Some ads are crystal clear  

IE: In Town 6/9 3pm Burlington till 6/13 11am.  
Tewksbury 6/13 3pm till 11 am 6/14 cause I want to fuck Escalade.  Thank you.

I know ads can be thought of as desperate when you "post" one everyday.

Whatever.

The fact is when I am searching for a date, I start there.

My question is, if no website or website calendar is empty and you do not have an ad up,  
Are you working?
God fucking forbid I text or e-mail for a date when you are not. LMFAO  

Your thoughts if any?

Posting daily keeps a steady amount of boys replying by website form, or whatever method the girl prefers, who want to book a little in advance.  I see no shame in that at all.  It's good business.

Working? Always.  

Sitting in a room waiting and hoping someone will call?  Not very often.

Whit

Apparently the perception is if you actually run a business, like advertising or promoting yourself to new clients it is an impossibility that you actually have any business.   I don't get how some arrive at this conclusion but like you I don't think there is any shame in playing the game.

I think that consistent advertisement is important too.
I usually take 1-3 days off per week.  Sometimes I'm really, really "ON".  Sometimes I am very deliberate in only booking say one outcall a day to keep meeting my personal goals while maintaining my sanity and love of the game.  
But am nearly always advertised and when I do mentally "check out" I try to keep lapses in communication in my inbox to 48-72 hour maximum.

I don't work in any other capacity like other girls, I don't have above average rates and I don't live on the tour circuit so I can only speak for myself- but losing momentum/visibility is something that can be difficult to come back from.  
For me personally its best to "coast" with consistent advertisement & interest and be able to be a bit selective versus having to entertain all interest because you have extreme highs and lows in interest because no one knows if you're active due to constantly disappearing and reappearing.

-- Modified on 6/10/2013 8:12:26 AM

It appears if someone post very long reasoning for their constant posting and presence on the boards or run " specials" then they may need business more than others, perhaps the perception is inaccurate but to a community of aliases perception is reality.

I understand that you seem to think that as Keeper of The Board you dictate how providers should promote themselves or communicate with hobbyists & its clear that you do not currently approve of my posting style.

I don't really see you complaining about providers who posts photographs of themselves every single day or providers who open fire on hobbyists constantly so I'm inclined to think that your problem with my posts has now become personal (in your mind).
I'm a person. I'm a person known to treat men here well too.

If you have an issue with my thoughts or participation- please email me.  I'd love to buy you a drink or a lap dance sometime and assauge some of the feelings you're harboring.  

You know the address- you used it once to contact me to request an appointment....during a special.

You take care now.

Actually it was an observation not directed at you, nor anyone else in specific. Please review the board the last week or so to clear your inaccurate depiction as me being " keeper of the board" I view it occasionally and move back to my life . I post an opinion if I have one and move on. I assure my post are are less  voluminous  than your post or or some other people that spam the board with their personal issues looking for any type response positive or negative. I never asked for a " special" and as a former roomservice girl, girl I could have seen you at $125 if I'd wanted too when you first got here. My original seeing you request was because I originally admired some of your post and you came off as sweet and sexy, maybe I was wrong ? You said you did not want to meet me because of your body type and I would not like you , check your pm to me. I admit I was a little annoyed that you assumed you knew what type body type I like, hey if I want to see you and pay for it, than obviously I have seen your pictures and saw something attractive. I was alway sweet to you on the boards Those were your words to me not my observation of how you saw me, ( remember) I have the pm I can send it to you to refresh your memory if needed. So I unlike your sweet customer that spams the board with how he moves his bowels in the providers room after the date is over before he gets dressed or how he may be gay because he likes it in the ass ( he is ) not that there's anything wrong with that! Am not looking to insult you and once again on your last pm to me that " now I know what you really think of me" was somehow a formed opinion of how I think and was wrong. Don't try to be the next " medium" here because your thought reads are way off! Everything I say is not directed at you or meant to insult you! I made a post regarding a subject. Your post above mine, that is all. I enjoy the hobby I enjoy the ladies and I enjoy banter sans escalade and his ridiculous cry for attention. Not looking for a lap dance or a drink, " off the clock" that's your boy escalades game. $800 hour Hollie of Miami seemed to get a belly laugh out of his request, surely a hot girl like her may be able to find better company here in the big city than a " gay" or confused hobbiest. Too bad you can't pm me or I you, may never have had any misunderstanding but you sent me a scathing pm and the fearing my response, which by the way was conciliatory, you chose not to hear it, your choice. How you run your business was and it 100 per cent your right, and I never wanted to interfere. I merely mentioned that on a board that's public it is best to not turn off potential clients itch less than popular views or controversial threads as it undermines your purpose is all I said. Positive constructive advice was taked by you as meddling and insulting. You are the hothead not me in this case. No need to offer me a free drink or lap dance and believe me I ain't paying to meet you after that last inaccurate depiction of me. I am not keeper of the boards and yes I enjoy ladies posting sexy pics and banter and I do find it interesting you took such offense to a ghetto site from New Jersey posting in Boston and my calling it out. I thought they looked ghetto ( three girls posing on a bed in lingerie) looked like the old time pictures from the players ball! Sorry you were so offended. I still think your sexy despite your already preconceived notion that I think your bbw or far or whatever else you implied I think the last time you read my mind..."hey escalade"ally is meeting for drinks off the clock so I'm sure you'll try to to take my place!!! I wish you sweet success and lotsa $$$$ as I alway have Ally so every compliment I gave you in the past was sincere. Believe that

