Actually, as we all know, different ladies handle it differently. Some ladies never call you back to acknowledge that they failed to keep the appointment. What happened to me twice on the same unlucky day not too long ago was that first one provider made an appointment with me -- I nicely asked her whether she was sure she was going to be on time, because I would have been glad to pick up a quick fast food lunch while waiting for her -- and then wouldn't you know it, after I arrived in the hotel parking lot and waited 25 minutes, calling and nicely texting her, until as I was pulling out she finally texted me, "Hey where are you, I arrived a little late but I've been here for 15 minutes." Well, she didn't arrive late or I would have noticed when she pulled into the parking lot, and I double- and triple-checked my cell phone to make sure I had been dialing the right number. Just then a fellow strolled out the front entrance of the hotel and, yeah, I know you can't tell for sure, but I would bet anything that he was the guy she had double-booked with. She could have called or texted me to say she was running late and I would have understood that totally, but to act as if she'd been waiting for me all along . . . pshew! Then I made another appointment moments later with a different provider whose ad said she was staying a couple of exits farther south off the highway, and I specifically told that provider that I was already running late and that if she wasn't going to be available in ten minutes I would much rather take a raincheck on the appointment than show up and waste time getting back to my office. She assured me that she had no other appointments and that she would be ready to give me her room number just as soon as I called her again in two minutes. Do I need to tell anybody what happened, or how many times I called her from the motel parking lot, waited a couple of minutes, and then called her again?
I appreciate the confession before I've wasted time, gas money, and anticipation heading over. I understand that guys are very often no-shows, and they should be put on the DNS list whenever they do that -- what's a DNS list, by the way? -- because if you've got car trouble, the first thing you do is call the lady when it happens, not when you're already a half-hour late. A little double-booking is not a problem, but when I drive a half-hour to meet a lady during the work day, I don't usually have a whole lot of time -- definitely not 25 minutes -- to spend cooling my heels in a parking lot while she finishes up with another client. I've had agencies (never an independent lady yet) offer to make it up to me at my next appointment; one agency gave me an hour for the half-hour rate the next time I booked with them, and I never forgot that act of business smarts.
Okay, with all of this said, I have to say that Victoria, when you do get to meet her, will not disappoint you with her phenomenal skills. If you like a sexy, tanned, blonde, big-busted MILF, it's worth trying again with Victoria. But . . . she cancelled on me twice before I finally got to see her, and the only reason I kept trying was her good reviews on TER.
While driving to the office in the morning, I called and spoke to Victoria Friday in the morning and we talked about an afternoon visit to her north shore hotel. When I got to my office we exchanged text messages just to make sure she knew I was the one she had spoken to on the phone. In the afternoon, I sent another text and said I was going to be leaving the office soon. When I got no reply, I called her once in my car. She picked up. I told her I was leaving my office and could be at the hotel in about 10 mins. She said "Yes" and told me to come by.
THEN, when I got to the hotel parking lot I called and she hung up on me. I called back and she did it again. On the seonc call she said something quickly about how she could not talk. Just like that, I was sitting in the hotel parking lot all ready for some fun and she blew me off.
Later I got a text from Victoria apologizing and telling me that she overbooked herself. I appreciate the text, but was still very frustrated.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? Victoria has such good reviews, I was really looking forward to it. But now I am not sure I want to try and set this up again.
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She sent you a text the same day with a confession and apology...and you did not make the most of that [for her to make it up to you] opportunity? What were you thinking? I think you just made the top of her DNS list...and maybe the same with a few other girls.
Just curious DT - do you think I did something wrong here?? There is something that I have done that would land me on the DNS list of different providers? What the heck did I do?
(I got the text, I was home and out with my kids at their activities. Not much I could do at that time. Besides, I have no idea when I could reschedule.)
That's pure BS. I don't know what world you live in but the time to notify someone you can't make an appointment is BEFORE not after. After is just an excuse, some (if they're real) are worth overlooking the inconvience and others aren't. Family issues, transportation failures and other unexpected emergencies are worth overlooking. "I double booked" isn't.
Go sell your BS some place else.
So did I read the original message right?
She confirmed an appointment and within 10 minutes wasn't answering the phone because someone else was there-
*Whisper voice* Scandalous.
I would agree with you BPHunter.
But nevermind for a second that fact that he lost the drive time and was disappointed.
Can we just try to maintain some illusion and pretend that bitches aren't meeting a different man every hour on the hour?
If I said "I'm sorry, your appointment was canceled because someone else got here 10 minutes after our confirmation" to one of my clients they would probably catch the vapors and need some smelling salts.
Also I doubt they'd be posting lamenting a missed connection and instead would be rather happy to have dodged a bullet lol.
In all seriousness NorthShoreEric, I don't think you did anything wrong or said anything here that would throw a red flag to any provider- you were much more polite in your inquiry than I've seen others handle similar situations.
Maybe she'll see the post and offer to make it up to you!
