well its a second and third opinion we're the buyers theyre the sellers when its not as advertised its not like a store money back guaranteed we take a loss

Well, after every encounter every provider, each and every lady has said they will never share their experiences with me.  They stated, without hesitation, I was the best lover ever had the pleasure of being with and they did not want to share me at all.  Therefore, any provider postings cannot possibly be accurate because I will not be listed.  I am sure you all understand I am only trying to provide a public service here.

Mr. Alias has a good point, it's tough sometimes when you have providers who do not want any talk of sexual nature.  So if you have TER as a forum to find pertinent information such as specifics on what a provider may/may not do there should be no problem in asking for opinions/information especially if it is not specifically stated or alluded to.

That being said, I think far too often the same question is asked over and over again, when they have a very useful search feature that 9 x out of 10 would provide the answer.  If we all utilized the search feature first, it would probably eliminate a lot of the issues.

But, that seems to not happen.

I just think that it's the nature of the beast in the sense that the information is out there, and we have a forum for it, so it is sought.   Just my two cents.

In world called "hobbying" or "escorting," illusion created through self-deception and deception of others is the starting point for all meetings. The language of the activity is permeated with aphorisms, like "gfe," which do not mean, literally or accurately, what they imply.  Therefore, there is little wonder that "reality checks" often come to the fore, even after doing "homework." (Who wrote the review? Why? Are the facts accurate? When and who verified the listing? etc.)

Yet, despite the illusory starting point, there are remarkable and thoroughly enjoyable people, who can be met; but to meet them, you need to invest your time and resources, be open, and make mistakes, just like all human encounters.

Personally, I don't care what's on the so-called "menu," but I do care greatly what it feels like (to me) to kiss the woman with whom I'm having sex.  There is no "homework," guide, or fact sheet that will answer my question, only clues and hints to point me in the right direction.

Sometimes an encounter will take me to a magical place, in which case I'll write a review. If there's no magic (for me), I'll keep silent, even if the encounter was everything advertised.  In a very real sense, it is the unwritten reviews that are the most truthful and accurate.  But, then "truth" and "accuracy" are definitely overrated!

That is what this whole service is for.

While I do understand how we as hobbyists might feel to have US reviewed on here... I think it's a lot to ask of us to just spend hundreds of dollars or more to find out if a provider will do certain things.  That what this whole service is for in the first place. There are A LOT of scam artists out there. We spend a lot of money and take a certain amount of risk each time we do this. Most of us cannot see providers all the time because of the expense or other reasons. So this allows us to find women who are willing to do what turns us on so that the experiences we have are special and fulfilling. TER saves us the embarrassment of asking for greek or something when the provider won't do it.  We are still basically in a down economy and doing our homework is exactly what we are doing here. Doing your homework isn't calling some chick blindly from Backpage and taking a wild guess as to what she will actually look like and what she will do.