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Re: When will u lonely sad sacks realize this aint MATCH.COM
MonsterJazzII 2 Reviews 647 reads
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I agree with you 100%...  Some guys on here need to get out more.  This is a business and most of the ladies here wsnt to keep it that way.  Heck, I know I do.  There will always be the execption to the rule.   If a friendship develops then let her start it and take the lead.  Once the friendship grows then it will take on its own set of rules.
Just my thoughts.

Mj
 
Posted By: om4swgas
Its p4p....I hear this from so many ladies.  
   
 Its pathetic how u guys think cause u have a great session ONE time u r BFF  ....WTF ??  
   
 Got to love ANGEL's honesty and how much truth there is to it.  
   
 I can only imagine how many other ladies have wanted to write and say this.  
   
 REMEMBER BOYS THIS AINT ... E-HARMONY OR MATCH.COM or the SAVE A HO PROGRAM  
 THEY ARE ADULTS WITH NORMAL LIVES AWAY FROM THIS BIZ FOR MOST.  
 ,  
 YES THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS....BUT FEW AND FAR BETWEEN  
   
 Its LUST not LOVE ;)  
   
 JUST MY .02  
   
   
 

angelexotic1686 reads

I have to politely ask clients that text inncessantly , I realize they are trying to be kind and polite and friendly. But time n time again when you are working , and there 6- 7 or more gents a day texting calling leaving voicemails. And your politely returning texts and calls. Engaging in cordial banter. Then you politely inquire, so want an appt and they dont even want an appt. They are all calling to just chat.
   I have some clients , very few, I keep my circle small n tight n for good reason, there s alot nut jobs out here that make me look like picture of sanity!
for example fibes I have been close friends with for over 10 years. Another close friend whom I will call rambo ken doll. hahah! and another I will refer to as air force fun. another a former x marine scout sniper now turned succesful business owner at 34 he is like 38 now, I also have a close korean boy I call my fat korean friend, he is actually adorable but we bust each other s balls all time, its really comical. he said I have fat legs last week honestly we bust each others chops pretty bad back n forth n I been close w him for over 5 years now. It just sometimes as much as I love the guys it gets very overwhelming when you tryn to book your sessions may even be in between tryn to walk the dog book another appt and eat lunch, And you have like 7 or 8 guys that its usually ones whom have gotten only one date in past year, but they seem to take up or require alot of energy and they arent even lookin to book. You durin your personal time n work time correspond cordially thinkin that they r lookin to schedule. I just want to say guys I love ya but stop emailin pming and texting me to say hi!!! unless you are the five I mentioned above whom I will always answer for in between sessions but just the same those I mentioned,, dont call me in between sessions,they undertsand i am a human with only a certain amount energy and not some machine that has oodles of energy to spend being chatty with every client thats ever gottewn a session in past 10 years.  the 5 I mentioned above,  religiously come see me but they never ever call me in between our dates or text me, it stinks when you have suite thats expensive and just lookin toarrange 2 dates and end up spending 5 hours answerin text calls n emails from guys you havent even seen in over a year that are just blowin up your phone for no apparent reason.  
if I get a call from air force fun, fat korean, x marine italian boy, or my oldie but goodie friend fibes, none these gents call me daily or flood my text box when I hear from them it means they are stoppin in to help me out.  
what is the deal with guys leavin multiple voicemails multiple text , multiple pms n emails with no intention of bookin a date?
guys! we love you but realize how confusing things become when every client thats gotten only one session in past all expect or attempt to have banter back n forth 12months after thier one hour session theyd got over a year ago. when u have an appt on way n like to answer calls from guys whom r lookin to meet that week, it gets so overwhelming with 70 guys all just basically calln to be annoying.
I love u guys but god!

-- Modified on 6/4/2013 5:46:53 AM

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angelexotic575 reads

If anything it be handwriting not married . You think I d allow a abstinent even possibly former child molester tell me if my love is sacred or not?there s nothing honorable about priests whom are abstinent then get so pent up because Christianity is anti gay and teaches people to suppress their sexuality. Which um hello it's not a good system it's a tidal shotgun. All these alter boys come forward who been abused. I am not support in an institution that ruined so many innocent children's lives. And is focused on money and teaches nothing about preserving the earth for our next seven generations survival. There won't be much a planet left for our grand kids great great grand kids.  Polar bears r nearing extinction now from global warming. I think instead of reading a text book written billions of years ago teaching some lessons on recycling and reducing your carbon footprint be more intelligent.

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valmont063864 reads

Now I know why many provider's web pages and/or online ads say "no texts."  

Just a suggestion...

consider having two phones, one listed in the ads/site and you don't receive texts from them;
and one that you only give out to special clients that are given texting privileges.

