Hello all!  

When asking for references ladies and gents, what do you do? Let me briefly explain the best procedure to follow that works for me:  

Gent: Dear Brooke, as much as I love being with you (ok, you don't have to say that) there is this super sensual lady in town and I am hoping to book an appointment with her. This is her name (an email that she will be contacting from would be even more helpful). Would you mind vouching for me?  

Me: Sure, that sounds great, you are always a gentleman when I see you. Have fun!  

Instead of this easy situation above, I get 0 heads up from the gent mostly....

Gents: When sending references, please include as much as you possibly can about the provider you wish to use instead of "Jenny from TX" or "Bunny loves  me from NV" I don't know how to find these women to contact them

Providers:  

Dear Brooke,  
I have this gentleman who has used you as a reference. He said he saw you on x date at xxxx.
(Or some detail) is helpful.  
If not a regular client,  
His name is:  
His email is:  
His phone number is:  
If I have just a first name or just an email or just a number it doesn't help me, therefore it doesn't help you. Time efficiency please. . . we do not want to be emailing back and forth looking for information that could have been provided initially; especially because most of the requests are for short notice.  

We all need to work together here and limit frustration. It is really easy and thank you for the people who do follow the above scenario.  

Perhaps this was a rant, but I would really really, really like to help you all get it on and this would be magical if everyone were on board!  
Thank you.

p.s. If there are any tips that either side use that will contribute, please respond thanks!