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Well it’s obvious to me that you did not understand the questions I had asked you! As I have found out there are a lot of embellished reviews that get posted so I thought that my 2 simple questions were not going to be a problem guess I was wrong, you should have either not answered my pm or instead of using the discussion board to boast about yourself you should have put that in your pm to me. What you or anyone else does with a lady is your business I don’t need to know all of your details.

Remember some guys will write good reviews on ladies because they are afraid of the blow back of a bad review.
They will get blacklisted on the website or on the Provider only board. Since that happen many times.  

Guys will write great reviews for a provider with the promise of a discount on the next visit.  

So you have to take reviews with a grain of salt and sometime, it's takes some back channel work to get the real story.
What a guy says in a review or what he might say about the same lady in a PM or at a Meet and Greet might be complete different.  

As for you getting all those PM, Well let me try to put this nicely, your a little over the top when you like a lady and will white knight for her like crazy. So that might be the reason, you are getting some PM about a lady.  

just my thoughts on the matter.

If you don't wanna give any more graphic detail than you already had, that's fine, your prerogative, just say so to people or ignore them.

In general terms, I have to agree with Lamont. I can't speak to the comments about your reviews because I haven't read them, but just the general remarks about why BC can be helpful.

It also depends on what they ask you. Some vague question from an idiot like "is she really as good as you say?" Or "what do you think?" And I'd totally understand your frustration. But if they ask you an actual question that's going to help them make a decision, answer them or don't, but don't get yourself so spun up about it. "I wish I could spend a whole week with her" is a wonderful compliment but isn't actually helpful at all because not everyone likes the same things or gets along with the same people. Ditto for "10/10" and "run don't walk." Your fellow mongers want to know WHY you like someone so much, WHAT EXACTLY you like about them; so that they can try to decide whether they will like her too. Obviously you don't want to answer stuff like how does she screen or what's her exact location, but otherwise it never hurts to ask a question. Personally, I get most of what I need in order to determine if I'll click with someone from her site and communications; I just use reviews to make sure the pics are real and that she's safe. But I do understand people that want more info.

If you try to be tasteful and leave a little mystery, that's your choice, I'm not going to criticize that, and again I haven't read your reviews. But you have to admit that is not the norm around here. Rightly or wrongly (I'm not getting into that debate), people have come to expect a lot of graphic detail around here. It's not unreasonable to think someone might feel funny talking publicly in detail but will open up more in a one on one. In fact it's quite normal of human beings. If you're not comfortable with that, fine, but I'd think you'd at least be able to understand where folks are coming from and politely decline to answer any questions you feel icky about, rather than getting twisted up over it.

You are being asked because these people don’t have access to read the full review?  

C x