Just tell the provider that is what you like.  I know for one that they are going to get what I like to give unless they request otherwise .  Good luck and personally i believe you should try it without viagra.

Same problem here. For about a month now. I had a great session last time. I used Viagra I stayed hard and excited for 2 hours. Now even using Viagra I can't get it up. Not with visual aid or soft sweet kisses or fondling touching and licking.

Stress, war, business in the crapper, too much to do in too little time.

I just want to get a good stiff one again and do it ALL night long.

First, can the person that loves you the most get you off (you)?  If that is a problem, talk to a doctor to see if there is an organic reason for what is going on.  

Sometimes your overall health is an issue.  Have you had a recent weight gain?  Are you getting enough exercise?  

If these things are OK, then the issue probably some depression.   There are lots of ways to deal with feeling down.  The cure could be a change in your life, some familiar activity that has lifted you in the past, or time.  There are also medical ways to attack the problem.

Don't externalize your problem to the providers --  they aren't at fault.  Try seeing an independent that is known for her people skills.   Check out any of the local woman I have reviewed.  PM me if you want some more ideas.  

Everybody has been there at one time or another.  I suspect it will pass.  Good Luck  Harry

Dear LT,
    PLEASE, if you have not already done so, see an MD about this problem. Although emotional/psychic/metaphysical issues can cause these symptoms, erectile dysfunction can be a symptom of significant cardiovascular disease. Life is not always about the penis, just mostly....
    Just think, once this situation improves you can have more fun in shorter sessions!