Your "observation" included a direct reference to a "long reasoned post for offering specials".  I happened to make one of those yesterday AND you responded directly underneath me which means that the comment was directed at me.  
 
I write on this board because I like to communicate with hobbyists and providers. I don't respond to ISOs, I don't rant and I don't post my picture every day.  I share my thoughts about the business and I read other people's thoughts about the business to learn and meet likeminded people- the boards are very good for just that.  
 
Yes, you and I have communicated on a number of occasions and you have often complimented me, saying kind things about my persona, my approach to the business and my posts which is quite frankly, why I have been taken aback by your aggression towards me in the past several days.  
I'm not mistaken, please refer back to your inbox for inquiries about my "specials" or requesting that I notify you should I ever decide to run half hours again.  
 
I made *one post commenting on Escalade and that post spoke to the hostility of this board.  I made one very gently worded comment (no, not 'scathing' perhaps it read that way because you were upset and being defensive) to you via PM after a 22 year old girl I don't know wrote me begging for advice about whether or not to ever post on the boards again after you bullied her.    
I told you plainly that I thought calling a group of young non-white women "ghetto hos" was not very gentlemanly.    
You in turn proceeded to *dredge up (inaccurate) gossip from 2008 to prove to me how much you know about me* and "the personal lives of most in the Boston hobby" and you insinuated that I'm a desperate provider who doesn't know how to run a business.  
 
So to be clear: I made a comment to you prefaced with kindness and understanding, you insulted me and recited hobby gossip you'd filed away as gospel.  
Yes, I fact-checked you and blocked you.  
I think that if anyone read that PM exchange we shared (please, feel free to forward it anyone interested in As The Hobby Turns) in conjunction with your public posts that day they would name you as the hothead, not me.    
 
You say you don't like a poster's SPAM because he overrides providers participating in the forums who are trying to interact & promote themselves and you insult those of us (rather some of us, the ones who haven't espoused your very same opinions) in the very same breath.    
You've contradicted yourself several times in the last week and instead of just letting it go, you've doubled down on your opinion & are now letting those thoughts seep into subversive comments about specific providers with whom you've had exchanges with, myself included.  
You made all sorts of comments about providers not having each others backs like in the olden days of this board- please.  There is no hierarchy here about who can say what to whom.  
Seniority doesn't trump right or wrong.    
 
If you're going to let a single poster troll the fuck out of you to the point where you are verbally turning on providers who've never done anything but interact positively with you that is your prerogative.    
 
But please understand that I am a grown ass woman.  
You can't bully me on this board.  I've posted here for years and most people, regardless of whether or not I'm their cup of tea know that I tell it like it is and not how it should be.    
 
If someone chooses not to see me based on something I've said here chances are they had no interest in seeing me in the first place.    
With all of the providers who talk on these board like they need some pills or need to quit the pills being celebrated don't worry about me.  
I am going to be fine.  
 
If you have something to say to me- baby I'm right here.    
I live in Boston, I love to socialize, I love cocktails.    
Every minute of every day of my life isn't for sale.  
If you'd like to have a conversation and clear the air, its just a drink.  No?  That's fine too.  
 
But I'm telling you right now not going to internet fight on this board, ok?  
I really appreciate the kinder tone you've suddenly taken on but  
if you have an opinion of how I should be running my business or you'd like to advise me of how I should conduct myself on this board please speak to me in person.  
 
