Is there pressure when touring for an agency to provide a higher volume of clients or do the agencies pretty much leave it up to the girls?

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Thank you guys, just what I needed. You have put my mind at rest!

This is kind of why I prefer longer dates even when touring. I'm not interested in a bajillion penises a day.  I sleep normal-ish hours (don't normally see anyone after 11pm or before 7am), can't recall the last time i've seen more than 2 people in a day either (even on tour). I manage my time, value my health (physically and mentally) and sleep lol.  So ..... i'm always at 100%.

She might not even be booked up all that heavily .... everyone has their "max" for a day or week etc (indy or agency ..... some low and some as many as they can get) .

if any these ladies really worked the entire shift they SAY they have availability. Theyd be flippin the money into real estate and retired in a month!  
   if I really worked 9-5 7 days a week. I d own a huge apt complex in 2 weeks and have a car and fake tits by now.  
i know for me i am pumped just to live in an ocean front property, highrise in Boston, have a 1,200 dollar pedigree dog thats again a huge expense. The thousands he cost me. Worst was when we stopped short year ago n he hit dashboard. i had to pay for meds xrays, and had to see him hurt, he still limps now. poor guy.  
 Always buckle your pup in people!
I am just happy to be able to afford to eat ALL organic, have a amazing apt , AND then get to have so much free time to be relaxed and do other things i d rather do than be working 8 hours a day.  
Some girls are doing this hard n fast to get out fast, some are doing it a little here n there. Some are artists n musicians n this gives them the funds to have that time to pursue thier other hobbies.
when girls on ter they all get 300 plus an hour , some waaaay more.  
 but if they were doing half asses lazy blah sesssions, ... People would review bad and the lady would have to lower her rate.
 I know for me I get 500 a escort hour. But I can only do a few a week, Its a hard rough non stop hour multiples. I wouldnt be able to do appts like that back to back.  
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Well its good to know this seems to be the consensus for independent providers. I still can't shake the feeling that agencies book more though. One agency girl hinted that she saw at least 3 people before me that day. It didn't seem to affect her attitude though because we still had a great time, and maybe that's not even a big number for some girls, but I just wanted to bring this up here to gain some perspective.

So thanks for taking the time to respond and I do appreciate the info!

And the chances that I will have seen someone before you are slim to none.

xoxo,

Steph