can you refer me to krissy? she wants to know that i heard about her from you

...screening is another.

You need to go through the screening process yourself.  Sorry I cannot help you with this.

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Mr. wants2beDTed, if DT Lover does not know you (which he obviously does not), then how the heck can he "refer" you to her?

That reference is work noting to a reputable provider who screens well, and values her safety..

We know nothing about you Mr. wants2beDTed.  You have no reviews, and nobody knows whether you are safe or all.

I am glad you did not respond any other way DT_lover than the way you did.

Why don't you converse via PM?  If I were Krissy or DT I would tell this guy to take a hike.  Via PM of course.

easy now, i am waiting for my vip status as i have multiple reviews pending. I am new to being a hobbyist so some aspects I am still learning. I was excited to hear of some specific provider skills and was anxious.

I was also excited to see that there is a community behind this and not just a dark secret. My apologies.

What the OP did was basically not the correct thing to do, and I felt that others might learn from his mistake.

If one person reads this thread, and learns something then the public posts were a good idea.

But as to what Krissy and DT should do, you are correct.  Asking someone you do not know to vouch for you is just plain wrong.