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sweetnicole1 See my TER Reviews 1797 reads
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hmmm  I have done many outcalls to a Gentlemans home and I enjoy them as well but not while kids are there.
Something about that I have to say just seems a bit if not more than a bit careless on the part of the parent. Really...just doesn't seem right. Not trying to judge, I just know myself, I would not want this to come near my own children. My kids and my clients are worlds apart and they Never cross over.  Its Not my cup of tea.

FXOC2205 reads

I have a friend who is a hobbyist in a different region of the country and he swears by late night outcalls to hsi home.  Sometimes even while kids sleep.  Granted totally separate floors.  But curious where the ladies stand on this?

And second, my fellow hubbyists here in MA/NH area - which ladies could be trusted for in-home visits?

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AllyMoore1504 reads

I have been invited to the homes of clients who have children present in the house; I don't judge them for assessing the situation and proceeding as they see fit but I don't think this to be an appropriate situation for me to enter into and I decline.  Otherwise, I love residential outcalls and find them to be a welcome departure from the hotel room.

Aside from the obvious convenience, for the client it can be much more relaxed and less-nerve racking than approaching an incall situation, which with a new provider can be an unpredictable environment sometimes.

I am sure that the hobbyists here will chime in with suggestions for your research, but with many reputable independents and at least one excellent Boston agency dedicated to outcalls (AfterDark)I'm sure that you will find them to be comfortable experiences.

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FXOC2099 reads

Ally - thanks and you would be top of my list to have at the home!

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CarnalCourtesan1346 reads

I would never do that-in fact I have been asked and refused.  I have seen gents in their home while the family is on vacation but refuse to use the marital bed.  Twice I allowed a guy to bring me to the couple's bedroom and I had no respect for him after.  Family photos were around as were her clothes and jewelry.  It was just way wrong.  If this were my home and I found out what my SO did this to me it would break my heart forever.  Visting single guys or guys home alone is a different story. ;)

The kid thing completely blows my mind.
The safety and well being of your children comes first.  Use your head guys and watch some porn and JO after the kiddies are in bed.  Jeeze, tnis is almost as irresponsible as doing drugs while the kids are sleeping.

I am very conservative when it comes to children and family issues.  What adults do in private is their business but you don't bring it home.

KJB

-- Modified on 2/22/2009 9:50:55 PM

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KL95671096 reads

Having sex with another consenting adult is "almost as irresponsible" as incapacitating yourself (your children's caregiver) with illegal narcotics? Ooooookaaaay.

Assume that the guy isn't married, and that he wouldn't invite the girl into his home unless he knew her (as a regular). How is this different from having sex with his girlfriend while his kids are asleep upstairs? Is any sex "irresponsible" unless it's with the kids' mother---or would even that be bad? Can you not have sex while the kids are in the house? What if it's a really BIG house?

I'm amazed that you girls replying seem to have enjoyed such sheltered childhoods. Not to be blunt, but... How did you end up as prostitutes??

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AllyMoore1898 reads

If the guy wasn't married, but say a divorced single father, and we were involved in a relatively regular client-provider relationship I still would not be entirely comfortable with providing my service with children in the home...

Not unlike being uncomfortable with a friend or a relative being some place else in the home.  Alternatively, I have read reviews and/or discussion postings of clients expressing discomfort at visiting the home of a provider and knowing that her children or other friends/relatives were in the home.
There has been at least one instance on this board of a client questioning the behavior of a provider offering service to clients with or without children in the home that she occupies with them.  

What happens when the longstanding provider/client relationship goes sour and an argument ensues, disturbing the children or exposing them to something of an adult nature?  Because regular client/providers don't ever get into altercations, do they?

Consenting adults should behave in the best possible interest of children who have no choice in the matter.

When I am with a client, I would prefer to be with the client alone and not in a situation where a child who has a nightmare could awaken in the night and run across "daddy's lady friend".

I have dated men who were single fathers or shared custody; I didn't feel comfortable having sex in their home with their children present either.  

Regarding how (I) ended up in this lifestyle: the fact that I enjoy sexual independence does not nullify the fact that I am actually from a whole, nuclear family and did "enjoy" a relatively sheltered childhood.  Just because I am involved in this business as a provider doesn't mean that I haven't established a personal set of boundaries or ethics by which I try live by.

He asked a simple question; I don't understand why speaking honestly for ourselves has to be mocked.

-- Modified on 2/23/2009 10:39:57 AM

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sweetnicole11798 reads

hmmm  I have done many outcalls to a Gentlemans home and I enjoy them as well but not while kids are there.
Something about that I have to say just seems a bit if not more than a bit careless on the part of the parent. Really...just doesn't seem right. Not trying to judge, I just know myself, I would not want this to come near my own children. My kids and my clients are worlds apart and they Never cross over.  Its Not my cup of tea.

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