For those who read the below thread, I started I new one so all could seem

My phone was off because it died, but I got a sweet and apologetic message from the provider in question. She apparently got a bad vibe saying she hadn't gone through the full screening process with me and got a bit freaked out.

The situation could of been avoided but I can understand, I'm sure everyone has the bad vibes on either side of the door. She also offered to meet again for free.

I think its just part of the hobby.