Looking for a provider for my first time strap on play. Looking for  incall in or around Boston.  Could find anyway to search for that on the website.

S & M and review the providers sites

Not that easy.  Either its list full on S & M where you are getting paddled and licking her shoes (not that there's anything wrong with that) or says S & M in the profile but doesn't say anything in the reviews about the topic

I've always wondered why it says S&M in the provider's profile, but never in the reviews. Do most providers spank, but don't get into other S&M activities?

but a good start. You have a smaller pool of providers to search by that means.

... have knowledge on these matters (and who like posting helpful hints on this Board) need to chime in.  So do folks who are experts in searching for distant threads.

Try Raynah or Felicity