Take it from me, she doesnt or cant keep up with all her appointment requests.
Tiz why she could use an assist....AGAIN.
Not a put down of her, just a fact.
I know from experience, how much time is involved in making sure the appointment is a done deal.
Hey, but it's part of the biz. We all have things about our job we don't like, but they have to be done.
Them , I have. Client who a upset I won't return a gift he d given me for our over night, along with two hundred bux. So nine hundred , I liked him. But I a, fallin behind and
Canceled a discounted over night we d planned, .i alsoromised to return gift I don't want anyroblema I just want to work n get caught up n not do any discounts these next few weeks with my AT&T who h he was. U til I see. The threat s he sent on my voicemail to send fifteen his friends to all give,e terrible reviews. I didn't argue I d return iPad. I just can't handle another discounted overnight I am tired n owe rent, and am being generous as I can to clie to that
Are good to me, but.
Well if I get fifteen bad reviews like he claims he will do from all his friends in New Jersey,
I guess I will have to delete the account then,
And just use back page,
Any one have suggestions should I delete myrofile before he does this to me?
Any one have suggestions on what they did if this has happened to them.
I am guessing it be wise to delete myrofile before the mean fifteen reviews he has his friends about to post on me roll in, hmm. Decisions decisions,
What a life!
Don't let him bully you. Even if he could accomplish something like that, you've already put it out here.
Save the emails where he's threatened you. Your true clientele will know better. I'm sure you have plenty of regulars who would know what's up. It's amazing how some people have no regard for your sanity or whether or not you pay your bills!
If you have a blog or a website, you have the means/platform to explain your side of the story. He will most likely be emailing tomorrow saying how sorry he is after he realizes what a dick he was about it. This is yet another reason why I don't ever do discounts. Never ever ever. It just causes troubles like this.
Your much better than this and no worries.
This was just posted to the NY Board: "Client threatens me with bad review because I can't remember him to give reference!," Posted 5/8/2013 at 5:54:55 PM
Even tho' I only know you from here on the Boston board (and some PMs and emails) there is NO WAY I'd believe a bunch of bad reviews from a bunch of guys who only (mostly) review girls in NJ
Don't ;et anybody bully you in the hobby. Report to Mods.
no one is going to give u any bad reviews angel. my temper got the best of me and only u know the truth and why. u changed ur rates and availability in a 6 hr period 4 times, from dont want to see u again, to 1000 for one nite, to 700 for please stay whole weekend to 1500 for one nite, take it or leave it. so i left it and lost it. everyone has a breaking point including urself like last nite breaking my ipad in a million pieces and sending me pix. so lets keep our dirty laundry to ourselfs and walk away with some dignity. never mind the fact that uve been calling me ur boyfriend for 5 weeks. All u needed to say was i need some money to pay bills.
Well I must say it was a class act to post this...
Just let it go and move on...many other fish in the sea.
Hopefully you BOTH have learned a lesson from this
I agree.
You have shown maturity, lets hope Angel does as well.
I give the gentleman a lot of credit to answering the allegations out in the open and apologizing for his part. I hope you can both move on and make things right mistakes happen and no need for anyone to get hurt. Angel you have a great reputation on this board so don't worry and move on..
I would say don't fret about it and certainly don't pull your profile in advance of what someone could do and don't delete your profile even if they attempt to manipulate it.
Anyone can say anything untrue at anytime on the internet- and people who aren't Nervous Normans understand this.
Just make your response or communicate with TER in the event it happens and it will likely quickly be resolved and/or simply have negligible impact.
Just by the information included post I do not understand what transpired between you and the client which caused him to become so unhappy that he would make that threat. Did you agree to a series of discounted overnights in exchange for prepayment or the gift and you are now unable to provide the service? Don't run from the problem, solve it. If you made a promise you cannot keep then give back the original payment/gifts. If he is still unreasonable after that because he is unhappy it simply did not work out...well, tempers flair and then they subside.
Just keep calm and find a resolution ♕ : )
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You have an excellent reputation as a solid provider so take a deep breath and don't get frazzled over it. He wants you to feel threatened. Please don't going pulling your reviews and profile, those are part of your business and validate your credibility. You had a deal, he has some sort of remorse or his head up his arse. Put him on your DNS list and take the aforementioned advice. You will be just fine. I wouldn't go back and forth with anyone who pulled this garbage or anything of the sort. Simply put him on your ignore list and don't correspond any further. He wants your attention and to wield his own issues and/or power over you. Don't even go there, it's a simple "no thank you" "We aren't a good fit" and be done with it.
Take care and sunnier days are ahead!
