The only problem with that is, about 99 % of the time you never get the outfit you requested.


Now I would love to see a lady who can wear an outfit like this:

It's not like she going to be wearing it all that long anyways.

I figure what makes her comfortable is fine with me.

I like to let the provider choose, as it let's her showcase her assets.  She should know how to dress to impress.  

I do believe that opening the door is like opening a present.

The wrapping should be interesting, the unwrapping pleasurable, and the present enjoyable.

I prefer more than a towel and less than a snow suit. Heels and stockings are always a plus for me when you are greeting me.  By the time we get comfortable only safety gear is approved clothing!

Do you prefer letting the provider pick what she would see you in and be surprised or are you more prone to making suggestions/requests based on your taste?

I'd rather be surprised...

....says: these will look so nice wrapped around a gentleman's back, or on the floor next to the bed!

  My issue with special requests, is that when traveling, the gentleman waits (even though I ask in advance) until the day of our date to make his request.  I always bring the garters, bustiers, lbd.s, etc, but then comes a request for "xyz".  I really hate having to say, I can do this, but not that, unless you would like to provide it.

  I know we don't wear much, but there is only so much room in a suitcase!

Hugs and Kisses

Stocking and heels are nice, but the shoes have to stay on ! ! !

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Shoes definately need I stay on. Wish I could find one then again I need to ask

I agree. We all have different moods on different days, and we all know what we look good in. I let the lady decide depending on her mood and her strengths.

The outfit is half way there.  Attitude is very sexy to me too.

http://thumbnails60.imagebam.com/16790/48e4c3167899445.jpg

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The clothes do not make the woman, they are just part of the introduction.  The woman, her personality, her charms, and performance make the session.

For the first visit with a lady, I always just go with the flow and never request anything. As you might expect, the lady chooses well and picks something that makes her look good and she is comfortable with. After I have seen a lady a few times, I might request an outfit that I particularly like (e.g., mini skirt, thigh high stockings, etc.)

Not bad, LC69, but I'd prefer that outfit in a material a little thicker and not quite as glossy, like in the Lady Anja and Lady Petra photos.

I'd prefer to know what she has, and if I like something in particular on her, request it.

What she thinks she looks good in is one thing. Suppose at her best she would not turn my head on Moody Street? Then I'd be opening the door on a consolation prize, a provider to settle for. A non-turn-on would be a non-session.

That would work for a sessionless date, AFAIAC. During such a date I could talk to her about what impressed me in an outfit. Of course this would mean paying for her time and company only, for at least one time.

You get past the first stage of the initial meeting. Gets you relaxed & more comfortable to suggestions and ideas to help enhance the mood for the next meeting.

Sometimes the requests you make help us step out the norm and try something new we never knew would compliment our bodies. Contrary to what most guys think we do value and love your inputs

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What we wear shows our confidence level among many other things. Most men I know are visually stimulated so the present always has to be picture perfect for that wonderful moment.

This link:

http://www.fetishlady-anja.de/start.htm

has links to these HQ samples:

http://www.fetishlady-anja.de/preview7/le140/p-lederx2729p.jpg
http://www.fetishlady-anja.de/preview7/le139/a-p-leder4309p.JPG

More at home in the BDSM forum, of course.

This was My fav shot