I don't know what's up with my luck lately, I've been blown off by providers on 2 of my last 3 appointments.  

I had an appointment this morning with a well known provider with a good reputation and reviews, set the appointment for 10 AM a few days ago, confirmed via text last night, thought all was good.

Drove all the way to downtown Boston, arrived on time, texted (she requests text only) that I was parking at 10:01 AM, no reply, texted that I was at hotel at 10:05 AM, no reply.  I waited around for 20 minutes , nothing, no contact so I left.

I've still not heard anything, not even a "hey, sorry I slept in by accident" or something like that.

Kind of frustrating, am I wrong to expect an apology, even if it's just by text?

You say she is reviewed here? I would expect any provider to be very concerned about her reputation here.. there have been wars in the past..

she owes you an explanation & apology.

If neither happens, put her on your "no repeat" list.

That's what this is for... so we don't waste time, money or be with risky chicks.

You can't review someone you have not actually met.  You can review bait and switch even if you turn around and leave because you've seen her.  You can't review a no show.

Outing her on the boards is a possibility but might lead to retaliation by her.  If guys want to know who it is, they can ask via PM.

I suggest waiting a day or two for her to contact you by text or email and find out what excuse she is using.  ("My phone fell into the toilet at 9:55.")

She definitely owes you an apology and, I would think, more

Use your secondary alias, that should help you to avoid retaliation. I never did myself, never had a need to but I've seen reviewers doing that.

I emailed her this morning and it sounds like it was an honest mistake, we're going to work something out for a future visit

And what would a honest mistake be? So you drove in to the city for a no show and then post the next day that you heard from her. ???

Screw me once....