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Re: I prefer dates like this!
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I love this! I think it is wonderful when the lines between fantasy and reality cross. When chemistry is discovered and friendships evolve. When time spent together is mutually enjoyable and you reach that place where your friendship in considered special.  I've always wanted to be a BFE! LOL! I have never taken the time to travel as it has been described, but with this conversation and winter coming on, I'm doing a little tropical daydreaming.

Just came back from a delightful 3-day trip with a favorite client. (I'm referring to this, with some disguise, with his permission.)

Had a wonderful time at his reunion at a well-known university, out-of-state. We sat with other couples, mostly married, at meals. I was introduced by first name only. Everyone there assumed wife, daughter or GF, I'm sure.

I loved the conversation and socialization, and I'm happy he feels I fit in well there.

Viewed narrowly and just financially, maybe it would have been better to stay home and maybe see 1 or 2 clients each day. Obviously, we negotiated a package rate, rather than any hourly fee, for that much time.

I'm so happy we did this. Life is about so much more than just money. I enjoyed this assignment so much. It really felt like, and was,  a vacation with a friend.

How have other providers who've done this handled it? How do you feel?

Guys, have you ever booked a multi-day appointment? How did it work out for you? Were you glad you did it?

Katherine

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-- Modified on 10/21/2008 8:49:59 PM

Sounds like a good time for you both. Glad you enjoyed it.

I'm guessing that few guys have booked a multi-day appointment. Many don't even get to do a single overnighter. So far, I haven't, though I'd like to someday. Even with a financial arrangement that is fair to both, like you seem to have worked out, it still represents a very large sum of cash. Lots of people either don't have it, or it might be their "hobby budget" for 6 months and they don't want to spend it in a single weekend.

The biggest luxury would be having the money to afford lots of wonderfully leisurely time before and after the intimacy. Time without a ticking clock, to relax and get to know a lady even more.

Sure, I've done it.  It was great fun and I would definitely do it again.  The key is the chemistry between the two folks involved. Spending time together with a woman in positions other than naked and horizontal involves a lot more than having the cash to afford it. Trust and compatibility come immediately to mind. Communication and honesty is key.

There are not that many women that I have known in the hobby that I would do an extended trip with and I would never do it with a gal that I had not known for a while and felt very comfortable with. With the right lady the experience can be fantastic!

I have a very good client that sees me every 6-8 weeks for either a long weekend or extended 4-5 days. I usually garner $1200-$1500 per day. That is a lot less than my standard overnight rate because I love longer appointments, especially if I get along good with the gentleman.

I would entertain the idea of doing this with other gentlemen if I had the time but of course the rate structure would depend on the individual. I of course get treated to a luxury hotel, meals and great shopping when I am with my current guy so it is much more like a sd/sb relationship which I thoroughly enjoy.

~Rae

I see very few people and those I do see are special to me.  I have done a few trips like the one you describe and find the time to be both enjoyable and rewarding for both parties involved.  This is what friends do.  Any perks that go along with this would be between two consenting adults.  No one else's business.

I have to agree as long as the chemistry is there. I have a terrific young lady going to Maui with me for 10 days who loves to party and is insatiable.

So anyone who is lucky enough for this kind of arrangement, enjoy it.

Maui

I think that is awesome. I know there are standard rates that a lot of girls go by for the hr and overnight but I am really happy to lower my donation significantly for longer dates. I think it is so much funner.

I agree with you, and since all the overnights I have done have been with some of my atf Gents it was a pleasure in so many ways, the lower rates are cool with me and never an issue.

tedebearable1152 reads

I love this! I think it is wonderful when the lines between fantasy and reality cross. When chemistry is discovered and friendships evolve. When time spent together is mutually enjoyable and you reach that place where your friendship in considered special.  I've always wanted to be a BFE! LOL! I have never taken the time to travel as it has been described, but with this conversation and winter coming on, I'm doing a little tropical daydreaming.

But I will only travel with someone I have gotten to know pretty well.

Off to a couple of warm balmy places with a "great friend" next week.  We make perfect travel companions.

There is a slight awkwardness about meeting other couples along the way (such as a cruise) so it's best to discuss up front how you would like to present yourselves.  Also, make sure you think about what you'll say if folks ask what you do for a living or about how you met!

I have to say that I prefer multi day trips to one nighters so we have time to relax.

Glad there is someone else out here who has found the delights of traveling with client friends.  It's definitely a win-win situation- provided you're not a high maintenance type of lady.  

Enjoy!

Kate

-- Modified on 10/22/2008 4:44:33 PM

Just returned recently from overseas and had a fabulous time!!!  (beautiful beaches, blue waters and great people!)

It felt like visiting an old boyfriend.  Since we talked every weekend two months before our 4 day date, it made me more excited everyday.  I obviously charged him a daily reduced rate.

It was exhilirating!  I am glad you had fun!

Sloane

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Have done this quite a few times. I don't get the chance to play often so when I do it tends to be multi-day engagements. Have never spent more than an overnight on a first meeting since multi-day with no chemistry would be painful. Once I know there is chemistry it is more or less standard.

As others have mentioned the rates for multi-days are at a considerable discount from even an overnight rate.

As far as meeting other people along the way, by the time we are on a multi-day the odds are pretty good we know quite a bit about each other including real names, etc. (Often we are both registered at the hotel). we just travel as BF/GF

-- Modified on 10/22/2008 8:44:45 PM

I would like to thank everyone who responded to this post. It is always interesting to see how other people feel about certain topics and, how other people spend time with their companions.  

Some of you pointed out that it might be very expensive to arrange this type of weekend trip.  I think you would be surprised at what a reasonable rate can be negotiated.  

I just thought I would let everyone know that I will be available for incalls today-Thursday.  It came as a surprise but, a friend helped me arrange it.  I hope that I am able to meet some of you who can not be available for outcalls.  Anyone interested can call me. I look forward to meeting some new and interesting people.  

Katherine

I had previously mentioned that I would be able to meet for incalls today.  People needed more time as I can obvously see now to try and meet me.  I am going to move this date up to Friday all day and Sat. until noon.  I hope this makes more of you available.  Thanks Katherine

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