This has only happened once to me, over 10 years ago.  It was a massage appointment - I went in and the woman looked like a grandma, although she was pleasant looking enough.  While I was taking a shower beforehand I was creeped out and decided to just GTFO.  I paid her the full amount (which was something like $150-200 so not a big deal) because I didn't want any trouble, and said I was leaving.  I didn't say why as I didn't think that would be helpful or productive.  She was pretty surprised but I just went on my way.

Say nothing. Just get the hell out of there.

If it's something I determined was not up to par I'd hand her a twenty and say something came up. If she miss represented herself See yah latah!

I did it all at various time. Paid $100 and split, just left without as much as saying sorry, left after saying sorry, or stayed and went through something I shouldn't have gone through.

Absolutely fake pics. She came in barefoot too. I gave her my slippers and robes and sent her on her wat moment she woke up.  

It's sad really.

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I’ve turned around and left a few times. Didn’t give them a penny. Why would you? Fake or misleading picts and/or ad? To hell with them

Beautiful Asian Lady (Not!)

I had a date set up with a beautiful Asian woman.

It was a "bait-and-switch." The lady was not Asian, and a dreary plain-Jane.

As I turned on my heel to leave, she snarled "Aren't you going to give me a cancellation fee?"

Hey  

If it’s their Incall , I just turn around and leave without saying anything or saying I’m not interested  
Now if they came to my house which is very very rare for a new girl, then it takes some negotiating. And usually requires paying for the full rate just to get them to leave.  
Which is why I don’t have untrusted friends at my house. But it can happen.  
Remember it’s fee for service and you are under no obligation to pay without service.

Just leave. No partial payment, no apology, just leave. Did this just a few weeks ago. Sick and tired of providers misrepresenting themselves. If more guys left, it would cut down on them doing it. Most guys stay hence why they’ll continuing doing it. You run the risk of being blacklisted, etc but I’m at the point now where I don’t care and enough is enough.

Cancelation fee.

Before I was an independent escort in College I worked for agencies & they always did the bait and switch it’s the worst. You can kindly refuse service and give the lady a voluntary contribution for her time, and travel. You choose the amount it’s totally up to you because your time was wasted as well it’s not fair. Sorry love.💗

It all depends  
Incall - I’d say I forgot the donation in the car. And get the hell out of there.  
Outcall home - I’d pay her for her time and transportation. And hopefully she would leave.  
Outcall hotel - I’d offer her half the hr rate and tell her to leave.

If the lady has no reviews  in the pre meeting communications I ask for a selfie with fingers pointing whatever way and make it clear if pics aren’t accurate I reserve the right to jet. Works for  me

I would be really weary about a pimp lingering close by.  
I’d pay $100 and go even though it doesn’t seem right.  
I’ve heard too many stories during my time of guys trying to leave without paying a dime and then getting the shit kicked out of them by pimps  

C