I recall catching a TV interview about 15 years ago with a woman working in Amsterdam's red-light district. She was a pretty African-American, college-educated, not entirely thrilled with the work. Her description of the clients' occasionally unpleasant requests has stuck in my mind:
-- I would think to myself: You, filthy dog!! Then say: Ummm, that's very niiice; now let's try it a bit differently...

Obviously there's a world of difference between the dates of well-reviewed TER women and the industrial volume of am Amsterdam brothel. And yet... This is just the forum to satisfy my curiosity:

- How frequent are those filthy-dog moments for a provider?

- How natural is a typical lady's behavior (10 -- totally genuine, dealing with a spouse/BF; 0 -- totally an act, When-Harry-Met-Sally orgasm scene)?

 --bartolo

Good Quality Providers 7 or 8
CL Sluts -5 to Zero

Most if not nearly all women, be they providers, SO's or otherwise have an interest in making men think that the man has satisified them.  (At least most of the time anyway.)

My advice is to just enjoy the show and not worry about this issue.

(Easier said than done.)

I think that this kind of speaks to my thoughts from an earlier thread. I think there is a 0-10 scale for the ladies and as well as the guys. Some ladies could care less your just faceless and bring the $$$, while other love the connection that they make. I think the same can be said for the guy's. Some guy's just want to spooge all over the room while others like to feel that they made a connection. That connection might be what both sides are missing outside the hobby. Finding the right match is the puzzle.

Thats my Dr. Drew moment

Here's an odd little thing that I've discovered after a bazillion years of being married:

If I PRETEND I'm enjoying myslf, pretty soon I AM enjoying myself.

Works out good for both of us

I wonder if some of the ladiesdon't think the same way?

B.

99% of my friends are good guys overall and very good sexually....sort of 50/50...it is a real gfe/bfe dealio...but there is ONE man who makes me think YOU DIRTY OLE COOT...this sumbitch lays on his back WITH HIS SOCKS ON and just dictates policy for an hour...1/2 way through, just like clock work EVERY TIME he says "are you getting mad at me?"...we all know my answer aloud...but in my head I am thinking shut the fahk up and cum dumbo...maybe that sounds mean, but at least I am not talking about you lol

see now that guy I would have only seen once and not again. Life is just Tooo short for that BS and there just isn't enough $$$ out there for me to put myself through it more than once.

rather sit here alone masturbating than be his slave lol