Actually, as we all know, different ladies handle it differently. Some ladies never call you back to acknowledge that they failed to keep the appointment. What happened to me twice on the same unlucky day not too long ago was that first one provider made an appointment with me -- I nicely asked her whether she was sure she was going to be on time, because I would have been glad to pick up a quick fast food lunch while waiting for her -- and then wouldn't you know it, after I arrived in the hotel parking lot and waited 25 minutes, calling and nicely texting her, until as I was pulling out she finally texted me, "Hey where are you, I arrived a little late but I've been here for 15 minutes." Well, she didn't arrive late or I would have noticed when she pulled into the parking lot, and I double- and triple-checked my cell phone to make sure I had been dialing the right number. Just then a fellow strolled out the front entrance of the hotel and, yeah, I know you can't tell for sure, but I would bet anything that he was the guy she had double-booked with. She could have called or texted me to say she was running late and I would have understood that totally, but to act as if she'd been waiting for me all along . . . pshew! Then I made another appointment moments later with a different provider whose ad said she was staying a couple of exits farther south off the highway, and I specifically told that provider that I was already running late and that if she wasn't going to be available in ten minutes I would much rather take a raincheck on the appointment than show up and waste time getting back to my office. She assured me that she had no other appointments and that she would be ready to give me her room number just as soon as I called her again in two minutes. Do I need to tell anybody what happened, or how many times I called her from the motel parking lot, waited a couple of minutes, and then called her again?
I appreciate the confession before I've wasted time, gas money, and anticipation heading over. I understand that guys are very often no-shows, and they should be put on the DNS list whenever they do that -- what's a DNS list, by the way? -- because if you've got car trouble, the first thing you do is call the lady when it happens, not when you're already a half-hour late. A little double-booking is not a problem, but when I drive a half-hour to meet a lady during the work day, I don't usually have a whole lot of time -- definitely not 25 minutes -- to spend cooling my heels in a parking lot while she finishes up with another client. I've had agencies (never an independent lady yet) offer to make it up to me at my next appointment; one agency gave me an hour for the half-hour rate the next time I booked with them, and I never forgot that act of business smarts.
Okay, with all of this said, I have to say that Victoria, when you do get to meet her, will not disappoint you with her phenomenal skills. If you like a sexy, tanned, blonde, big-busted MILF, it's worth trying again with Victoria. But . . . she cancelled on me twice before I finally got to see her, and the only reason I kept trying was her good reviews on TER.
The OP did absolutely NOTHING wrong here. This is a public forum for both providers and clients. The OP was polite, courteous and arrived at the time he VERIFIED with the provider. The provider, in this case, was not courteous not to mention unprofessional. Seems some providers want, no demand that clients jump through several hoops just to spend some time with them, yet do not have the common couretsy to keep appts. This is a prome example of a provider that does not appreciate a clients time. The way she handled this was just rude rude. I've seen her ads for a while now on BP and was on the fence regarding seeing her. After seeing this post, I will not be calling her to spend time. My time is to valuable to be playing these types of games. Thank you to the OP for posting this. Because you can't write a review on a provider you do not actually see, this is the only way other hobbyists can see instances like this.
On a side note, self-delete this post? What are you the TER police or something? I didn't realize DT_lover was in a position of authority on TER to bark orders at us and tell us what to do...
I was not barking orders, just trying to help the guy avoid problems with the provider. You [everyone] has 4 hours to edit (self-delete, correct spelling, or whatever) their posts before the post locks in. I posted 3 hours after the original post. That is where the "one hour" comes from.
I take no side in this spat, other than "try to be nice". The girl fucked up with scheduling but was in contact not hiding.
I have never seen Victoria in fact would not even know of her if NorthshoreEric had not posted. I like her pictures and reviews and may see her sometime. Will not go out of my way to see her based on what has been said here. That means planning ahead to book on a Friday after work, when she is in northern MA. If she cancels (which seems chancy) I'll just spend the evening enjoying strippers at the Blue Moon.
Happy hobbying to everyone.
Yes, had a similar experience a few months ago except I had coordinated an after work visit around 4 or 5 hours earlier. Got to the appointed time and place, called her, no answer, figured she was busy. Tried again a few minutes later. Then 10 mins later. Had a cup of coffee, retried and re-faied. Gave up. Yes, she generally does have good reviews but seem to have communication trouble at times. Still interested and curious. May giuve her another chance but not at the top of my list.
Nothing.
It's what this place is supposed to be about. Sharing info. Thanks
I think this post actually highlights a problem with TER -- you can't write a review if you don't see the provider, but if the provider blows you off like this it really deserves a review. Next best case: post it here.
Victoria may have a lot of good reviews, but I appreciate the notice that someone is inconsiderate of client's time. People mess up, and I'd hope a provider might go out of their way to try and reschedule and make good in a case like this. Then Eric can update and say 'everything's been made right, highly recommend.' Otherwise, it's good to know when some people are flaky.
I first tried to write a review and tell what happened there. But, like you outlined, my review was not approved because I did not actually see Victoria. So the next best thing was to post a comment here.
Have I seem her--yes, many times.
Is she worth the attempts--yes
Have i been "blown off"--no, not with a scheduled appointment
Is she hard to get in contact with--yes--extremely
Do I keep calling--hell yeah
As I wrote above, it's hard to ignore the fact that Victoria is not the most reliable provider. Far from it. But more times than not, when I've made appointments with her, she's kept them. When she does keep them, she's usually on time or close to it. Her looks (MILF in black stockings . . . yum!) are still fine, and her oral skills are finer still. She does seem to have some personal issues that she may need to attend to without warning from time to time, but who doesn't? . . . If she were demanding mucho dinero and short-changing me on time or always cancelling without any notice, I would stay away. But the reason that others, like me, continue to make appointments with this lady is that when you do see her you're pretty much guaranteed a great time for a reasonable entry fee. I dunno . . . Most of the time she keeps her appointments, and even if she cancels 1 out of 3 times, you still wind up having a real nice time 2 out of 3 times for the same price of admission that other ladies ask for a single visit. For me, the math works.