You and I are connected by many degrees in the Boston Hobby and at this point in my time in this business I want nothing but good feelings between myself and other providers and hobbyists- and that my darling includes you.    
Please, lets not revisit this subject again unless we're face to face.

where are your comments now mr. pot stirrer hahaha

kisses,

whitney

The funny or sad thing about texting and posting is that tone can be misinterpretated and cause friction where none was intended, that may or may not be the total dase here but certainly contributed to the escalade, oops escalation of this. Ally, Despite what you may think, I did not see your long winded reference to specials yesterday and I was not commenting on it directly as I did not know you had rate special yesterday, I thought you were posting to rate specials in general, my bad. I also don't consider an opinion that may be harsh bullying . I find it overly dramatic that you had to give a little 22 year old girl advice as to whether to ever post again. My reference to the site looking like a ghetto ho agency with ghetto ho rates was harsh, but accurate to me if not to others that agreed with that characterization, maybe a redo of the site to display a more upscale image is in store...? Oops more unneeded advice from old papi there.  That poor 22 year old is running an escort agency out of jersey so she may be less fragile than you portray her as. I thin pm means private but ill show mine if you want to show yours? No worry I always complimented you both on the board and in private and I care less how much you post or anyone else post and btw I love the pictures and have posted said   that privately and  publicly to you, I think your hot! . escalade is just stirring the pot and it does not effect me a bit but your reference that a 50 year old provider should have retired years ago, and another girl that has spelling issues is a " crackhead up all night" is kinda mean and I have this Pms that are not showing you NOT as the strong sista sticking up for other girls against mean old papi image you want to portray. If you did not want to see me to allow me to pay for pussy because I don't like your size, then why offer a lap dance or drink? What's to be accomplished? You post all you like and I will opine where I see fit, without your permission and as "  keeper of the boards" it's my duty to do so , no? I am not Internet fighting withat all. a great writer I saw speak once said that if a reader thinks I am talking directly to them in my writing than I know I touched them whether in a good or bad way then that's good writing. So you obviously admire my writing as my post was general and under your general post and you took it to be me talking to you? And talking out of both sides of my mouth no less? I am here for fun and pussy and not gossip but the guy that knocked your friends teeth out with his fist in 2008 is the real bully here, not me. I hope you have a great success and obviously as a mainstay here with many admirers you need not offer specials so when you do them that's  nice of you.. I asked a while back about them true, I am not ashamed that at a certain rate I may have seen you and at another maybe not, that's just one guys shopping habits. The chase of the bus obviously gets the heart pumping as much as the ride too. Btw that's an expression so being overly sensitive as you appear to be toward my post I am not calling you a bus! Your pretty hot I think I mentioned this a few dozen times. If you need to hash this out in person feel free to pm me or get my number from ladies that you know that may have it. I am at your beck and call. Oops you can't pm me you blocked me! Lol I unblocked you baby!

I find it abhorrent that you are airing snippets of private messages out of context.

I made no direct reference to any specific provider in our PMs.  
Considering that I am known to be friends with more than one 45+ year old provider you cannot prove that I was referencing anyone specifically when I said that you should reserve your advice for the ladies posting on these boards who are "manhaters fifteen years past their expiration date".    
There is more than one and if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...whatever.  

Interestingly nearly every single provider who posts on this board has interacted with me professionally or on a personal level.  And guess what?  Not a single one of them are scared of me or my opinions.
They know when they talk to me its all killer, no filler- I'm a straight shooter.  
And every single provider on this board knows that I dole out references, recommendations, referrals and information pertaining to business like candy regardless of whether or not we call each other "friend"- so if you're trying to throw a wrench in my relationship with other ladies on this board sorry, Charlie- they have a much better handle on me than you could possibly understand.  

But since you want to air dirty laundry- wouldn't it be funny if I forwarded PMs from you sending me unsolicited gossip about other hobbyists sent after you saw me interacting with them on this board?
Boy would your claim to know "more about other members of the hobby's real lives" would blow up in your face.  
If only my inbox could talk- but unlike you the contents of my "Private Messages" remain, well private.

The 22 year old girl I am referring to is not the New Jersey agency owner but the newbie provider who you repeatedly bashed via PM to the point that she was scared after she made a *positive comment about a poster*- a man she only knows as a client who has treated her kindly.  It never ceases to amaze me how 50-something year old men will raze a young twenty-something year old girl knowing that girls like her who are rare unicorns- beautiful, truly kind, fresh, happy and actually wanting to chat here versus never appearing on the boards, let alone to take up for her gentleman friend.  
Any girl on here who is taking on a hobbyist and saying something negative can fend for herself- especially those of us who've taken our licks on these boards for years.  But when you're virtually hazing a little girl who (no offense to her) doesn't know nothing about nothing in terms of these boards or making racial comments you're the one who is in the wrong.  
Going to continue to double down on that?  Go right ahead.

