Probably already covered dozens of times but here goes anyways. New to the hobby and been seeing C-list girlz with limited results. Looking to move up the food chain a bit without going for broke. Had many disapointing meets and been ripped off a couple of times (mostly my own fault for "bargain hunting" a bit ) but still hopeful for some really great experiences. My Problem is this. I'm wanting to see some of the Ladies who have higher ratings on their reviews but very concerned about discretion. Don't need any life changing issues to arise from current hobbies. I've seen some very indiscreet news lately, IE 20-20 and young ladies being robbed  and computers /cellphones winding up in police custody. So how does a gent set up those first few meetings required to get some references?? I have heard about Datecheck and a few others but  the ladies even require some previous ref's even with these. So where does a horny lad turn when he's getting "Itchy" and needs a good scratching? Any feedback would be great.

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If a lady feels comfortable with you, she will see you.  So long as you can be verified in some way.  There are some fine ladies who will verify you in ways other than references.  Find that lady and see her.  Then you have a reference.  

As to bargain hunting, I used to do that when I first started, and what cured me is the math.  Take the number of times you are truly satisfied and divide that by the amount you spent overall.  I think you will find that spending the extra $$ per session is more of a bargain than what you are doing now.  Also, the well reviewed  will leave you smiling for days.  Now that's a bargain!

Very sage advice!

First of all, why are you asking this question under an alias if you are a "so called" newbie??? For someone who seems to be up to speed on reviews, Datecheck, ect, you should also know that asking this under an alias is just wrong!!! And although gcc gives good advice, IMHO no one should EVER give advice like this to an alias!!!!  Just my .02.

Wrong Why??

Why don't use your TER handle to inquire about this then?

Le is on a fishing expedition again!!!

Sorry guys I guess Im just a little confused?? I have hooked with several c-list girls with no  trouble and am kind of wondering why LE would go to all the trouble of posting here when they could seemingly bust all their quotas from there quickly without the hassle. I am using an alias because I'm a little embarrassed about being so timid and just wanted a little anonymity perhaps this is the wrong forum to ask for help. Sorry again

Don't you LE have anything else better to do?

If you are embarrassed by this you must be great knocking on a hotel room door.
If you post under an alias, we have no choice but to doubt your veracity. It is suspect period and carries very little in regard to sincerity.

If you want us to trust you, you must trust us its that simple

Go back to the top of the page, and repost this, using your real handle. We were all timid at some point, and some of us still are. Don't let that be an issue. Yes, this is the right forum to post your questions, both here, and on the newbies board. Using an alias is not going to get you the board presence that is definitely one of the tools you need. Your real handle is all the annonymity that you need here. Put a little trust in the people here, and you'll find that the responses will be more along the lines you were looking for.