Grace
These board are here to help hob bluest and providers meet and help each other stay safe, there is no place for threats or blackmail, he has a right to negatively review you unfortunately as he saw and paid for a session but that is where it stops, after that he is abusing the privilege of being on the board and trying hurt your business by lying to us his fellow hobbiest totally uncool he needs to leave this community now or at least be exposed so we can collectively ignore him
Hey Angel, This is H. hint...last Sunday last minute, Fritos and pretzels...sorry to hear of the bully. You have to be careful out there, rock star. Get a hint of crazy from a hobbyist and you have to do 2 things. 1) Improve your screening big time; and 2) Rule: no discounts no exceptions and no gifts for services, only extras.
Angel, you are a well known gem around here. Any threats against you (besides just posting a bad review) are not acceptable. Doesn't matter if an iPad got broken or a deposit was not returned. The onus is on the guy to make the proper choices. If he blows it and is not happy, he can write a bad review, but that's it.
Don't let him or anyone else intimidate you. A real man would never treat a woman that way, no matter the circumstances.
Stay positive. There are plenty of good apples around here too
We heard his side of the story on the GD board.
Bottom line, keep biz, biz....make the appointment, get your quoted rate, service the client and then send him on his way.
If your looking for a BF, get out of the biz and do it.
Find a good man who will love and take care of you, have some babies and enjoy a normal life.
If not, keep biz, biz, or your gonna be outta biz.
Angel,
It sounds like things got out of hand on both sides. One thing to always remember is that you're a good person and never ever let someone hurt you.
As you know he has just as much to lose in any blackmail theat as you do! You both don't want to got there because NOBODY WINS!! Sometime you just need to walk away!!
Use your friends on TER to help you, screen really well and be Safe.
He apologized.
Haven't heard a peep from her?
It sounds like things got out of hand on both sides. One thing to always remember is that you're a good person and never ever let someone hurt you.
As you know he has just as much to lose in any blackmail theat as you do! You both don't want to got there because NOBODY WINS!! Sometime you just need to walk away!!
Use your friends on TER to help you, screen really well and be Safe.
She actually called a short while ago and apologized. She can't post on here cuz her (my) iPad is in a million pieces. So until she gets a new computer u probably won't be seeing her on board. U wont be seeing me either ( until she bashes me again) sorry for drama
Was the ipad a gift to her?
Why would she bash u again?
Bro, u do know their are other ladies in Boston, don't you.
Sure it would be hard to walk away from someone as hot as Angel, but, atleast for now, it would be a wise decision.
Yes it was a gift but with an agreement. Was kidding about bashing. But u never no with angel!
A temper, for sure.
Who knows where the anger comes from?
Sad really.
stuff happens and he replied to this post, and he took his responsibility and said he was wrong and further that no one would post negative things. likley it never should have happended in the first place. i have not see angel yet but i am going too. honestly angel, i had booked with you and then i guess did not have an app when i drove to your incall townt; i think somethimes your communication is not clear; no big deal stuff happens to all of us. one member said, no discounts and better screening, i think that is wise, and i know you work alone so it must be hard. good luck and move forward as you have a very good rep on this board.
Take it from me, she doesnt or cant keep up with all her appointment requests.
Tiz why she could use an assist....AGAIN.
Not a put down of her, just a fact.
I know from experience, how much time is involved in making sure the appointment is a done deal.
Hey, but it's part of the biz. We all have things about our job we don't like, but they have to be done.
mainly to check emails ect. thanks for advice insites ect.
we have resolved the issue and I feel i was wrong and am going to make amends, I always do. Any one I have canceled on always knows I value my cumstomers and usually will offer a free massage if they choose to even bother to reschedule.
I do handle all my own screenings and I also DONT work if not in perfect mood with everything perfect.
Id rather be known as the girl that cancels than the girl who doesnt give a flyin fuck if the clients enjoy themseloves n gets terriboe revioews from working when I feel down or sad or tired.
I do try n make sure my mood is just right ect ect for the appts n work n this is why the majority great deal the time things do go quite well!
as you all know i did lose everything I owned and get int5oi seriuos trouboe sevral years ago i am tryn to rebuild a home clothes life.
yes i get overwhelmed n everything i ow2n u see in my apt is things i worked myt ass off and bought in past 2 years or was donated t5o me by friends. to help.
if any one were in my whoes theyd also have a few melt downs here n again, i do the best i can with what i have nj when i am wrong i make it up t people by pffe3ring massages n maybe xtra time, its allk i can do. i realize there are fifty other ;adies u guys can go see n not have any drama so all i can do is offer to be generous n give a xtraq masdsage here n there or whatever. i know i also get entangled with clients before n it was very bad n this is why they warn u to not go doin that, its gets very very confusing, .
regardless we did 2 overnights n he spent three grand , and i should be very grateful as i do have a ridsiculous legitimate attraction to him . tattooes yopung sexy nice, . so any ways,
we have resolved issue, and i always try n be good to the ones i have good chemistry with, makes work notnfeel like work any more when your legitimatel;y crazy about all your regulars, but her was generous n nice n i always go back n forth w rates it is what it is, i cant help it,.