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angelexotic672 reads

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clearthynker692 reads

Hi there Angel,

Thanks for sharing your story.  Let me start with a big complement (that I hope will earn me some points with you).  In addition to being somewhere between gorgeous and perfect from a physical perspective, and being somewhere between awesome and unbelievable from a service perspective, part of your appeal is that you're very down to earth and approachable (in other words you don't act like a perfect sex goddess when we're with you).  As a result of being so nice and being the hottest woman that these guys have ever communicated with (whether they've booked appointments with you or not), they take it a step too far and think that you're their buddy and that you want to talk and text with them all the time.

So I think the answer is that you've got to say or text to them as nicely as possible that while you enjoy bantering with them, that you really need more focus on your business, and that you're going to have to cut out chatting with them unless they want to come in for some services.

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Nyx_GG814 reads

I used to have that problem all the time back when I was independent, but that's one of the joys of an agency. I also had some serious issues with stalkers when I was offering incalls, which is the biggest reason I stopped doing them. Some guys just take the whole GFE thing too far, and start to believe in the fantasy. Sometimes you just need to set them straight, and usually you'll lose a client because of it. If you're lucky they realize their mistake, but many just move on in search of their next obsession. A few may even become vindictive that you've rejected them, and will attempt to damage your business.

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Fibes669 reads

I guess I'm hot in a cool kinda way.
Maybe my bigger brain has more control, not sure.
Always a pleasure Angel, I don't think I've been brought up here in years.
That's got me thinking now..
Oh my.

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CaliHot690 reads

I use a call forwarding service that enables me to only have one phone but two phone lines.  I receive text messages but unlike a text from someone you know I can never tell who it is from.  Therefore I request no text messages.  Once I get to know someone well enough I have the option of giving out my personal text # to those I know will use it appropriately.  It is tough but you have to make the right business decision to use your time wisely

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fran53678 reads

if you know Angel then you can imagine that there is a strong possibility her rant is a tad one-sided and very possibly not quite accurate.

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escalade1964725 reads

I get them from providers randomly checking in.

Usually they are:

"Hey you"

"Wish you could Fuck me today"

"I'm in Burlington"

If I can answer, I do. If I can't I won't. Its my hobby phone.

If a guy texts checking in on a lady because we have had previous discussions or texts
should be rare but I feel it is nice he even cares. Not talking about the all day texter and phone callers

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om4swgas730 reads

Its p4p....I hear this from so many ladies.

Its pathetic how u guys think cause u have a great session ONE time u r BFF  ....WTF ??

Got to love ANGEL's honesty and how much truth there is to it.

I can only imagine how many other ladies have wanted to write and say this.

REMEMBER BOYS THIS AINT ... E-HARMONY OR MATCH.COM or the SAVE A HO PROGRAM
THEY ARE ADULTS WITH NORMAL LIVES AWAY FROM THIS BIZ FOR MOST.
,
YES THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS....BUT FEW AND FAR BETWEEN

Its LUST not LOVE ;)

JUST MY .0

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MonsterJazzII648 reads

I agree with you 100%...  Some guys on here need to get out more.  This is a business and most of the ladies here wsnt to keep it that way.  Heck, I know I do.  There will always be the execption to the rule.   If a friendship develops then let her start it and take the lead.  Once the friendship grows then it will take on its own set of rules.
Just my thoughts.

Mj
 

Posted By: om4swgas
Its p4p....I hear this from so many ladies.  
   
 Its pathetic how u guys think cause u have a great session ONE time u r BFF  ....WTF ??  
   
 Got to love ANGEL's honesty and how much truth there is to it.  
   
 I can only imagine how many other ladies have wanted to write and say this.  
   
 REMEMBER BOYS THIS AINT ... E-HARMONY OR MATCH.COM or the SAVE A HO PROGRAM  
 THEY ARE ADULTS WITH NORMAL LIVES AWAY FROM THIS BIZ FOR MOST.  
 ,  
 YES THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS....BUT FEW AND FAR BETWEEN  
   
 Its LUST not LOVE ;)  
   
 JUST MY .02  
   
   
 

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escalade1964643 reads

Love when you smart ass dudes try to tell me how to spend my money.

You are so experienced, so cool, and fucking know everything.  

Tell ya what, I will "Hobby" the way I fucking want to and if
she does not want to see me, I will see someone else.

My sad sack could give a flying fuck less about your useless opinion(s)

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MonsterJazzII708 reads

LMAO!!!

Mj

 

Posted By: escalade1964
Love when you smart ass dudes try to tell me how to spend my money.  
   
 You are so experienced, so cool, and fucking know everything.  
   
 Tell ya what, I will "Hobby" the way I fucking want to and if  
 she does not want to see me, I will see someone else.  
   
 My sad sack could give a flying fuck less about your useless opinion(s).  
   
 

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London Rayne653 reads

They can text all day long, and I am not texting back until I get to my PC. If they want to BOOK, they have to email me, and I will only converse via text or phone, the day of the appt. If a guy wants to shoot the shit, he can do so on TER where I am at all the time lol.

-- Modified on 6/6/2013 3:50:02 PM

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