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A question and request about DATY for the ladies.red_smile
arp1701 5 Reviews 1911 reads
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I've had about four ladies compliment me on my DATY skills.  Now, like most guys here probably would, I take it with a grain of salt.  Other than the moaning, shuddering, and usual responses I can never tell if she's honest or not.  Are there any ladies here who would be willing to give me an honest assessment on my skills (if actually have any) and give me pointers for improvement?

whitneywilcoxx1446 reads

Just try to be with girls who don't fake stuff.  There are a ton of us out there who don't. The thing about it is, all girls respond to different things, just like no two blowjobs are the same.  I give a BJ based on how the guy reacts, you should be able to do the same with the girl. I guess I lick cooch using the same rule as well so yeah it works...  So, my advice to you is, variety of coochie, honest chicks and if you REALLY like what you're doing down there, it all works itself out in the end.  Don't bite her.

No pressure and no expectations leads to the absolute best encounters.

Good luck on your cunnilingus lesson search.

ww

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AllyMoore1359 reads

I admit my own personal lack of interest for DATY because for me, generally speaking, its like licking my ear: pleasurable but I will usually not reach orgasm without penetration (digital or cock).

A lot of clients come in and perform it with the intention of making a girl come like flipping a switch.
Don't listen to these reviews.  More kinetic energy is not better.  More saliva is not better lol.
Don't draw anyone's clitoral hood back and try to lick it directly and please God don't fucking bite it (someone bit my clit today).

But there are a handful of guys who I've met here are just ....omfgicantbreathewhydoihave tearsinmyeyes...good at performing oral sex.  And it isn't because they know a formula or a particular button to push (a la fingering orgasms which are the easiest and most powerful way to make a girl come IMO).
Its their enjoyment of the act.
Not enjoyment of giving pleasure mind you.
But genuine enjoyment of performing oral sex on a woman.
I mean when they come up (*when* they come up because they can plant themselves between a girl's legs for days) their dick is hard type enjoyment.  
I am incredibly hard to bring to orgasm orally so I know that if these clients make me lose it they must have other women climbing the walls.

Think about the best blowjob you've ever received- it probably wasn't just amazing because of the skillset.  It was probably amazing because of the skill + her level of enthusiasm for sucking cock.
The same is applicable to going down on a woman.  The enjoyment of performing the act can't be faked and that is what is really necessary IMO to be an outstanding performer of oral sex because it allows your partner to really let go and drift off into dreamworld instead of being conscious that two minutes has passed and its time for her to start making her stomach shudder, her pussy contract and yelp like a yorkie that she's coming so you can move on to the next act.

I hope you find a girl you find sexy with a cute pussy who truly enjoys receiving to lick and learn with lol!


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Is one of the 4 ladies someone you would like to see regularly? Maybe you can share this mutually satisfying  experience with her?
I met my "regular" lady by chance (she’s UTR , lots of  TER reviews – not by me) ; right from the first date I could tell she was into it in a “real” way and was one of the main reasons I keep coming back to her. Now, it’s not so much that I'm "practicing" on her but I'm becoming more attuned to specifically what SHE likes. So my “skills” for her are getting better. For another woman it may be a little different. So what “rocks” my ATF’s world may just feel “good” to another woman.  
You may want to do a search for “daty” on the general and newbie boards as well.
I included one of the thread links below:

Good luck and “bon apetit” ;-

Related Link: A Few Simple Daty Suggestions

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IWant2DATY1105 reads

Everything that has been written here is great advice. There is one thing that no Lady can fake. When a woman is coming close to orgasm, their clitoris gets very small and kinda withdraws back some.  

If the Lady you are with is writhing on the bed screaming she is cumming and her clitoris is still "out in the open" and the same size as when you started, she is faking it.  

NOW there is nothing wrong if a Lady fakes it. Lets say she see three Gentlemen on a given day. One in the morning for breakfast, one around noon for lunch and one in the evening for dinner. Unless this Lady has a great drive, it may be very difficult for her to continue to achieve orgasm all day. Then if she meets just a man or two for the next few days, well you do the math. Heck after I have one or two when being with a beautiful Lady, I am done for a few days.  

My two cents, have a great day All.  

Tony

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to offer their bodies to be pleasured so we can do the seminar.

So Ladies, who is willing to be a volunteer and allow us to DATY so others may gain the needed knowledge.

Tony

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I don't know about that visual cue- every woman's orgasm is very different and there is absolutely NO WAY of telling whether a woman is faking it until after going to bed with her several times.
There just isn't.  If I squeeze my muscles I can draw my clitoris back.

But speaking to your point about volume or frequency-  I've known many girls and a lot of them touring / "high volume".

I have known a number of them to express what I have always said about myself-

If you want to see a provider get buck wild go see her around 5 or 6 or 7p in the middle of her tour.

Obviously there are concerns of cleanliness and no one wants to envision themselves swallowing the residual saliva or worse of another client.

However, the very first hobbyist I ever met from TER said he had no problem seeing a high volume girl- he said "If I see a girl after someone else has primed the pump better for me".

As one top-rated girl said to me "I feel very nervous early in the day, towards the end I feel like a sex goddess and I can do anything".
Its very true.  If you're with a good provider who is known to truly be present emotionally and physically in all of her sessions she is capable of orgasming without faking with proper attention lol.

In a woman orgasms just build upon each other.
I can't say how many times I've left a client's house and went through scrolling through my phone or straight to my boyfriend's house like "I NEED MORE!" lol!

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LovetoDaty758 reads

Interesting comment. I was always under the impression that ladies would be too "tired" or "dirty"
later in the day. Typically, I try to see low volume ladies (they only hav 1 or 2 dates perday) or I try to get an early appointment when she is most fresh and energetic.

And I agree 100% about what you said about every woman's orgasm being very different. Usually after several dates with the same girl you can kinda tell and she is more comfortable expressing herself (and she is also good in giving direction - which is always greatly appreciated!)

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"Women's orgasms are preceded by erection of the clitoris and moistening of the opening of the vagina. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin.  

As a woman nears orgasm, the clitoral glans moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker.  

As orgasm becomes imminent, the outer third of the vagina tightens and narrows, while overall the vagina lengthens and dilates and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue.[97] Elsewhere in the body, myofibroblasts of the nipple-areolar complex contract, causing erection of the nipples and contraction of the areolar diameter, reaching their maximum at the start of orgasm.[98] The uterus then experiences a series of between 3 and 15 muscular contractions[citation needed]. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina, anus, and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions."

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Posted By: Ally Moore
I don't know about that visual cue- every woman's orgasm is very different and there is absolutely NO WAY of telling whether a woman is faking it until after going to bed with her several times.
There just isn't.
I'm going to dissagree with you on there being NO WAY to tell if she is faking.  

When she is a curled up heaving mess on the bed and literally weeping and does know if she is laughing of crying or pretty much who or where she is....... Then you know you did ok :)

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I really have enjoyed all the responses, Flamebird's response it THE BEST. Enjoy Everyone.  

Tony

PS:  Still looking for the research volunteers. ;-)

Posted By: arp1701
I've had about four ladies compliment me on my DATY skills.  Now, like most guys here probably would, I take it with a grain of salt.  Other than the moaning, shuddering, and usual responses I can never tell if she's honest or not.  Are there any ladies here who would be willing to give me an honest assessment on my skills (if actually have any) and give me pointers for improvement?

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A new "flavor-of-theMonth" for Baskin-Robbins! LOL!

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