I accidently deleted a few emails without responding to them first so if I didnt respond to you I am sorry you can rewrite if you like. I will be in Andover on Monday and available through thursday night for outcall.  I will be leaving friday for vacation and will be returning on the 24th.

This is starting to be the standard excuse for several providers.  

Most folks don't just "accidentally" delete emails more than once or twice.  

On here, providers seem to be afflected with the problem more than the average person.

Must be something in the genes of some of this folks.  

Or maybe it is a statement of their intelligence or honesty.

Just my opinion and I could be wrong.
Please note I didn't say ALL providers, just a notable group.

Regards,
Loarthan

Reeleted the Emails: A New Excuse for Poor Service!

I don't believe I know you Loarthan and the fact that you question my honesty and intelligence frosts my ass to be perfectly honest.  Before you insult someone's honesty and intelligence you should at least know the person and secondly what you are talking about.  The emails that were deleted: The first was for an incall on Monday in Andover at 10 am and I was going to confirm it after I was sure I could check in that early. I had responded to the individual that I would get back to him and when I went to do so this morning it was no longer there.The other was a request for a mfm get together on the South Shore and I wanted to tie everything up before responding to him.  The fact of the matter is I don't keep peoples information and God knows I am human.  If you have a problem with me feel free to email me [email protected] and I will do my very best to respond in a timely manner without deleting.   I could have posted this information but really didn't think it was necessary.  I guess I was wrong.

Lying cheating stupid crystal

Reeleted the Emails: A New Excuse for Poor Service!

Loarthan, I can personally tell you that Crystal is very prompt when returning emails and I've had no problem corresponding with her. She is upfront and honest, and in my opinion, does not do anything to intentionally to avoid email. She is very friendly and has always been very courteous to me.

Perhaps if you treat someone with respect, maybe they'll return the favour. Do me a favour, take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see....

Reeleted the Emails: A New Excuse for Poor Service!

I am not a frequent poster.  But I cannot sit back and watch Loarthan make baseless accusations. I thought it is a good idea to provide the perspective of someone who had first-hand experience with Crystal and her excellent services.  Crystal came a very long distance to see me and gave 110 percent during our session.  I will see her again as our schedules permit.  It bothers me to see someone like Loarthan who never met her, use the bandwidth of TER to question her integrity and honesty.

Reeleted the Emails: A New Excuse for Poor Service!

I have anonymizer protection on my computer which is deliberately set to "WASH" and "MASK" all ISPS and emails which have been transfered to my computer.  This is done to protect myself AND the client AND occaissionally I FORGET to transfer emails back to a safe socket and they get deleted.  I cannot sit back either and watch somebody insult another provider for making a mistake, apologizing publicly for it.  I would also like to suggest that Loarthan return to Crystal's original post and read it carefully. Regardless of whether you (Loarthan) qualify yourself by saying it is only "some providers," my take on it is, that the "some" is definately part of the whole.  Shame on you!

Reeleted the Emails: A New Excuse for Poor Service!

I dont return half of my emails.... half of them are rude...and I just dont have the time...or the want to if they are asking  to indept questions....

Once again, a comment in general has been taken to the specific.

Please, learn to read for content and not just for emotion.

Dear L,

Your opinion of the people posting is quite assuming, don't you think?  The content of your posting was insulting, negatively provocative and meant to hurt Crystal.  I mean, why the hell do you care if she deleted emails or not, seeing that you are not one of the people in question?  Means and motive, my dear.

And, you started this, so don't dish it out if you can't take it. The posetive outcome of this is that, you are certainly in the minority about your opinions, as proven by the two lovely gentlemen who replied to you.

Once again, a comment was made without taking other people's feelings into consideration.

Please, learn to write constructively and within the context of what you are reading.

lighten up folks, loarthan you are gonna get your di*k bitten off by one of these sweet ladies...lol

....Get his di@k bitten off??!!! Hell, he won't even get email replied to now!!!!LOL....LOL
Everyone should treat everyone with respect!!!!  
XOXO
Carli

I'm not concerned about any of the above providers responding to my email.  

I only see the more intelligent providers anyway.

Those would be the ones that read my response and took it for what it was and didn't have an emotional vomit attack over it.

