Dear Hobbiers I want feedback on how I should handle this situation that happened to me last night.I had seen this visiting provider on Thursday afternoon in Boston.She is beautiful and provided excellent service during our meeting.I also found out that she was a foodie like me.I suggested some restaurants to her close to where she was staying. No issues and a great experience.I even asked her if she needed anything before my visit.She wanted dark chocolate and Fiji water.I stopped at Whole foods and bought her those sundries.
Next day I decide to schedule another appointmet and asked if she wanted to go out to dinner after our encounter.She said encounter and dinner would be 500 dollars.I said i would pick her up at 630pm her hotel and have dinner at 7pm.Well i was running late due to traffic and getting confused where her hotel was(brain fart).I picked her up and called Craigie on Main in Cambridge that we were running late.She dressed to the hilt and looked beautiful. We get to the restaurant and we decide to do a ten course meal .We have a wonderful time.Sorry I forgot to tell you that I paid her feebefore dinner(mistake number1).Of course it takes a while to eat a 10 course meal.However she nevers says anything about any time restraint she had.Of course she is constantly looking at her crackberry through out dinner(not an issue with me because I am use to people doing that in my business) .She raves about the food we have great conversation and pick her choice of wine.i was being great host. I pay the bill of 440 dollars and was worth it for the excellent food and wine.We leave the restaurant and she is shocked that it almost 11pm and she has 24 missd calls.She tells me that she had missed an appointment with a client. i was apologetic but i am not sure why because I had no knowledge of her schedule.i get back to the hotel and I start parking and she says she sorry but I have to take a rain check on our encounter.I am stunned but what I am going to do other that drop her off. Of course now she will not answere text or phone calls. of course I will give her a chance to respond and I have learned my lesson and will move on after I get feedback from the community about whether I got ripped off .I appreciate any CONSTRUCTIVE criticism.I think it is quite short sighted of her to not return my text messages.Of course something could of happened to her that she cannot return phone call or text messages and for that reason I will not post her identity.In fact she said she wanted put me on the white list because I was so nice to her. I apologize for the tome of an explanation but I wanted to give a clear picture of my story .I realize there is my story and hers and the truth is somewhere in between. \PS The food is the best in Boston area.Thanks
been there done that, just like you explained. Remember that there is really NEVER any free time, especially if the lady figures she is missing out on her earning potential. When will WE all realize 99% of the time it is all about the MONEY for time, PERIOD. So don't feel bad, you are not the first nor the last to have this happen too. Although IMHO it was unprofessional on her part to not even make you aware of her time issues.
Yes it sucks you spent about a 1K(thousand) bucks and didn't even get laid. Sometimes even though you think you have an understanding on the fee for all time and it seems to good to be true, it usually is!!! This is strictly a business deal between provider and hobbyist and when it comes to on/off the clock it must be discussed in great depth prior to the date or as the evening progresses and seems to be longer than planned, especially for a reasonable fee of only $500.00, she or you should make each other aware of the extended time the dinner date is taking. I mean lets be realistic here, what fine dining engagement takes any less than 2 hours, without travel time included.
Once again..."if it seems to good to be true, it usually is".
She can still whitelist you, with out you writing a review, but as I see you have know reviews or whitelist's. I hope this was not your first experience, but if so, a lesson well learned.
First of all, always get the fucking done first. The sex will be better on an empty stomach than it will after a ten course meal anyway.
While you are not responsible for managing the lady's schedule you ARE responsible for assuming far too much leverage would be given by a woman that you had known for what? Twenty four hours or so? You got burned. I doubt you will hear back from her but I certainly hope I'm wrong for your sake.
Thanks .Never again.But I got a great meal and great service from the wait staff coming over to look at her cleavage.It was only money and it is time to move on.org
If she originally agreed to an encounter & dinner she owes you, or you were ripped off. If your dinner went over it is our job to suggest other options, or watch the clock if you have pre-booked sessions. My 2 cents, but I always have more LOL!
Patricia Thank you for your input on this matter.I also spoke to Amber Tai another provder and she agreed that I got ripped off.I told her I wish I had spent the money on her ,at least I would not get ripped off from her.She bad for me but I learned my lesson.
Based on what you described. You got ripped off. If it was me I would post a review so everyone knows. Thanks for sharing your experience. I am sure you learned a lesson and will move on.
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