Re: What's a submissive role????

I like sub's like this...
http://www.rope-bondage.com/images/preview1.jpg

Bondage, nipple play, light spanking/flogging.  Nothing hurtful or degrading.  Really it is more a state of mind.  Focused attention on the submissive.

i enjoy sessions w/ subs. in my time with the hobby i have been fortunate to find a few providers who can truely embrace the role. Let me say that when a lady shows me that she's into it enough to let herself go and enjoy it, it's a huge turn on for me. When i meet a provider for the first time who agrees to role play as a sub for me the first thing i tell her " i want to be invited back, so please make sure you let me know if anything is out of bounds for you.We'll stop and talk about it and figure out where we're going from there." By doing that, i've never had a problem with a provider. Usually, by the time i see her several times, she has my scenerio so well figured out that she just automatically assumes the role. I've had providers tell me that they look forward to our role play because it's a break in the monotony
of "wham bam thank you m'am " type of sessions they have with most hobbiests. My advice is, just shop around, do your research and be very honest upfront about the type of session you want. i think you'll be surprised how easilly you'll find the right provider who will enjoy
the submissive role. good luck