I don't believe I know you Loarthan and the fact that you question my honesty and intelligence frosts my ass to be perfectly honest.  Before you insult someone's honesty and intelligence you should at least know the person and secondly what you are talking about.  The emails that were deleted: The first was for an incall on Monday in Andover at 10 am and I was going to confirm it after I was sure I could check in that early. I had responded to the individual that I would get back to him and when I went to do so this morning it was no longer there.The other was a request for a mfm get together on the South Shore and I wanted to tie everything up before responding to him.  The fact of the matter is I don't keep peoples information and God knows I am human.  If you have a problem with me feel free to email me [email protected] and I will do my very best to respond in a timely manner without deleting.   I could have posted this information but really didn't think it was necessary.  I guess I was wrong.

Lying cheating stupid crystal

I would agree that it was gratuitous and insulting.  The intent ic very clear and has been heard by those who read here.

His back pedalling now to hide behind the words is not exculpatory.  

This is a public board where people post for a variety of individual reasons.  But having a fat wallet and a poorly contained ego does not afford him the right to insult others...any others, be it Crystal or another.

This post is from the same clown that stated a while back that the reason providers don't offer incalls in Cambridge is because the population is predominently gay.  I personally take what he says with a grain of salt.  If it weren't for this forum, he would probably have no social interaction at all.  He must be loads of fun at parties !

Dear L,

Your opinion of the people posting is quite assuming, don't you think?  The content of your posting was insulting, negatively provocative and meant to hurt Crystal.  I mean, why the hell do you care if she deleted emails or not, seeing that you are not one of the people in question?  Means and motive, my dear.

And, you started this, so don't dish it out if you can't take it. The posetive outcome of this is that, you are certainly in the minority about your opinions, as proven by the two lovely gentlemen who replied to you.

Once again, a comment was made without taking other people's feelings into consideration.

Please, learn to write constructively and within the context of what you are reading.

lighten up folks, loarthan you are gonna get your di*k bitten off by one of these sweet ladies...lol

i thought i was pretty good at reading. i read a nicely written message from a girl apologizing for not returning messages - immediately followed by a message from a guy postulating that girls who "accidentally" delete messages are either idiots or liars. i'm paraphrasing, but i've copied the original text below. tell me if i misunderstood the content.

loarthan, i've read a lot of your stuff and it's usually pretty intelligent. re-read her original post, re-read your original response, and tell me that she (or any third party looking in) would not see it as a severe insult.... and i will have to re-evaluate my estimation of YOUR intelligence.

crystal, i don't know you but i DO know somebody who DOES know you, and she thinks you are a hot shit. judging from the number of good people who have come to your defense, you've got nothing to worry about

there is a ton of fun, interesting, intelligent, sexy corresponence posted on these boards, interspersed with a few petty, silly, unnecessary arguments. why add to the negativity? to quote rodney dangerfield in caddyshack: "we're all gonna get LAID!"



"""" This is starting to be the standard excuse for several providers.  

Most folks don't just "accidentally" delete emails more than once or twice.  

On here, providers seem to be afflected with the problem more than the average person.

Must be something in the genes of some of this folks.  

Or maybe it is a statement of their intelligence or honesty.

Just my opinion and I could be wrong.
Please note I didn't say ALL providers, just a notable group.

Regards,
Loarthan """"

If you think someone is not being honest, then don't see her!  OR, see her and write a review!  This is exactly why I won't flock to see the "Board Yahoos" who inquire.

I try to manage my mail on a daily basis but it is hard because of all the spam.  I cannot block domains because client friends write me from all over, including work (I can be trusted to be discrete).  I know that Crystal is on AOL like me (which is soon to change because they suck lately worse than ever).  I cannot tell you how many times I have hit Delete and 2 or more lines of my new mail have disappeared.  Also, sometimes the Read Mail is deleted instantly which is also wrong.  Lately mail is sent before I even complete writing an e-mail.

In all fairness to her and the rest of the provider community I think you jumped the gun a little.  And as far as you seeing "more intelligent providers" I will button my lip after some of your recent comeback comments.  You sound as if you are salivating over some ladies who are not exactly the sharpest tools in the shed.  (client quote verbatim from this week)

You know me..can't shut up because this burned my big butt!

Kate xo



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Loarthan, now you got me going!!!!  Who is the real Yahoo here? You, who thrives on making baseless accusations, or someone like me and other hobbyists who say you are full of BS about a provider with whom they have had consistently excellent experiences.  If you think you can get away with insulting not only the innocent providers, but also people who can vouch for them, your are sadly mistaken my friend.  If anyone is holier than thou, it is you.  You seem to feel that you are somehow wronged by providers who post informative messages about their business related matters.  What is it to you if Crystal says she accidently deleted messages, if you never saw her before and have no intention of ever seeing her.  If by chance, you did send her a message that was accidently deleted, I am sure you can use your little fingers to send another message to her instead of bellyaching on this board.

I agree with you that this forum is not a serious thing.  But you are only looking at it from the hobbyists' point view.  For us, it is a short-lived trip to fantasy land as long as we have the discretionary means to afford it.  For many providers this is far more serious because they depend on it to survive and feed their families.  Your baseless accusations on in this forum could stop some of their potential clients from seeing some of the nice providers and deprive them of livelihood.  Get a life and go do other fun things if you have the means and time on hand instead of wasting the bandwidth of TER.