I had scheduled an appointment with a well reviewed provider (Top List in Boston ) that I had seen some time ago. Expecting to relive a memorable evening I was very frustrated when I received a message from her letting me know appointment had to be cancelled few minutes before scheduled time. Pretty standard excuse of last minute emergency, it was better than a NCNS.  I thought this things happen, no big deal. She was nice and offered to make this up to me. I took her word and I have been trying to schedule something but only thing I'm getting is absolute silence (and the emergency must be resolved by now since she is posting her schedule). Am I being fooled twice and should just move on? Do you give second opportunities?

You'll never know the reason, and even if you did it probably wouldn't matter.

It's a big ocean out there.

Hey FooledTwice. Same thing happened to me. PM me with provider info. Curious to see if it's the same women.

It happened to me as well.  NCNS!

You would think it should not happen with a  Top List provider but unfortunately it does and more often than you would thion (happened to me not long ago) Emergencies happen but cutting the communication with a repeat customer who is willing to give you a second chance makes no business sense but I guess it's not all business. LOL.  Unless she is absolutely amazing, and you HAVE to see her (which I would not recommended if she is in your head) it is time to move on.

Some not so good and others understandable.  If a multi-hour appointment comes there way most providers will take it foregoing there appointment with you.  It is a business.  Providers do this for money.  I have no problem with this relationship and I do not fool myself with illusions of anything else..  If you expect more you open yourself up to being hurt.  My advice would be to accept this business for what it is.  Money for sex.  I am lucky that I get turned on by this relationship.  I love paying for sex.  It is so easy.  No courting, no dinner, no hassle.  Isn't it wonderful to have so many sexy and beautiful ladies willing to engage in this type of relationship.  Drop me a pm.

I am not even going to comment on your unsolicited admission that you exchange money for sex, but I take exception with your statement that it's a common practice for ladies to blow off shorter appointments if a bigger fish takes the bait.

There are certainly ladies who fit that short-sighted business model, but many companions who have been successful over a longer term  understand that integrity does pay, even in this business. The karmic laws of the Universe make up for any quick gains one may obtain. We end up living in the micro and not-so-micro environment we create around us, and eventually one can burn one bridge too many.

Most gentlemen who book multi-hour appointments like to plan in advance, and even if it's a same day request due to a unexpected opening in the schedule, a gentleman understands if his chosen companion doesn't have a wide-open schedule for the same day. In that case I just nicely apologize that I am not available at the time, and most of the guys come back with an apologetic note about a last minute request and an inquiry about future availability. And usually they do make plans for the near future or their next trip to the area.

It is a business, so it is about money. But the way we do anything is a reflection of who we are and what we eventually become.... Plus  there are enough guys who are seeking the whole package, not just TnA, to keep us $happy$ without having to check our soul at the door.

Refreshing to hear that attitude.  I got blown off by two top rated providers on my business trip here this week, one quite literally at the last minute.  The other?  We were confirmed and then she cancelled right after confirmation claiming she was suddenly busy...whatever.  To go into greater detail would be to make it obvious as to who the two girls are, so i won't.  They know who they are.

I moved on and found someone else.  Life's too short to bury yourself in anger, even if it is justified.  Karma will eventually catch up with those that wrong you

Same thing happened to me with a provider with a supposedly good  track record. First she says she'll be over shortly (she was a bit late.) Then she calls a bit later and says she's got a belly ache. What lame BS!! Not a cool way to handle things at all. If a provider feels that it may not work out, then the provider should express such. Better (and more professional) to say something that nothing at all.  

I bet we're all talking about the same well-reviewed provider(s).  What you described sounds oddly similar to what happened to me.  Pm me the gal who bailed on you.

Acouple of more cents worth. What was even more infuriating is that it was way too late at that point to find somebody else that was actually decent, let alone with having to pay for just a now useless hotel room fee and nothing else.