Lighten up folks!  Me thinks you protest too loudly.

i thought i was pretty good at reading. i read a nicely written message from a girl apologizing for not returning messages - immediately followed by a message from a guy postulating that girls who "accidentally" delete messages are either idiots or liars. i'm paraphrasing, but i've copied the original text below. tell me if i misunderstood the content.

loarthan, i've read a lot of your stuff and it's usually pretty intelligent. re-read her original post, re-read your original response, and tell me that she (or any third party looking in) would not see it as a severe insult.... and i will have to re-evaluate my estimation of YOUR intelligence.

crystal, i don't know you but i DO know somebody who DOES know you, and she thinks you are a hot shit. judging from the number of good people who have come to your defense, you've got nothing to worry about

there is a ton of fun, interesting, intelligent, sexy corresponence posted on these boards, interspersed with a few petty, silly, unnecessary arguments. why add to the negativity? to quote rodney dangerfield in caddyshack: "we're all gonna get LAID!"



"""" This is starting to be the standard excuse for several providers.  

Most folks don't just "accidentally" delete emails more than once or twice.  

On here, providers seem to be afflected with the problem more than the average person.

Must be something in the genes of some of this folks.  

Or maybe it is a statement of their intelligence or honesty.

Just my opinion and I could be wrong.
Please note I didn't say ALL providers, just a notable group.

Regards,
Loarthan """"

I would agree that it was gratuitous and insulting.  The intent ic very clear and has been heard by those who read here.

His back pedalling now to hide behind the words is not exculpatory.  

This is a public board where people post for a variety of individual reasons.  But having a fat wallet and a poorly contained ego does not afford him the right to insult others...any others, be it Crystal or another.

If you think someone is not being honest, then don't see her!  OR, see her and write a review!  This is exactly why I won't flock to see the "Board Yahoos" who inquire.

I try to manage my mail on a daily basis but it is hard because of all the spam.  I cannot block domains because client friends write me from all over, including work (I can be trusted to be discrete).  I know that Crystal is on AOL like me (which is soon to change because they suck lately worse than ever).  I cannot tell you how many times I have hit Delete and 2 or more lines of my new mail have disappeared.  Also, sometimes the Read Mail is deleted instantly which is also wrong.  Lately mail is sent before I even complete writing an e-mail.

In all fairness to her and the rest of the provider community I think you jumped the gun a little.  And as far as you seeing "more intelligent providers" I will button my lip after some of your recent comeback comments.  You sound as if you are salivating over some ladies who are not exactly the sharpest tools in the shed.  (client quote verbatim from this week)

You know me..can't shut up because this burned my big butt!

Kate xo



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Me thinks you are a man with low self esteem..xoxo

This place is a never ending source of joy for me.

I can make a simple observation and every yahoo on this board
takes the bait immediately.

Everyone rushes to the defense of the "injuried party" regardless of the actual circumstances.

You folks really take yourselves too seriously.  As for me being threatened by a boycott, sorry, but your motivations are already well known and the measure of your commitment to that faint threat is about as good as your next desire to make a buck.

As for the "holier than thou hobbyst", let me just remind you that this is a hobby and not a forum for anything serious.

In the end, as someone else already said to politely:

"Everyone gets laid!"

Have a good time with this one, I am sure it is going to generate lots of wacked responses.

Well constructed prose sir.

Hope you didn't spend too much time with the dictionary coming up with it.

As for fat wallets and poorly contained egos, again I must say that it is truly gratifying to know that for mear capital, I can have just about any provider in this area.

Of course, there are many I don't care to have.  In the end, those that choose to boycott me for this will be happy to take my funds when their wallets are empty.  It's the nature of the beast.

Never underestimate the power to forgive, especially when cash is concerned.

Actually my dear Aphrodisia, you are the one with the low self-esteem.

I make my capital in ways you can only dream about.  I will continue to make capital long after my looks are gone.  

You on the other hand will only make capital as long as your body holds out.  After that, you have nothing to fall back on.

My self-esteem is just fine, thank you.

Can you say as much for yourself?

Ah yup L, surely I can.  Being an Ivy League Grad I understand it ALL too well.  You see, I do this by CHOICE and because I enjoy men immensely.  But the bottom line is this:  Who gives SHIT where or how you make your money, or what my educational background is.  The fact of the matter is you engage escorts in exchange for remuneration and I agree to provide a service for the same exchange. That isn't rocket science, nor is it impressive. Your attempts at piousness are meager at best, your attitude sucks, you truly seem to enjoy inciting and hurting others to make yourself feel better, you are certainly a poor judge of character AND I seriously doubt your wallet is all that fat - not as fat as your ego, that is.

