I see non-pro's/sugarbaby types almost exclusively and so I do not really have any references from any Pros.  I've seen a couple of Pro's in my day but none in several years and I was told that I needed to give either a recent reference (within the past 6 months) or I had to verify my occupation and give my full name.

I wouldn't have any problem giving out my full name or where I work to someone I knew I could trust but the two ladies I am interested (who I found as posters on this board) I do not know at all except from their reviews.  I own my own business so my company name is also happens to be my last name. I am not married or attached but I am wondering if giving out my personal information could have some consequences.  Any thoughts on this or an alternative way to show one of these two providers that I am a safe bet?

I would love to hear from a provider or hobbyist who has some experience with this.

I have a ton of experiences with Sugarbaby types but I'm new to dealing with providers.

And I simply ask for a generic vague email from their work account to verify that they are who they say they are if they don't have a recent reference. It's completely normal, and if she is well reviewed, I wouldn't worry too much. You can contact some of her previous reviewers and ask how discreet she is in verifying via work info.

Just being honest, There are some that see newbies that you may not have wanted
to be with but they were pros. You then kind of have to work your way up to the "Experts"!

It wasn't easy but all the chicks love me now.

You give your information to them.  They check you out.  They destroy your information.

Hundreds of providers accept P411.  It's like the "Good Housekeeping Seal of Hobbyland Approval".

Yes, but I've seen several providers on P411 also require references.  Are you referring to those that state "Newbie Friendly"? There doesn't seem to be very many of those but I'm not a P411 member.

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"Basic P411" will get you enough of a selection to get started.  Ask your first date to "okay" you on P411.  Each "okay" is as good as a reference, without the hassle of going thru the process.  Just a few simple clicks for any girl using p411 to give an okay.

Currently 11.190 providers listed on P411.  Currently 213 advertising under Massachusetts.  P411 has proven a fast and easy way for me to pre-screen with touring providers.  I read the Mass ad board to see who is coming and have found many great girls this way.

Good info DT...TNX

I try hard to find a way to approve each and every gentlemen, but when all is said and done, my safety has to be my number one concern.  If I can verify a real name and place of employment via the internet, I will do that, and not call or compromise you in any way.  I accept P411, date-check and Room Service 2000, along with some basic information. I need enough to satisfy myself that you are safe, sane and reliable.  My standards are not as strict as some, but I refuse to jeopardize my safety based upon your word alone that you are safe.

No so much from LE but to keep the girls safe from someone who has bad intentions. When someone is not a complete stranger to the service they are less likely to do something harmful. I realize we sometimes losse good clients who just do not feel comfortable providing info about themselves. I understand but i hope you understand that our first obligation is to keep the women who work with us safe. That is why we have some of the nicest girls in Boston working for Boston International