Thanks for the astute input from across the pond.It's a pleasure to have such a beautiful lady posting here.In fact it would be a pleasure to HAVE you anywhere.lol

You are right Carrie, Reviews are a Real Boon to the Providers

If ladies want to be in this business for a while, reviews are very positive.  If you make a mistake in how you handle and pick customers, your best friends aren't going to tell you.  Howevers, reviewers aren't your best friends.  Finding out what people don't like is very hard for most businesses.  They pay good $$$ to have market researchers to do it for them.  You are lucky enough to be getting it for free...Harry

Nice to see you posting on this board Carrie.  Does this mean you'll be making your way to Boston any time soon?

what it would be like if us guys could know what it's like to be reviewed based on our looks and performance ... sure, it's women who are supposedly vain but i wonder what men would think in the same situation


"He came in, walked straight past me, reached into his pocket and dropped the envelope on the night stand. Before I had a chance to say anything he put a finger up in front of his nose, as if to say 'shhhh, quiet' and then grinned from ear to ear as he approached me. He had bad breath, stinky cigar breath, yellow teeth and bits and pieces of food were stuck to his teeth.  His clothes were one size too small and his fat misshapen body bulged in all the wrong places. His pant legs were too short and his jacket too small, making his shoulders buckle-in almost it seemed. Basically he looked like a lazy slouch, a tub-of-lard of a used car salesman. When he took off his clothes it was then that I got a whiff of his real musty body odour [sic] it was gross, like something you'd smell in a zoo except covered up a little with cheap cologne. He grabbed me with those big meaty hands and squeezed me like I was a plastic doll, all the while sticking his tongue in, trying to dart it into my mouth and biting my lips hard with his teeth ... and then when I least expected it he suddenly ...."

This is a touchy subject that has been discussed alot here recently.I am actually surprised that more people,especially providers, haven't chimed in.My feelings are that a lady has every right to request that NO reviews be written about her.She needn't give a reason because it is her perogative.I always try to write as non-specific a review as possible because I believe in chemistry and YMMV.I would hate to put a lady in an uncomfortable position with a future client where he demands a level of service that he read was available. However,I also believe that it works both ways.If a provider allows reviews then she must take the good with the bad.Not every experience is going to be incredible and a reviewer has the right and the obligation to tell it like it is with no malice intended.Otherwise,why review at all. Just my 2 cents worth