Just because I have no interest in seeing someone professionally doesn't mean I can't have a community relationship with them in the hobby.  Please don't behave like I'm the only girl in this business who has ever uttered the words "I've read your reviews/seen your posts, I'm not sure we're a fit".  And please know that when most clients hear those words they don't take it personally- they continue to pursue or they don't and they move on (I've seen many clients I've said that to who were like, "don't worry about it sweetheart, I really want to meet you).  
Now that you've mentioned it 3x both publicly and privately it seems like you really took that personally and for that I am sorry.

My offer to meet for a drink was only because I don't want to continue this bullshit online and it stands for anyone who has an ill opinion of me.  If you have a problem and you don't want to sort it out- then you're getting your rocks off perpetuating drama with a person you've just reduced to a screen name.
Me, I realize that every single person on this board is a human being, most of whom have the same motivations and feelings as me and I'd much rather know that person for who they are than play tough guy online with them regardless of whether or not we have a professional or personal relationship.

You're insulting my intelligence if you expect me to believe that you didn't see my post yesterday when you responded directly underneath me in this thread and yet again you're contradicting yourself by saying that you don't care how much anyone posts- yet all of this drama began when you had a meltdown over Escalade & have repeatedly made references to providers "constantly posting" to remain relevant.  You can backpedal with the saccharin compliments all you want but I know what has been said here, via PM to myself and at least three other providers and I'm quite capable of reading between the lines.  

I don't know why you've taken to making such aggressive, deranged posts  lately but please-put that shit back in the box dude.   We're all here to have fun, not show our asses.

I'm done with this- I've invested far too much energy in it as it is. I get a sense that speaking to you here is truly an exercise in futility and I'm only mussying myself up by rolling around in the mud with you.  If you've got problems- my offer is on the table and again...please take good care.

That's all folks!

-- Modified on 6/11/2013 4:20:18 PM

Goes both ways and I never pm'd anyone to stop posting. Your   Portrayal  of me as keeper of the boards or threatening anyone is a total distortion of the truth. My Pms are fine air them I don't say anything untrue or that I don't mean. I care less who your friendly with. You said those things and I aired it because you said to. Sorry but naive or not I did not see your post regarding a special, it's true your post was long and I did not read through it. I seemed to have hit a nerve with you. Sorry about that. I am cools sting your if you want or they can remain private. I am not 50 something btw another perception you miscalculated. My post are not aggressive but defensive and far from deranged they are accurate and on point. The truth seems scary to you but again for the umpteenth time I have no issue with you but am fine to keep the discussion open. Look at my original comment and then your blast off on why I have a vendetta against you etc. you seem defensive regarding my post and seem to take my numerous compliments and olive branch offerings as some hidden insult I am send your way...I'm beyond confused with this it's stupid and tired...move on.

END OF MESSAGE

END OF MESSAGE

Sorry babe.

Had to make some money today. Guys gotta eat.  

If somebody could get me the fucking "Cliff Notes" to his mean spirited, know-it-all babble
I would greatly appreciate it as I am riddled with A.D.D.

That said:
I am absolutely in love with Ally

and could give a fuck less what the dog has to say.  

Ally's "Post" are professional educational and fun for the board.

The papidog "Posts" well...Not so much.

I prefer the fun in the hobby. (Happy Face)

Hey Whit, Love when you call me :"Dear

Personally I like calling you Sweet Thang.  Your call though

whit

Dude, you seriously need to slow your roll with the chica's. I agree with you that e64 is THE most annoying person I've encountered on this board and definitely is an attention craving assclown. However, with your recent spats with two ladies whom I know very well, in particular your latest with Ms. Moore who is in my opinion a very special person, you are close to surpassing e64 for the all time low TER approval rating. Like Ally said, we're all here for fun, and sometimes having that fun comes with a price. Unfortunately, with e64 it's a heavy and painful price. But with lovelies such as Ally, Whitney and the other gorgeous women on this site it's definitely worth it. So lighten up dawg and see the forest instead of the trees. It's a beautiful sight when you do......

