I agree, I prefer initial contact thru emails. Especially with someone I have never met. I find phone calls awkward and I always think I will be interrupting someone elses date or catch her at the grocery store. An email is discrete and can be answered when it is a good time for her. I make a call usually the night before just to solidify the plans and be sure we have each others numbers correct.
Text is only when I know the lady and that is what she likes or is requested in her adDo you prefer texting for a date or do you feel more comfortable
calling and speaking to the provider/hobbyist?
The website "contact me" seems so .... distant.
i have had you on my list for some time b/c you look exquiste...an ass to die for
I am low volume so I don't do a lot dates per week keep tryin you'll get me .
I also learned actually returning the calls and texts when I am finally ready is a waste of time because by then your probly not still looking,
And guys hate you cold calling.
Just keep calling your get me at right time, soon enough. Yes I remember you we been tryn to meet.
you are a tease...i luv that
That way I can get a human connection. We start building chemistry before we even meet. I know we live in a digital age but lets keep the basics of picking up a phone and dialing a number with excitement of someone answering saying a polite or seductive hello on the other end of the line.
do the polite thing of giving the lady the opportunity to get a feel of you prior the date so that she can decide if she wished to date you or not. It is a good opportunity for you too, as she may sounds very different on the phone than the way she portraits herself on the website.
Serena x
If they've already been verified, then I prefer a phone call. But if they're a new client, then the form on my website makes everything so much easier for both of us. That way I have everything I need for screening right there. Sometimes I may be out with family or friends, and while I can handle making an appointment, getting everything needed for screening would be problematic. So often in those situations I'm just going to direct you to the form on my website anyway.
u need to call, introduce yourself, we are strangers mind you in an illegal business, texting on those terms is sketchy and does not put me at ease. u need to call be verified and go from there.
I typically book my dates several days out - often 1-2 weeks so I naturally make initial contact either via PM or email (not text) with my screening info. Even follow-ups until the day of our meeting I use email/PM and the morning of the date I switch to texting for location, etc. Very rarely have I spoken on the phone with a lady. I always assumed that email/text would be less intrusive on their time and I thought ladies prefered that mode of communication.
I have never booked a same day with an Indy (only Agency) - but for that I certainly would phone
I think texting is tacky, more like a booty call than setting up a date (let's at least keep the fiction alive!). And I know how much I dislike it when a phone call interrupts my time with a provider, even if she has enough class not to answer it, so I don't want to interrupt anyone else. Lastly, I tend to get tongue-tied making a phone call to a lady I haven't met yet -- I'm much more articulate in an e-mail.
Of communication, nobody likes disruptions or interruptions. I know that via email I have time to articulate exactly what I want to say and how I'd like to say it. I really don't like talking on the phone unless it's to give directions. I prefer we break the ice over a few email exchanges. I don't even give my number out until just prior to our meeting. Those who have it are extremely respectful of my privacy and usually email.
Texting is laughable at best because I expect you to act like a grown man not a wild horny teen desperately trying to get laid after prom. I removed my number almost 4 years ago from publication and I'll never look back. I like a partner who can plan a bit and email me properly when he requests a date. I do want to see what his written communication to me consists of before speaking to him. Is the the king of one liners? A yes man? A text talker? A grammatical mess? What does he have to say? Does he know the difference between their, there, and there? Will end up in a sexy fist a cuffs over his over use or misuse of certain key words?
A lady likes to know these things 
Xo,
Grace
Makes my knuckles hurt, remembering all the times they were smacked with a ruler by my 5th grade grammar teacher. Ouch.
Grace, I just had a horrible image of you in nuns outfit holding a yard stick and ....
LOL
Grace might have other ideas for getting her points across.
I guess it varies with my mood and how playful I am feeling. Of course if it is a severe grammatical offense I may just tether you to my spider web and repeatedly tease and deny you with my mouth, tongue, hands, and various toys until you feel like you just can't take it anymore and are bawling like a baby begging to cum. A good solid 2 hours of that can make the strongest man turn into a quivering, moaning slut beginning for release. I rather enjoy that extreme arousal. Of course that may just be another Friday afternoon of fun, I do like a massive result for my efforts!
Xo,
Grace
You need to picture Grace in the shortnuns outfit...one that's low cut and a bit see thru or better yet leather... no underwear theigh highs knee high boots with6 inch heels and no ruler... Grace will have a whip....
That's not scary at all is it
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I agree, I prefer initial contact thru emails. Especially with someone I have never met. I find phone calls awkward and I always think I will be interrupting someone elses date or catch her at the grocery store. An email is discrete and can be answered when it is a good time for her. I make a call usually the night before just to solidify the plans and be sure we have each others numbers correct.
Text is only when I know the lady and that is what she likes or is requested in her ad
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Recently spent an evening with someone who said:
"I've been trying to meet you for years; you're nothing like I thought, you're always so rude on the phone"
Lol!
Now I'm not usually THAT bad but I readily admit that have a TERRIBLE telephone personality.
I am incredibly uncomfortable speaking to men who I don't know. Also, I'm a scatterbrain and I'm usually pretty busy so I forget to return voicemails, confirm verification, complete bookings etc.
Texts are just an annoyance. A few texts here and there are okay but some people just take it to a whole new level not to mention texts can crop up at inopportune times that I'd rather they not.
The typical text conversation from an ad goes:
"Hi"
"Hi"
"Rate"
"What?"
"are u avail right now"
"Who *are you*?"
"can you come to my house right now"
"I can't teleport."
"Send me some more pics"
Its like two people having two entirely different conversations. Imagine that all.day.long. in your phone. Lol!
Now I have received some texts from traveling clients who were on it- name, Date-Check/P411 ID, requested time/date & location. If that is how you approach texting by all means, please text.
With email I can totally organize my thoughts, ask the questions that need to be asked, refer back to the email just prior to the date to make sure I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing, wearing what I'm supposed to be wearing, etc.
Its discreet and I can do it anytime without someone asking me "who are you talking to?"
I love receiving reservations via my web form- but understand why some people avoid it and have no problems with direct email being used instead.
Instant messenger runs a close second to email, I enjoy IMing on Google Talk and Yahoo instant messenger- again, fast discreet booking with recall capability or just keeping in touch without raising the eyebrows of people whose company I'm in.