OK, I'm bored with you now.  You may go.

I will die before I ever see you.What do you think for a buck you can get us woman to roll over and BARK.Said that in front of wrong LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!Don't EVER CALL ME!!You don't have enough money to see me you belong on BADBOY list!!!!  Grayeyed Nicole

"You sound as if you are salivating over some ladies who are not exactly the sharpest tools in the shed."

Nothing could be further from the truth.

And you were one of the intelligent providers I was taking about.  Guess I misjudged your reactions to this discussion.

If I owe anyone an apology, it would be you.

Fondly,
Loarthan

Well said Ms. Greyeyes.

"mear capital"?   I wunder wot dat meens!

Loarthan, now you got me going!!!!  Who is the real Yahoo here? You, who thrives on making baseless accusations, or someone like me and other hobbyists who say you are full of BS about a provider with whom they have had consistently excellent experiences.  If you think you can get away with insulting not only the innocent providers, but also people who can vouch for them, your are sadly mistaken my friend.  If anyone is holier than thou, it is you.  You seem to feel that you are somehow wronged by providers who post informative messages about their business related matters.  What is it to you if Crystal says she accidently deleted messages, if you never saw her before and have no intention of ever seeing her.  If by chance, you did send her a message that was accidently deleted, I am sure you can use your little fingers to send another message to her instead of bellyaching on this board.

I agree with you that this forum is not a serious thing.  But you are only looking at it from the hobbyists' point view.  For us, it is a short-lived trip to fantasy land as long as we have the discretionary means to afford it.  For many providers this is far more serious because they depend on it to survive and feed their families.  Your baseless accusations on in this forum could stop some of their potential clients from seeing some of the nice providers and deprive them of livelihood.  Get a life and go do other fun things if you have the means and time on hand instead of wasting the bandwidth of TER.

This is pure entertainment

Yep, we do take it too all seriously  BUT, I am one of the girls who sometimes accidently deletes mail.

Eh, give Ms. Crystal the benefit of the doubt, she is one hot shit!  

You two, Hotdog, I want you in my big buns, and Lo Lo, if we ever do meet I am going to smother you in my mammoth mammies till you scream UNCLE!

Kisses to all.  Go out and play, it's a nice day!

Kate

I usually try to avoid these flames, but this one is too much.
You could have been a man and simply apologized to Crystal for
including her in some bad experience you had with those that don't reply to their email.But instead you chose to be defensive
and hurl insults.
You postulate as an intelligent person and claim those are the only type you see.Well,anyone with half a brain can see the lady made an honest mistake.
I did think you where a real gentleman.Know everyone can see you for what you truly are,a pompous and conceited ass.
You may have good grammatical skills,but you know little about
humanity and nothing of humility.I can't recall where I read it,I think it was in Les Miserables,but I will always remember the words"There go I but by the grace of God".
It's plain to see why you are in this hobby.You are so contemptible that no woman could stand you unless you paid her an exorbitant fee.
You are a callous and shallow man with a lot of money and very little soul.You may change,but with egomaniacs like you it usually takes something catastrophic.

Interestingly, Aphrodisia took the time to email me privately.
At least one person has changed my mind about her.

Interestingly, the piling on continued for quite a while.

Thanks Aphrodisia, you showed real class.

Regards,
Loarthan

This post is from the same clown that stated a while back that the reason providers don't offer incalls in Cambridge is because the population is predominently gay.  I personally take what he says with a grain of salt.  If it weren't for this forum, he would probably have no social interaction at all.  He must be loads of fun at parties !

You will NEVER HAVE ME!  Sometimes all the money in the world can not buy you one of us if you are a known  A HOLE. I use to think you were better than that.I guess I was wrong. Showing your true colors huh Loarthan.

EST-CE-QUE VOUS AVEZ ETE EXAMINE  POUR LA RAGE RECEMMENT?VA TE FAIRE FOUTRE,FUMIER A L'HALEINE DE ROQUET!

VOUS ME RENDEZ MALADE !!! JE T'EMMERDE,ESPECE DE PORC A LA MANQUE!

Ann...I have enough trouble with English

I hope you didn't say anything too bad.

thirsty

But I'll say one thing right now in English.And that is as of right now I have one foot in Heaven and if and when I go I'll be sure to tell God when I arive To send this shit head right to hell when he dies.