oner, I'm Sorry you think I am fighting with her, I'm not she just wants to ignore what I say and twist is to make it fit her story line. I shared pleasantries with Ally over the years but she is definitely opiniated and chimes in on shit she thinks she knows about  & situations and tends to omits big parts of stories to frame them the way she wants. She has an issue with me evidently but I got none with her. I told her she is hot I wished her much luck and success and then she said I'm a racist ( i see black providers 2-1 over Caucasians so I don't know where that's from) . Says I gave her a snide remark? Says I am a bully ( also untrue) I posted my opinion that was just an opinion that to encourage Escalades antics because he's a sweet guy is fine but I would not see his enablers and take my limited hobby budget elsewhere those others that agree may seek to do the same. And if you enjoy Escalade and his lovely supporters than see them. That was my post. Nothing bullying about that but then I am trying to be the" Keeper of the boards" in  her opinions. She then sends me this very angry pm and says it came from a place of kindness but because I took it wrong I'm not mature as she thought. I have no overly inflated opinion of the importance of a poster on a hobby board under a made up name discussing women selling their body and those of us that purchase it. I enjoy the hobby and the providers I've met. I hobby regularly and hope to do so as long as money and health allow. Hope you don't buy her bullshit " lets meet for a drink or lap dance" invite pal, that was for board purpose only I pm'd her that if she wanted I'd meet her at a strip club and leave a pre paid pass at the door buy her a drink and pay for her lap dance and she can bring a girlfriend her boyfriend or come solo and I'd be thrilled to clear the air. Her response was I'm a liar and started trouble and 90  per cent of the ill will because I objected to enabling the spammer and I'm spinning my post and backtracking etc. all this because I disagreed with her on a thread. She tried to " out" me as someone looking for a discount and looking for a special...true I was not interested in her due to her rate and may have been at her " special" rate. I did not feel the need to post that as it may be implied she is not worth her rate, I'm sure she is to those that partake as reviews are stellar. She is confused to offer to meet and buy a drink with someone she has a problem with and a lap dance under the guise of clearing the air, but I repeatedly said I have no problem with her and wish her success and think she is hot. So to be clear Ally is not looking to clear the air, sent me a scathing pm and blocked me on pm so as to not receive a response. My response as I said was conciliatory and she never got it. So she sent my a pm saying I win check mate and I'm done with this issue.Aall true, that's your special Ms.Moore. And I still have no beef with her? I reiterate this response on pm and cricket cricket. So I'm not against anyone and if the gay ass clown Escalade needs to post so be it. gorilla Puke seems to have his back ( of course he's reviews numerous trannies so that may not be a good thing, although it may help him clear up his confusion, Read the thread see the many times I said she's pretty and I wish her well and then read how I'm act racking and spinning my words. I wish her success and appreciate her strong opinions even though it seems we are on opposite ends of the universe regarding our positions and her very wrong opinion of what I'm thinking and saying.

Crazy.  All of this started because someone didn't like escalades posts and threatened young girls.  Again I say, I can quote the threat word for word.  

The pot did get stirred but it wasn't by escalade.  I haven't even met the dude either.  

I'm hoping that the party acting like blocking someone is childish unblocks me so they can read this.  
 

"Private Messages" are supposed to be "private".  The fact that you keep including out of context snippets of them (and at times segueing from PMs from last week to PMs yesterday in the same sentence) to support what you have to say speaks volumes.  
I'm not going to continue to defend my "private" comments to you which you are incorrectly quoting and I would appreciate if you would be a gentleman and stop it with that.

This conversation occurred yesterday because you clicked on my post in this thread.  
You hit the reply button while in my comment.  
Your comment is directly nested under mine.
Your comment says:  

"It appears if someone post very long reasoning for their constant posting and presence on the boards or run " specials" then they may need business more than others, perhaps the perception is inaccurate but to a community of aliases perception is reality."

You have now said that your comment was not directed at me, that I'm a hothead who flew off the handle after your general observation but yet I ask you PapiDog-

*Who & where has any provider posted "very long reasoning for their constant posting and presence on the boards or [running] "specials" save for me* which I happened to do day before yesterday in the thread above?  I'll wait.  Looked to me like you were trying to pull my pigtails on the playground and I responded accordingly.

You PMed me a one line question last night to which I responded and then you resumed talking in circles and to my perception, not telling the truth about about how this this conversation began.  
That's that shit I don't like.  That is why I did not respond to you further.  

You don't have to tell BONER anything about me- he's known me personally for oh, six years.
I didn't say anything to you for show- I said that if you had a problem that needed resolution I'd happily meet you on *happy, social terms* - I meant that.
It would be nothing for me to get in my car and zoom up Route 1 for a couple of hours and sit and chat with you.  
I don't need to bring a backup girlfriend and you don't want to meet my boyfriend.
But you've now said there is nothing to resolve, that you have no issues with me or my posts- so if you have no problem then why are you playing "chicken" with me by saying that my offer was 'bullshit'?    
You were baiting last night and you're still baiting on this board.    
I don't say things I don't mean and I don't double-talk. Just because you didn't get the stimulation or response you were hoping for after your final PM to me last night doesn't mean that I said anything here that was untrue.  

I'm exhausted of this and quite embarrassed.  Do you know what its like for your friend to look over at you on the recliner during your day off with your laptop on your legs furrowing your brow furiously typing and ask you "what the fuck are you doing?" to which you have no cool answer?    
I experienced too many of those moments yesterday.  

I should have just ignored your "general observation" comment posted inline to me.  
I did not & now we have this public mess, an extension of the Escalade mess last week, for which I am truly sorry.
Let this be done, okay?  We obviously have very different takes on how exactly this transpired.
We've now exchanged thousands of words.   If you and I don't get each other at this point, we're not going to.  
There is no need for this to go into another, more beautiful day.

-- Modified on 6/12/2013 10:28:44 AM

I too hope this brings a finale to this potato vs. potatoe  debate. I answered your post with an opinion on "perception", your post started "the perception is" so if you read your post there is nothing indicating a "special rate" for that day any time or anything. you are not the only lady running a special or posting them and I thought the subject was open to opine on? ok Kat Williams (I'll wait). seems I am not the keeper of the boards and I violated you by posting on a subject you too posted under. Thanks for telling me where my post would have been placed if I had posted under a different title line... but I knew that I been here as long as you sweetie...see sweetie is kind of condescending in this post and not a term of endearment like when you post it to me as you school me on how I'm the bully your not scared of, then tell me "you don't want to meet my boyfriend" why not? I accepted your proposal and  invited you to clear the air get a drink and a lap dance if you want, I did not challenge you to a rumble in Revere. If I did a mash up of pm's sent to you it may be because you seem to omit very specific details on my tone and meaning in order to frame me as something I am not. I answered Boners question and again told him as I told you that I think she is pretty (you) and I never had an issue with her ..still don't! your tone has been confrontational and schooling from the start and I said before I said nothing privately that I am embarrassed of and I will not wither away because you portray me as a racist of misogynist or 50 something bully that likes to threaten 22 year olds in pm's (did you read them?) they weren't to you so how do you know I threatened anyone?, I didn't! I aint here to fight I come here to look for a place to buy pussy.. you,I assume are trying to sell it? crude perhaps and maybe too literal for some but it's all true. So now again pm me the time and I will leave a pre paid pass at the door for you and buy you a drink and socialize with you for 10 seconds or two hours whatever you prefer. not tonight though I'm watching hockey. check mate ? Your a liar spinning words and backtracking? not too confrontational! re read your pm's and public post because your house of glass is as fragile as mine. "Not sorry" ok, I never asked for an apology nor did I make any initial contact ever during this or last weeks "escalade escapade" you contacted me privately and publicly. lastly I answered Boner on this thread about my position I know he likes you has reviewed you and was defending you. I have NO problem with you or your looks or body type or your business strategies or your political or religious affiliations... Never did.

Invitation is sincere and pm if you want to meet.  

Have a wonderful week!

Not posting an ad on TER does not mean I'm not working.  We can only post every 7 days so that would rule out the seeming desperate.  Also, some of us do not always stay local and may post on another regional board to announce a future visit elsewhere, think Chicago or MPLS, vs. posting on the Boston board.

Also, sometimes there isn't any reason to put up ad.  There are men who plan ahead and things fall into place for you to see a few others who have requested you contact them if you're in their area.

E64, don't think God forbids f'ing or sending text/emails...you just might get a response stating I'm not available this afternoon or I'm not local today but will be in blah, blah such and such dates.  If it's a text message asking " Are you available? "...my response would be " Who is this?  Where do you think I am? ".  To either text/email I would suspect you wouldn't get a rude reply stating something like " I didn't post and my calendar doesn't show I'm available, you jackass! "  I can see no response, not a lady being blatantly rude.

Just reminded myself why I rarely post my thought/feelings on threads...I'm long-winded.

Now everyone, step away from the internet and cheer on the B's!